And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. Matthew 22:39 A counseling session back in April of last year was a turning point for me in many ways, and it gave me a new way of looking at a familiar Bible verse: Matthew 22:39. We've all heard it. It's the one where Jesus tells us that the second most important commandment is to love our neighbors as we love ourselves. The word we overlook far too often in that verse is "as." Love your neighbor AS you love yourself. To do…