Stephanie Carinia on Instagram: "How do we develop Codependency? When as a child our emotionally immature parent expected their child to be the parent they never had, filling up their childhood void of feeling seen & cared for. The child will be rejected and punished when daring to express needs of their own. And will be loved when taking emotional care of the parent. Example: A child comes home upset from dad’s (parents divorced) and is upset, instead of comforting/ helping to regulate her…

There are four different types of emotionally immature parents, but at the root of each type is poor emotional development, a lack of relational skills, self-centeredness, and a struggle to develop deep emotional intimacy with their children. If you have an emotionally immature parent, it is wise to exercise discernment regarding the things you share with them. Have boundaries, and remember that some things are not your parents’ business.

There are four different types of emotionally immature parents, but at the root of each type is poor emotional development, a lack of relational skills, self-centeredness, and a struggle to develop deep emotional intimacy with their children. If you have an emotionally immature parent, it is wise to exercise discernment regarding the things you share with them. Have boundaries, and remember that some things are not your parents’ business.

Growing up with emotionally immature parents can leave lasting marks, often influencing our behaviors in ways we don’t even recognize. This influence isn’t about choice. When your parents are emotionally […] More