I can cut you off and still love you. I can stop speaking to you and still care for you. I can let you go and still wish you the best. If I leave you alone, it’s not to be bitter or petty, It’s for my own good. If I let you go, it’s because I need to be happy, with or without you in my life. #selflove #stillloveyou

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