Tech Safety: Parenting Guide To

The
Parenting Guide To
TECH SAFETY
OUR WORLD GONE DIGITAL
has
Before
After
TEENS ARE MORE CONNECTED THAN EVER
90%
of teens
are online
Teens are online

an average of
5 hours every day.
Parents believe their

teens are online only
3 hours every day.
Hi! :)
Hello!
73%
37%
of teens are on a
social network.
send messages to
friends every day.
MONITORING is MANDATORY
THE DIGITAL ERA CAN BE A DANGEROUS PLACE...
Cyberbullying
Over 1/2
of teens have
been bullied
online.
UGLY!
#!*X
I HATE U!
Over 1/2
of teens have
engaged in
cyberbullying.
20%
Sexting
of teens have engaged in sexting
MESSAGING
30%
61%
have at least
one friend who has
sent nude or
semi-nude photos.
17%
who've sent
nude pictures
admit they were
pressured to do so
at least once.
25%
of teen girls
have had nude or
semi-nude photos
sent to them
accidentally.
of sexters share their message with

someone else.
Online Predators
Online Predators use social networks to gain information about their victims
LIKES
DISLIKES
82%
Likes and
dislikes.
65%
Home and
school.
HOME
SCHOOL
Of kids who have received sexual solicitations online
50%
Posted personal
information
35%
45%
Interacted with
online strangers
Placed strangers on
their buddy lists
Accessing Adult Content

27%
Only
1 IN 3
of children 10-17 have been exposed to unwanted

sexual material.
young people view pornography intentionally.
Young people who look at

violent X-rated material are
6 times
more likely to
force others
into sexual behavior.
A TEENS BRAIN CANT HANDLE THESE SITUATIONS

The prefrontal cortex of the brain isnt fully developed until the mid 20s.
The Prefrontal Cortex

Short-term
decision-making
controls...
Concentration
Goal oriented
thinking
Long-term
decision-making
Focus
Judgement
Learning
Yes?
Impulse control
No?
Teens' emotional response mechanisms develop faster than

judgement and logic.
THEY CANT MAKE THE BEST DECISIONS

FOR THEMSELVES.
MONITORING HELPS YOU
PROTECT THEM from THEMSELVES

Why
SMARTPHONE MONITORING
IS IMPORTANT
Teens
Can be more
independent.
Parents
Will better connect

with their peers.
Can reach their

child anytime.
Will be able to
stay current with
emerging tech.
Get the guidance

to make good
decisions.
Know when
their child is
in need.
Protect their teen

from outside
influences.
I can...
I can't...
Learn about
boundaries and
rules.
PARENTS SHOULD USE MONITORING TO TEACH THEIR CHILDREN

HOW TO CONDUCT THEMSELVES IN THE NEW SOCIAL WORLD.
Privacy First
The importance of holding
back personal information.
REGRET
POST
Social Permanence
Once its on the web, its
there forever.
No Regrets
Gossip Gets Around
Never send a text or photo

you'll regret sending later.
You can end up a bully even

if you dont mean to be.
COMMUNICATION IS THE FOUNDATION

of keeping your teen safe
Learn THEIR Perspective
Understand the technology they

use and be supportive of the issues
they face.
Make yourself the person they come

to when they are in need.
Use current events to initiate
conversation.
Dont make it too personal.
Analyze, dont criticize.
Help Them Understand YOUR Perspective

When asked how they would feel if their parents were
monitoring them, teens replied...
62%
75%
Accepting
Unaffected
YOU NEED TO EXPLAIN ITS YOUR JOB to KEEP THEM SAFE,

AND BE CLEAR ABOUT YOUR GOALS AND EXPECTATIONS.
SET LIMITATIONS and BOUNDARIES

AT WHAT AGE SHOULD KIDS
BEGIN USING MOBILE DEVICES?
Age 6-9
Age 10-12
CAN START USING

AN IPAD/TABLET
CAN USE SMARTPHONE

WITH MONITORING
Its not about depriving or withholding,

its about empowering parents to best teach their children
how to use digital media and devices.
CREATE A SMARTPHONE AGREEMENT
CONTRACT
Make it a collaborative process, so your kids can feel like

they have some control.
Let them know when, where, and why

you are monitoring.
Set boundaries upfront, such as:
No phones in the
bedroom
APP STORE
No phones
overnight
Parents have to approve

and review apps before
they're installed.
Phones stay in
common areas
No downloading apps
without approval
(Tip: Add them to YOUR

iCloud Account so you have
full access to their activity!)
What are the consequences if they

break the rules? Have these in writing!
Lead By Example
Children first turn to technology when their social-emotional
needs arent met.
BUT TECHNOLOGY IS ONLY A PROXY THAT LEAVES

US UNFULFILLED.
Disconnect
GIVE YOUR KIDS YOUR
FULL ATTENTION
GOODBYE
A study at Northwestern
found that children with
tech-obsessed parents were
more likely to become
dependent on various
technology as they grew up.
Phone-free time
DESIGNATE TIMES FOR
FAMILY ACTIVITIES LIKE:
Hiking
Sporting
Events
Reading
Together
Camping
Board Games
Live Music
Draw the line

BUT NOT TOO FAR BACK
Denying them access to digital media
cuts them off from their generations
main social channel.
LIKE ALL PARENTING DECISIONS,
its about finding a balance
BETWEEN KEEPING YOUR CHILD SAFE, AND EMPOWERING

THEM AS INDIVIDUALS.
SOURCES:
http://www.internetsafety101.org
https://www.dosomething.org/facts/11-facts-about-sexting
www.teensafe.com/pta
http://www.keepyourchildsafe.org/teens/teen-family-life.asp
http://www.bullyingstatistics.org/content/cyber-bullying-statistics.html
http://facebook-parental-controls-review.toptenreviews.com/30-statistics-about-teens-and-social-networking.html

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TEENS ARE MORE CONNECTED THAN EVER

Teens are online

Parents believe their

of sexters share their message with

Of kids who have received sexual solicitations online

Accessing Adult Content

of children 10-17 have been exposed to unwanted

young people view pornography intentionally.

Young people who look at

A TEENS BRAIN CANT HANDLE THESE SITUATIONS

The Prefrontal Cortex

Teens' emotional response mechanisms develop faster than

THEY CANT MAKE THE BEST DECISIONS

MONITORING HELPS YOU

PROTECT THEM from THEMSELVES

Will better connect

Can reach their

Get the guidance

Protect their teen

PARENTS SHOULD USE MONITORING TO TEACH THEIR CHILDREN

Gossip Gets Around

Never send a text or photo

You can end up a bully even

COMMUNICATION IS THE FOUNDATION

Understand the technology they

Make yourself the person they come

Help Them Understand YOUR Perspective

YOU NEED TO EXPLAIN ITS YOUR JOB to KEEP THEM SAFE,

SET LIMITATIONS and BOUNDARIES

CAN START USING

CAN USE SMARTPHONE

Its not about depriving or withholding,

CREATE A SMARTPHONE AGREEMENT

Make it a collaborative process, so your kids can feel like

Let them know when, where, and why

Set boundaries upfront, such as:

Parents have to approve

(Tip: Add them to YOUR

What are the consequences if they

BUT TECHNOLOGY IS ONLY A PROXY THAT LEAVES

DESIGNATE TIMES FOR

FAMILY ACTIVITIES LIKE:

Draw the line

LIKE ALL PARENTING DECISIONS,

its about finding a balance

BETWEEN KEEPING YOUR CHILD SAFE, AND EMPOWERING

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