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Bullying is serious
27 per cent of young people report they are bullied every two weeks or more often. Cyberbullying happens to about 1 in 10 Australian young people every few weeks or more often. Many young people who bully online also bully face to face. Some young people who are bullied later go on to engage in bullying others. Bullying can seriously damage physical, social and emotional health. Bullying hurts the perpetrator as well. Young people who bully over time are more likely to engage in ongoing anti-social behaviour and criminality, have issues with substance abuse, demonstrate low academic achievement and be involved in future child and spouse abuse.
Who can help?

Kids Helpline 1800 551 800 www.kidshelp.com.au Cybersafety help www.cybersmart.gov.au/report.aspx Australian Federal Police www.afp.gov.au Reach Out www.reachout.com.au Beyondblue www.beyondblue.org.au Bullying. No way! www.bullyingnoway.com.au The Australian Psychological Society www.psychology.org.au To download an electronic version of this brochure, visit the National Centre Against Bullying (NCAB) website: www.ncab.org.au
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The Alannah and Madeline Foundation is a national charity keeping children safe from violence. The Foundation was set up in memory of Alannah and Madeline Mikac, aged six and three, who along with their mother and 32 others were tragically killed at Port Arthur, Tasmania on 28 April 1996. The Alannah and Madeline Foundation PO Box 5192 South Melbourne Vic 3205 t (03) 9697 0666 f 03 9690 5644 e info@amf.org.au w amf.org.au
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What is bullying?
Bullying is when someone or a group of people with more power repeatedly and intentionally causes hurt or harm to another person or group of people who feel helpless to respond. Bullying can continue over time, is often hidden from adults and will probably continue if no action is taken. Bullying isnt:
Things you can do if your child is being bullied

1. Listen Try to listen to the whole story without interrupting. Be empathic, calm and validate what is being said. Ask what your child would like to happen, before you make suggestions. 2. Talk Have a conversation about what happened. Try not to make the conversation intense or you might deter your child from talking to you. Remind your child its normal to feel hurt, its never OK to be bullied, and its NOT their fault. 3. Find out what is happening Note what, when and where the bullying occurred, who was involved, how often and if anybody else witnessed it. Dont offer to confront the person yourself. 4. Contact the school Check your schools bullying policy. Find out if the school is aware of the bullying and whether anything has been done to address the situation. Make an appointment to speak to your childs teacher or coordinator. Try to make a follow-up appointment to ensure the situation is being addressed. 5. Give sensible advice Encourage your child not to fight back, but coach them to use neutral or, if appropriate, joking language in response. Help them explore other possible responses.
single episodes of social rejection or dislike single episode acts of nastiness or spite random acts of aggression or intimidation mutual arguments, disagreements or fights.
Types of bullying
The Department of Education and Early Childhood Developments Building Respectful and Safe Schools (2010) identifies four types of bullying. 1. Physical bullying includes hitting, kicking, tripping, pinching and pushing or damaging property. 2. Verbal bullying includes name calling, insults, teasing, intimidation, homophobic or racist remarks, or verbal abuse. 3. Covert bullying is often harder to recognise and can be carried out behind the bullied persons back. It is designed to harm someones social reputation and/or cause humiliation. Covert bullying includes:
Signs that your child might be being bullied

Its not always easy to tell if a young person is being bullied, as sometimes they dont want to disclose whats happening to them. If you notice a significant change in behaviour, this could be cause for concern. Other signs can include changes to mood or eating and sleep patterns; withdrawal from family, social groups or friends; decline in school performance or unwillingness to attend; lost, torn or broken belongings; scratches or bruises, or implausible excuses for any of the above.
lying and spreading rumours negative facial or physical gestures, menacing or

contemptuous looks
What to do if your child is bullying others

Stay calm. Remember, the behaviour is at fault, rather than the child. Make sure your child knows bullying behaviour is inappropriate and why. has behaved in this way and look for ways to address problems.
Tell them that the behaviour was intentional and it

wont just go away.
Explain its safer to avoid people, places or situations

that could expose them to further bullying. from school, explain that it wont help and may make things worse. make opportunities for them to join other groups of young people e.g. clubs at school or other groups outside of school time.
playing nasty jokes to embarrass and humiliate mimicking unkindly encouraging others to socially exclude someone damaging someones social reputation or social
acceptance.
If your child asks to stay home
Try to understand the reasons why your child

Encourage your child to look at it from the others perspective, for example, how would you feel if Help your child think of alternative paths of action. Provide appropriate boundaries for their behaviour.
If possible, help to
4. Cyberbullying is overt or covert bullying behaviours using digital technologies. Examples include harassment via a mobile phone, setting up a defamatory personal website or deliberately excluding someone from social networking spaces. Cyberbullying can happen at any time. It can be in public or in private, and sometimes only known to the target and the person bullying.

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Bullying is serious

Who can help?

Things you can do if your child is being bullied

Signs that your child might be being bullied

lying and spreading rumours negative facial or physical gestures, menacing or

What to do if your child is bullying others

Tell them that the behaviour was intentional and it

Explain its safer to avoid people, places or situations

If your child asks to stay home

Try to understand the reasons why your child

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