The document provides an overview of emotional intelligence and managing emotions. It discusses that emotions have cognitive, physical, and behavioral components. Positive emotions can motivate us while negative emotions can reduce efficiency. Emotional intelligence involves identifying, understanding, using, and managing emotions. It also discusses celebrating emotions but also knowing how to properly manage them through steps like noticing, identifying, and discerning emotions and then taking appropriate actions. The document emphasizes that emotional well-being comes from managing rather than ignoring emotions.
The document provides an overview of emotional intelligence and managing emotions. It discusses that emotions have cognitive, physical, and behavioral components. Positive emotions can motivate us while negative emotions can reduce efficiency. Emotional intelligence involves identifying, understanding, using, and managing emotions. It also discusses celebrating emotions but also knowing how to properly manage them through steps like noticing, identifying, and discerning emotions and then taking appropriate actions. The document emphasizes that emotional well-being comes from managing rather than ignoring emotions.
The document provides an overview of emotional intelligence and managing emotions. It discusses that emotions have cognitive, physical, and behavioral components. Positive emotions can motivate us while negative emotions can reduce efficiency. Emotional intelligence involves identifying, understanding, using, and managing emotions. It also discusses celebrating emotions but also knowing how to properly manage them through steps like noticing, identifying, and discerning emotions and then taking appropriate actions. The document emphasizes that emotional well-being comes from managing rather than ignoring emotions.
The document provides an overview of emotional intelligence and managing emotions. It discusses that emotions have cognitive, physical, and behavioral components. Positive emotions can motivate us while negative emotions can reduce efficiency. Emotional intelligence involves identifying, understanding, using, and managing emotions. It also discusses celebrating emotions but also knowing how to properly manage them through steps like noticing, identifying, and discerning emotions and then taking appropriate actions. The document emphasizes that emotional well-being comes from managing rather than ignoring emotions.
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The key takeaways are that emotions have cognitive, physical and behavioral components and can be measured in various ways. Developing emotional intelligence involves identifying, understanding, using and managing one's emotions.
The three components of emotions are the cognitive, physical and behavioral components.
Positive emotions include happiness, love, joy, hope and excitement. Negative emotions include anger, rage, boredom and disgust.
Prayer Before Study
Lord, true source of light and wisdom, give me a
keen sense of understanding, a retentive memory, and the capacity to grasp things correctly. Grant me the grace to be accurate in my expositions and the skill to express myself with thoroughness and clarity. Be with me at the start of my work, guide its progress and bring it to completion. Grant this through Christ our Lord. Amen. Personal Development Lesson 8: Emotional Intelligence Emotion Emotion is your reaction to any stimulus and comes from your limbic system, the area in your brain that reacts automatically to the world around you without your rational thought or reasoning (Hasson, 2012). All emotions have reasons as to why you feel them. Emotions include
Three aspects or components:
• Cognitive, • Physical, • Behavioral . Three aspects or components of Emotions: 1.Cognitive component refers to the person’s appraisal of the situation. So, when you interpret an experience as threatening, negative emotions such as Fear, anger, or anxiety may be felt. 2.Physical component is the body’s reaction to feelings or emotions. When you are anxious, your heartbeat becomes faster, or you may even experience fainting. 3.Behavioral component is the action tendency to deal with certain emotions such as evading a frightening situation or leaving unfinished tasks because of boredom. Emotions are measured through: Self-report instruments or psychological tests. They can also be measured through physiological ways such as monitoring blood pressure, heart beat, sweating of palms, and even through blood chemistry and brain activities. Emotions are measured through behavioral manifestations such as facial expressions and tone of the voice. To illustrate, you do not talk to people when you are angry, or you leave unfinished tasks when you are bored. There are different types of emotions: Positive emotions may help you become more motivated in doing your tasks; they may even develop your creativity or establish harmonious relationships, with others. Positive emotions are also associated with good physical and psychological conditions. Some of the positive emotions are happiness, love, joy, hope, and excitement. Negative emotions, such as anger, rage, boredom, and disgust, may reduce your efficiency and even your motivation to perform certain tasks. However, when emotions are too strong and we lose control of handling our feelings, our thoughts and even our actions are affected. Thus, we must know how to manage our emotions. • Your emotions tell you when something is wrong. When you feel that something is not right, listen to your body. Your intuition we may be guiding you on what to do in a particular situation. • More so, your emotions allow you to maintain and develop your relationships into meaningful ones. Emotions that we usually call negative, such as shame, guilt, and pride, allow us to realize that we have done our friends wrong and that we need to make amends. Positive emotions, on the other hand, such as feeling accepted or understood, warm our hearts and make us value our relationships. Such emotions enable us to respond lovingly and supportively. • Hence, emotions are important because they create in us the opportunities to see things meaningfully. We see purpose in our lives and become more capable of making and implementing choices. • Finally, your emotions bring out your feelings of self-respect and self-worth. The more that you feel good about yourself, the more open you are in experiencing the marvels and challenges of life. In doing so, you allow yourself to realize your potentials to the fullest. And so, you let yourself be you and celebrate your emotions. Managing Emotions Celebrating your emotions is important. However, there is no point in celebrating them if we do not know how to manage them well. Hence, dealing with emotions is important in life. Emotions are so powerful—they can make or break an individual.
notice and be aware of your emotions.
identify and name what you feel. owning and accepting what you feel. discernment and appropriation. take the appropriate action or steps. The Nature and Importance of Emotional Intelligence Emotional intelligence is the capacity to understand and manage emotions. According to Daniel Goleman, one of the proponents of emotional intelligence, emotional intelligence includes the individual's ability to motivate oneself despite frustrations, the capacity to control impulses, and the ability to empathize with others. Thus, an emotionally intelligent person is not only capable of recognizing his or her feelings but is also competent in identifying how various emotions affect him or her. TO BE EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT, YOU NEED TO KNOW HOW TO: identify, understand, use, and manage your emotions (Hasson, 2012). Identifying an emotion simply means naming or describing it. This, however, involves identifying the biological, cognitive, and behavioral makeup. • Identification includes: how your body reacts to the cause (e.g., heart pounding, hands sweating, changing tone of your voice). Being keen to bodily manifestations will allow you to determine the intensity of how you feel the emotion. Also, you need to know what your thoughts are that triggered the emotion or vice versa. You need to determine how you express your emotion, how often do you feel it, how you express it, and what its consequences are, so that you may know how appropriate you have emotionally responded to a situation. Understanding emotions means making sense and meaning of what you feel. To do so, you need to know the reason that you feel the emotion. What specific need you want to satisfy or what motivates you to feel it Using your emotions means drawing on your emotions to direct your actions, make decisions, and work with your reason to your advantage. In doing so, you may create your mood. Your mood is different from your emotions, but it is relative to what you feel about your present situation. Finally, Managing what you feel does not mean controlling it by dominating or suppressing it. Rather, managing your emotions entails skill and flexibility to do so. Emotional Well-being is attained only through knowing how to manage your emotions and not by ignoring the “negative” ones; rather, it is by knowing that all emotions have positive intent and may be used to your advantage. DOMINICAN BLESSING May God the Father bless us. May God the Son heal us. May the Holy Spirit enlighten us and give us eyes to see with, ears to hear with, and hands to do the work of God with, feet to walk with, and a mouth to preach the word of salvation with, and the angel of peace to watch over us and lead us at last, by our Lord’s gift, to the kingdom. Amen. END