Wanting closure from a breakup is an excuse to keep you from moving forward with your life. Here's how to get over him without waiting around.

A closure is a psychological need after a breakup. Without it, you will never understand what the relationship taught you. How to get a closure and move on to new possibilities?

Here is why moving on without closure can also lead to emotional growth and personal freedom after a breakup or difficult situation.

No, you don't need closure - what you need is to love yourself enough to create your own closure and move on from the person who didn't care enough to give you an explanation for their poor choices and bad behavior. An "explanation" isn't going to lessen the hurt, make the pain go away, or transform them into a better person who is suddenly going to do right by you. It's just the BS story you tell yourself so you can keep the door open for them to come back and do it all over again.

It's hard to move on without closure, so it often feels like you're stumbling through your thoughts, unsure what to think or do.

My Positive Outlooks on Instagram: "Wanting closure is natural, but it's also okay to find closure in how they treated you. You can desire an apology, but it's fine to move on without it. You have the power to decide how much control they have over your healing. #ClosureChoices #EmpowerYourself #HealingJourney #SelfCare #PersonalGrowth #MovingForward #YourHealingYourWay #TakeControl"

Are you wondering how to move forward after spending 33 years with your husband? It's natural to feel lost, but remember that you are stronger than you think. Take it one step at a time, surround yourself with loved ones, and focus on self-care. Embrace this new chapter as an opportunity to rediscover yourself and create the life you deserve. You have the strength to navigate this change and emerge even more resilient. Trust in your ability to heal and grow during this challenging time.