Pussy Power
Pussy Power
Pussy Power
individuals that keep the system working. Men have grown increasingly bitter and
violent towards women, especially in recent years. Men and mens issues are
increasingly being worked on by feminists, while the manosphere, a group of
bloggers and sites devoted to bringing back ideas of male dominance, have
increased in popularity and virulence.
The widespread backlash to feminism began in the mid 2000s. Gender roles were
redefined as product and consumer. Clothing and makeup trends changed to reflect
the male gaze. Girls Gone Wild and pop acts such as The Pussycat Dolls began to
associate sex with passivity and getting approval from men. Men rewarded Women
that objectified themselves with approval and preferential treatment, compliments,
gifts, attention. Women and even young girls were encouraged to be sexual and to
see their appearance as the only thing of value. The old codes of male sexual
dominance, glorified in Fifty Shades of Grey and Twilight, are defended as legitimate
sexual kinks, which ignores that kinks cannot by definition be a societal trend. Men
mount crusades against pubic and body hair, humiliate women that send them
nudes on Twitter and slut shame girls as young as 11 in popular news publications.
To many women, feminism and sexual empowerment has become a fashion trend,
to many men this accessory has become a new way to objectify women and use
them to demonstrate their power in society which they lost in the aftermath of the
sexual revolution.
Men were re-centered in the conversation and culture and feminists have yet to
mount a response. Women used to be respected for their ability to give birth and
take care of the home, but now they are valued for nothing. It is assumed that
everything a woman can do, a man can do better. A woman is brought in simply
when there isnt a man to find to fulfill the role. In this culture of devaluation, the
message of female empowerment rings hollow. The goal of the female
empowerment narrative was to release women from their overly restrictive roles.
They needed to be freed from a repressive regime that limited their autonomy. That
isnt the issue now. The problem is devaluation. Women are assumed to be inferior.
Across the board men are seen as better leaders, more intelligent and more capable
to do any job. The idea of girl power isnt enough to counteract the feminist issues
of today. These ideas, which are rooted in bad science and bigotry, must be
eradicated, and feminism must elevate the discussion in order to address the
current power dynamic.