Source: My computer. I can't remember where I got this from. I feel like my dead husband has become my imaginary friend. I still tell him about my day. I still rant, cry and laugh about my day with him. I tell him my secrets, whisper to him in the dark. I will remember something funny he did, and laugh out loud, usually in the most awkward situations. And say “Remember that time you were showing my brother how cool your new lantern was, and you lit yourself on fire?? That was hilarious!” I…

— You Don’t Just Lose Someone Once — You lose them over and over, sometimes many times a day. When the loss, momentarily forgotten, creeps up, and attacks you from behind. Fresh waves of grief as the realization hits home, they are gone. Again. You don’t just lose someone once, you lose them every time you open your eyes to a new dawn, and as you awaken, so does your memory, so does the jolting bolt of lightning that rips into your heart, they are gone. Again. Losing someone is a journey…

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They say you can’t lose something you never had. But, what do they know? They have never been in a situation when they were afraid of losing someone who was never theirs, nor did they face the pain after it had happened. #thinkaloud #pasts #properly #lovequotes #love #loveit #lovely #loveher #loveyou #loveyourself #lovehim #adorable #amor #life #bae #beautiful #couple #coupleblog #couplegoals #couples #cutecouple #cutelove #cuterelationship #feelings #forever #friends #friendship

We both lost the same thing. Me. When it ends, it’s not just about losing the other person. Sometimes, the real loss is yourself. 💔 One side loses someone who cared, but the other? They can’t lose what they never had. The hardest part is knowing that you didn’t lose them—you lost the version of you that loved too hard, cared too much, and held on for too long. 🥀 That’s where the pain really is. If you’ve ever felt this, you’re not alone. 🤍 Like, share, and follow if you can relate…