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2 Theories I
LEARNING OUTCOMES
By the end of this topic, you should be able to:
1. Identify how counselling theories may be classified;
2. Compare and contrast how psychoanalytic theory, Adlerian theory
and client-centred theory view human behaviour;
3. List the differences in the goals of counselling among the three
theoretical positions; and
4. Identify the different counselling techniques proposed by each of the
three counselling theories.
INTRODUCTION
As discussed in Topic 1, the origin of counselling can be traced back to the work
of Frank Parsons who was concerned about helping young people make
decisions about choices in their career. Parsons regarded career decision making
as a rational process with guided self-appraisal, analysis of work opportunities,
and matching self with opportunities. The early development of the counselling
profession focused on developing techniques and ways of helping people better
assess their aptitude, opportunities and interests in career and occupational
aspects. This approach to counselling became popularly known as directive
counselling since the role of the counsellor is to advise clients about their career
choices through matching personal traits and factors that contribute to successful
decision making. Feelings and emotions were not so much regarded as important
in making the evaluation.
When Carl Rogers published his famous book Counseling and Psychotherapy in
1942, he introduced a totally new concept of counselling. The client is seen as a
good person who is capable of making the right choices when facilitated by the
counsellor. Thus, the role of the counsellor is not to advise, but to facilitate the
process of exploring himself or herself. Self-exploration and growth in the client
can be achieved within a nurturing relationship where the client is able to freely
express his or her concerns as the counsellor provides a positive and trusting
environment. Rogers approach came to be known as non-directive counselling
since the counsellor did not advise or direct the clients process of self-exploration.
The counsellor guides the client through role-playing and self-monitoring toward
correcting negative behaviours. In between these two ends of the continuum is
the psychoanalytic approach in which the counsellor helps the client work
through issues to find the best solution for overcoming the clients inner conflicts.
The counsellor tries to help the client to achieve a compromise between
conflicting forces through understanding the nature of the conflicts and dealing
with them in a more mature and rational manner.
SELF-CHECK 2.1
What is the main difference between directive and non-directive
counselling approaches? Give specific examples.
On the other hand, Palmer (2000) classified the various counselling approaches
according to the convention of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioural and
humanistic traditions, with a broad category of others for those not necessarily
belonging to these three traditions or whose affiliation is disputed. The
classification is as follows:
Cognitive-Behavioural Approaches:
(a) Behaviour therapy;
(b) Rational emotive behaviour therapy;
(c) Cognitive therapy; and
(d) Reality therapy.
Humanistic Approaches:
(a) Client-centred therapy by Carl Rogers; and
(b) Gestalt therapy by Frederick and Laura Perls.
The issue of which theory to use is a highly complex and controversial question.
It cannot be denied that the adoption of any one theory will depend on the
orientation of the counsellor or practitioner. All the theories mentioned are over
and above the scope of this introductory course. Only six theories will be
discussed briefly. For a deeper study, it is advisable to refer both to traditional
literature or original sources and to the latest editions of specialist texts by those
representing their theoretical orientation. Look up the founders of each theory,
because the main assumptions of their theories are strongly associated with their
personal life experiences.
ACTIVITY 2.1
(a) Id
The id is born at birth. The id consists of all human psychic energy and
instincts. It operates according to the pleasure principle, meaning it focuses
on gaining pleasure at any cost in order to satisfy instinctual needs
regardless of moral or logic reasons. The gratification of needs is aimed at
reducing tension and avoiding pain.
(b) Ego
As one grows up and interact with parents and his
significant other, one learns to mediate or balance
between instincts calls and the demands from the
environment. This second component of personality
is ruled by reality principle, where it reasons
realistically and logically and formulate plans on
how to satisfy needs in socially acceptable ways.
(c) Superego
Superego, the third component of personality,
consists of learned principles of right and wrong in
Figure 2.2:
order to control instinctual gratification and
Structures of personality
behaviour. It includes a persons ideal moral code,
and strives not for pleasure but for perfection (see
Figure 2.2).
The collections of moral codes are gained from the standards imposed by parents
and society. When one follows the moral code, one gets rewards, otherwise one
experiences punishment and feelings of guilt. When the three components of
personality conflict with each other, a person will experience anxiety.
Defence
Cause of anxiety Means of coping Example
mechanism
Compensation Anxious about Emphasise desirable Failing to impress the
ones real or traits or try to excel in football coach, Amin
imagined area of weakness or in strives to excel in
weakness other areas badminton
Denial Faced with Refuse to perceive or A woman refused to
painful or accept reality accept her husbands
unpleasant untimely death
reality
Displacement Unable to express Shift or let off the Unable to express
emotions to a emotions to a anger at her husband,
person substitute person or Mei Ling shouts at her
object children
Intellectualisation Anxious about a Think or talk about the Doctors and nurses
stressful problem situation in impersonal avoid being
and technical or overwhelmed with
intellectual terms emotions by
explaining to patients
and family members
about illness and death
using intellectual
terms
Projection Anxious about Attribute the feelings, Joyce accuses Ali of
ones own shortcomings, or cheating in the exam
feelings, unacceptable impulses when in fact she was
shortcomings, or to others the one who
unacceptable committed the offence
impulses
Rationalisation Anxious about Justify the behaviour Kumar blamed the
committing a by giving a rational traffic jam as the
behaviour and reasonable, but reason for arriving late
often false reason for class
Reaction Having Prevent dangerous Sara lavishes praises
formation dangerous ideas, ideas and emotions on her younger sister
emotions or from being expressed when in reality she is
impulses by expressing opposite jealous of her sister
behaviour
Regression Feeling anxious Retreat to childlike Crying, throwing a
or threatened behaviour and tantrum, speaking in
defences childish manner,
yelling, bed-wetting
are some examples of
regression
Repression Having Prevent or exclude the We try to forget hostile
uncomfortable, thoughts from entering feelings toward a
painful or awareness or family member, past
dangerous consciousness failures and
thoughts embarrassments
Sublimation Having unmet Redirecting or working People channel their
desires or out the energy in more high level frustration,
unacceptable socially acceptable aggressive or sexual
impulses activities. energy into sports, arts
or politics.
Adult
Behaviours
Focus of Focus of Personality
Stage Period Resulting from
Pleasure Development Resulting from
Fixation
Fixation
Oral Birth Mouth Satisfy needs Gum chewing, Oral-dependent
18 by sucking, nail biting, (gullible,
months swallowing smoking, passive,
and chewing/ kissing, attention-seeker)
biting overeating, oral-aggressive
alcoholism (argue, sarcasm,
biting)
Anal 13 years Anus Satisfy needs Throw temper- Anal-retentive
old of holding or tantrums, self- (obstinate,
eliminating destructive stingy, very
faeces toilet behaviours orderly,
training compulsively
clean.
Anal expulsive
(disorderly,
destructive,
cruel, messy)
The psychoanalytic counsellor acts as an expert who aims to find the underlying
roots of the clients current problems. The counsellor encourages clients to talk
about whatever comes to mind, especially their childhood experiences. In order
to make the client feel comfortable, the counsellor sits slightly out of the clients
view while the client lies down comfortably on a couch. Talking freely about any
issues often leads to the recall of related thoughts or emotions. This technique of
free association, together with dream analysis and gaining insights enables the
counsellor to understand the clients motive and interpret his or her unconscious
thoughts and wishes.
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Most often, clients will feel reluctant to freely discuss or think about an issue or
topic. This blockage in the flow of ideas is called resistance. Through an analysis
of resistance, the counsellor is able to make the client aware of his/her resistance,
so that the client will deal with them realistically. Last but not least,
interpretation is used throughout the counselling process whereby the
counsellors expertise and experiences are able to help clients understand better
their own past and present experiences.
SELF-CHECK 2.2
1. Who is the founder of the psychoanalytic approach?
2. How do psychoanalytic counsellors view clients?
3. From the psychoanalytic perspective, what is the reason(s) for clients
having problems in life?
4. Identify the different ideas proposed by Freud.
5. What is the goal of counselling according to the psychoanalytic
approach?
6. What are the techniques used in psychoanalytic counselling?
(a) Holistic
Adler argued that peoples actions, thoughts and feelings had to be seen as
a whole. He held that no life expression can be viewed in isolation, but
must always be regarded in relation to the total personality. Personality is
not made up of separate parts, but rather, the person as a whole orientates
him or herself to the surroundings.
The lifestyle of people and how they behave in the world are determined by
the ideas and beliefs they have chosen. For example, a person may choose
to believe that he should be better than others or that he should be liked by
others. Adler did not place importance on genetic factors but more
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(b) Social
Adler further suggested that people were social in nature. So, their
behaviour had to be interpreted in a social context. If this be the case, then it
is important to examine how people behave;
(i) With their family:
(ii) At their school:
(iii) As adults in their workplace,:
(iv) When they are with their friends; and
(v) In intimate relationships.
PARENTING
Wise parenting will enable children to grow to feel that they
are social equals. In other words, they are equal members in
their families who have equal rights, equal respect and share
equal responsibilities. Children expect to be treated equally
and expect their views to be taken into account.
Alfred Adler
to change their beliefs and their behaviours. Adler considered each person has
chosen to be the person that he or she is; we are the authors of our own creation.
People can change if they wish. However, change is not easy for an adult; we are
all good at being our old selves and will have to struggle at being a different
version of ourselves.
Teleological
The word teleological comes from the Greek word teleo which means goal.
Adler felt that human behaviour is guided by a purpose. To understand human
nature, you have to know what is guiding a particular behaviour. For example, a
person who is always late, what is his purpose for being late? Perhaps the person
is often late to show others that he or she is busy.
Birth Order
Another major idea of Adler was his emphasis on birth order. Birth order is the
ordinal position an individual is born into his or her family. Adler proposed that
people who share the same ordinal birth positions share similar characteristics.
This is because the psychological situation of each child is different from each
other depending on his or her birth order. Adler focused on five positions with
each sharing similar unique characteristics: the oldest, the youngest, the second
born, the middle, and the only child. Birth order and the interpretation of this
position influence ones interactions within the family and with others outside
the family. Individuals tend to form their unique personality from the first
years within the family, reacting to their siblings and family dynamics. Thus,
the family environment is also seen as important to a persons development,
especially the first six years of life. A negative family environment may be
rejective, authoritarian, suppressive, materialistic, overprotective or pitying. A
positive family environment may be democratic, accepting, open, authoritative,
and social (see Table 2.3).
Second born This child finds that she is an addition to the family, and sharing the
spotlight with another person that comes before her. She strives to gain
attention and to be better than the older sibling. She competes with the
oldest, striving for achievement in different areas. The second born is
often the opposite of the first-born.
Middle child This child often feels left out since the first and second has already team-
up. This child may adopt the poor me attitude and creates problems
to gain attention. In a problematic family, however, the middle child
may become the peacemaker, the person who holds things together.
Youngest The youngest is often the baby of the family and becomes the centre of
child attention. He may be pampered and spoilt. He has to strive and become
at least as good as the others ahead of him. Youngest children tend to
develop in unique ways; different from the older siblings.
Only child The only child shares some characteristics with the oldest child since she
is also the centre of attention and strives to become the best. She is also
pampered and spoilt. She may crave being in the spotlight all the time,
even with those outside her family. She may have problems sharing or
cooperating with people of her age, yet gets along well with adults.
Ultimately, the counsellor will help the client foster social interest and start
contributing to society, overcome feelings of inferiority and acquire a sense of
equality with others, modify clients views and goals, and change clients faulty
motivation. The clients lifestyles encourage them to be brave enough so that
they are able to explore, identify or confront any fears, perceptions or issues that
have been burdening them. In a condition full of positive regard and empathy,
clients become increasingly willing to change and grow. As they become more
fully functioning, they will have greater self acceptance. In conclusion, clients are
ultimately responsible for their own lives.
The role of the counsellor is to diagnose, teach, and model the desired
behaviours. The main task of the counsellor is to assess his clients level of
functioning by gathering information on their family constellation, including
birth order, their parents, siblings and others living at home. Clients early life
experiences are also explored. The counsellor then interprets his clients
situations, putting assumptions on the problem areas that need to be worked out.
Or was the client a pampered child? The client will also be asked to recall
earlier experiences. According to Adler, people remember events that
reinforce the beliefs and ideas in their private logic.
whether they agree or disagree with the counsellor. Agreement with the
counsellors assessment may be conveyed verbally or non-verbally (by
gestures and body language). For example, the client may recognise how
his private logic has restricted him and he may want to change his
behaviour. If the client is a person who likes to be better than everyone else,
then he has to accept the fact that he will be lonely and live without real
friends.
ACTIVITY 2.2
Discuss:
1. What is your birth position? Do Adlers characteristics defined for
your birth position reflect your personality?
2. How has your personality developed as an effect of being born in
this particular position?
SELF-CHECK 2.3
1. Who is the founder of the Adlerian approach?
2. How did Adler view human behaviour?
3. From the Adlerian perspective, what is the reason(s) for clients
having problems in life?
4. What is the goal of counselling according to Adlerian approach?
5. What are the techniques used in Adlerian counselling?
she is good, pretty or clever, to give some examples. Rogers also proposed that
each person has a self, which is central to the being. The self encompasses all
values, beliefs and perceptions one has about oneself, acquired through
interactions with significant others as one goes through his or her life.
issues that have been burdening them. In a condition full of positive regard and
empathy, clients become increasingly willing to change and grow. As clients
become more fully functioning, they will have greater acceptance of their self.
The role of the counsellor is to provide a safe and trusting climate or conditions
wherein the client will feel safe enough to explore his or her self. In contrast the
others in the real world that accept clients only with certain conditions, the
counsellor instead creates a nurturing condition that encourages the client to
discover his or herself.
The counsellor acts as a facilitator who knows how to guide the client through
the process of self-discovery by hearing, observing and reflecting clients verbal
and non-verbal language. The counsellor is not directive in the sense that he does
not suggest or interpret why clients feel as they do or what they should do. By
using verbal techniques such as reflection, asking questions and rephrasing, the
counsellor will assist clients in becoming more aware of their feelings and
thoughts, thus gain insights to their own experiences and find their own self.
One of the phrases that Rogers used to describe his therapy was supportive, not
reconstructive, and he used the analogy of learning to ride a bicycle to explain
it: When you help a child to learn to ride a bike, you cant just tell him how. He
has to try it for himself. And you cant hold him up the whole time either. There
comes a point when you have to let him go. If he falls, he falls, but if you hang
on, hell never learn. In client-centred counselling, the quality of the relationship
between the counsellor and the client is itself a technique. Rogers believed that
the counsellor should create a therapeutic condition for the client which
emphasises empathy, positive regard, and congruence.
(a) Empathy refers to the counsellors ability to feel with the client and
convey this understanding back to the client. When the client perceives
the counsellor as being understanding and appreciative of his or her
predicament, then only will the client proceed with his or her self-
exploration.
(b) Respect or Positive Regard where the client will feel safe when the
counsellor genuinely and positively accepts the client as a person
regardless of what the client is telling the counsellor. Such positive regard
will make the client feel valued regardless of how bad or negative his or her
self is.
(c) Congruency refers to the counsellors genuine behaviour and non-verbal
language that is free from pretension.
If the client says I feel like crap! the therapist may reflect this back to the client
by saying something like So, lifes getting you down, hey? By doing this, the
therapist is communicating to the client that he is indeed listening and cares
enough to understand.
Often, people in distress say things that they do not mean because it feels good to
say them. Carl Rogers relates the case of a woman who came to see him. She said.
I hate men! He made her reflect by saying You hate all men? Well, she said,
maybe not all. She did not hate her father or her brother. Even with those men
she hated, she discovered that the great majority of them she didnt feel as
strongly as the word hate implies. In fact, ultimately, she realised that she didnt
trust many men, and that she was afraid of being hurt by them the way she had
been by one particular man. Reflection must be used carefully, however. Many
beginning therapists use it without thinking (or feeling), and just repeat every
other phrase that comes out of the clients mouth. They sound like parrots with
psychology degrees! Reflection must come from the heart it must be genuine
and congruent.
SELF-CHECK 2.4
ACTIVITY 2.3
Have you ever come across an instance when you felt any two of your
selves were not congruent with each other?
Describe the experience and identify how you overcame the
incongruency.
His view of human nature is pessimistic, believing that humans are largely
influenced by sexual energies and uncontrollable forces.
He believed the family constellation and birth order have strong influence on
ones personality and life style.