Do Not Be Envious
Do Not Be Envious
Do Not Be Envious
DO NOT BE
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Introduction 7
Chapter 1: Envy! 15
Index of Hadeeths 85
Bibliography 87
Explanation of Symbols Used
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[1) This is the famous Khutbat AI-Haajah which the Prophet ~ would recite
whenever he was going to deliver a sermon, make a speech. See 'Khutbat
AI-Haajah' of Shaykh Muhammad Naasirudeen AI-Albaanee (AI-Maktab Al-
lslaamee, Damascus, 1980) for its authentication and further details.
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[3] Muslim [55 (196)] .
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(4] He was Abdur-Rahmaan bin Sakhr Ad-Dausiri ~ - He was one of the noble
Companions of the Messenger of Allaah ~ - He accepted lslaam in Makkah but
came to Madeenah in the year of the Conquest of Khaybar. He was always in
the constant company of the Prophet ~ being satisfied with whatever he got
to fill his stomach. He later became the Governor of AI-Madeenah then that
of Bahrain during the Khi/afah of Umar bin AI-Khattab ~ - He spent most of his
life in Madeenah and died in the year 59 A.H . a year before the ascendancy of
Yazeed bin Mu'aawiyah bin Abi Sufyaan as the Khalifah. He is reputed to have
narrated the most from the Messenger of Allaah ~ - About 5374 Ahadeeth
have been narrated on his authority.
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[SJ Muslim.
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[6] Hasad (envy) : The disease of Hasad has created a great deal of hatred
between different Muslims, groups and daa'iyahs (callers). The following story
about AI-Barbahaari (d . 329 A.H), the lmaam and preserver of Sunnah during
his lifetime illustrates this point. lmaam AI-Dhahabi said: lmaam AI-Barbahaari
had a large number of followers. He passed by the west side and sneezed,
so his companions said 'Yarhamuk Allaah (may Allaah have mercy on you).'
They made so much noise that the kha/eefah heard it and was told of what
had happened, and he thought it was too much . Then the people of Bid'ah
kept on stirring up hatred in the heart of the Kha/eefah until it was declared in
Baghdaad, 'No two followers of AI-Barbahaari may gather together.' Then he
disappeared. (As-Siyar)
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Avoid being envious and lnsha Allaah you will be better off
because once envy becomes part of a person's character, it does
not act alone. It takes along with itself and makes such evils as
pride, haughtiness and arrogance, hatred, jealousy, backbiting
and several other evils; perhaps innumerable; flourish. How evil
these associates are and may Allaah save us from these wasters
of good deeds. Each one of these sins is enough to make a person
enter under the wrath of Allaa h not to mention when they are
combined !
him and his offspring successors on the face of the earth as Allaah
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"O lblees! What is your reason for not being among those
who prostrated?" He said: "I am not the one to prostrate
myself to a human being, whom You created from sounding
clay of altered black smooth mud.'' [AI-Hijr (15} : 32-33]
So, Shaytaan acted upon his envy and he went astray and out
of Allaah 's Mercy and forgiveness. And we seek refuge in Allaah
from taking up characters likened to that of the accursed and the
outcast being.
The People of the Book - the Jews and the Christians - and
the rest of the unbelievers are people of envy. Similar to them
are hypocrites who feign lslaam; they go a step furt her by having
hatred for the bounties Allaah has bestowed upon the Muslims.
It therefore follows that whoever from amongst the Muslims'
picks up this trait, he is by that resembling those whom Allaah is
angry and displeased with.
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And when they meet you, they say, "We believe". But when
they are alone, they bite the tips of their fingers at you in
rage. Say: "Perish in your rage. Certainly, Allaah knows
what is in the breasts." If a good befalls you, it grieves them,
but if some evil overtakes you, they rejoice at it. But if you
remain patient and become pious, not the least harm will
their cunning do to you. Surely, Allaah surrounds all that
they do." [Aal-!mraan (3): 118-120]
As for the brothers of Yusuf, they envied their pat ernal brother
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for the kind of love their father Ya'qub ~I had for him. So they
became jealous and sought to eliminate Yusuf ~ I.
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The brothers said: "Truly, Yusuf and his brother are loved
more by our father than we, while we are a strong group.
Really, our father is in a plain error. Kill Yusuf or cast him out
to some other land, so that the favour of your father may
be given to you alone, and after that you will be righteous
folk." One from among them said: "Kill not Yusuf, but if you
must do something, throw him down to the bottom of a
well, he will be picked up by some caravan of travellers."
[Yusuf (12): 8-10]
As for the two sons of Aadam ~I, the one who murdered his
blood brother did so mostly out of envy and jealousy of the fact
that his own sacrifice was rejected while that of his brother was
accepted by Allaah.
Allaah ~ says:
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(13] AI-Bukhaaree .
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Causes of Envy
Allaah ~ says:
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"Is it they who would portion out the Mercy of your Lord?
It is We Who portion out between them their livelihood
in this world, and we raised some of them above others
in ranks, so that some may employ others in their work.
But the Mercy of your Lord is better than that which they
amass (of this life)." [Az-Zukhruf (43 ): 32]
Allaah ~ says:
"Look at those who are lower than you but do not look at
those who are higher than you, lest you belittle the favours
Allaah conferred upon you."[ 141
"How would you be, O people, when Persia {Iran) and Rome
would be conquered for you?"
Abdur Rahman bin Awf ~ said: "We wou ld say as Allaah has
commanded us and we would express our gratitude to Allaa h."
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[14] AI-Bukhaaree.
"Nothing else besides it? You would in fact vie with one
another, then you would feel jealous, then your relations
would be estranged and then you will bear enmity against
one another, or something to the same effect. Then you
would go to the poor emigrants and would make some the
masters of the others." [161
Uqbah bin Amir ~ reported: "One day, the Prophet ~ went out
and offered the funeral prayers of the martyrs of Uhud and then
went up the Minbar- pulpit - and said:
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"I will pave the way for you as your predecessor and will be
a witness for you. I see my fountain (Kawthar) just now and
I have been given the keys of all the treasures of the earth.
By Allaah! I am not afraid that you will worship others along
with Allaah after my death, but I am afraid that you will fight
with one another for the worldly things.'1171
An Unsound Heart
Envy is an indication of an unhealthy heart. An -Numaan bin
Basheer ~ related that the Messenger of Allaah ::i said:
[16] Muslim.
[17] AI-Bukhaaree.
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"Verily! The lawful is clear and the unlawful is clear. However, between
them are doubtful matters and many amongst the people do not know
them . So whoever fears the doubtful matters and avoids them has indeed
cleared himself with regard to his religion and honour. But whoever falls
into the doubtful matters falls into that which is forbidden just like the
shepherd who pastures around a sanctuary, all but grazing therein . Verily!
For every king is a sanctuary and surely the sanctuary of Allaah are His
Prohibitions. Verily! In the body is a morsel of flesh which, if it is rectified
then the whole of the body will be rectified and which if it is diseased then
the whole of the body is diseased. Certainly it is the heart."
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since he dislikes good for his brother whereas Anas bin Mal ik ~
related that the Messenger of Allaah ~ said :
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brother what he loves for his own soul.'1. 19l
Allaah ~ says:
"And wish not for the things in which Allaah has made
some of you to excel others. For men there is reward for
what they have earned, and likewise for women there is
reward for what they have earned, and ask Allaah of His
Bounty. Surely, Allaah is Ever All-Knower of everything."
[An-Nisaa' (4) : 32)
[19] AI-Bukhaaree.
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Pride
Envy can result from being haughty - which is behaving in an
unfriendly manner out of the feeling that you are better than
another person. The haughtiness of Shaytaan - indeed his pride
- made him not to prostrate for Aadam ~I. The proud person
dislikes being with words of truth and may go to the extent
of despising the people of truth . However, the reality is that
whoever has a grain of pride in him and thereby rejects the truth
(of lslaam) wil l not be admitted into Paradise.
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Prophet ~ remarked :
Abu Hurayrah 4¼> also narrated that a man who was beautiful
came to the Prophet ~ - He said: "O Messenger of Allaah, I am a
man who likes beauty, and I have been given some of it, as you
see. And I do not like that anyone excels me in respect of beauty.
Perhaps he said: "even to the extent of thong of my sandal"l22J or
he said : "to the extent of strap of my sandal"l23 1_ Is it pride? He
replied :
(21) Muslim.
(22) In Arabic: Shirak na'/i
(23) Shis'i na'li
(24) Abu Dawood.
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Stinginess
Envy can also result when a wealthy man refuses to help his close
associates, fam ilies and the rest of the people in dire need. So you
will find that a poverty-stricken man who sees those around him
enjoy the luxuries of life without even the crumbs getting to him
and not receiving any helping hand will have a hateful envy for the
society where he lives. The purification lies in paying the compulsory
charity called Zakaah and giving voluntary charities too.
Allaah ~ says:
Discrimination
Envy will grow where there is the practice of treating certain
Allaah ~ says:
"O you who believe! Stand out firmly for Allaah and be
just witnesses and let not the enmity and hatred of others
make you avoid justice. Be just: that is nearer to piety, and
fear Allaah. Verily, Allaah is Well-Acquainted with what you
do. 11 [AI-Maa 1idah (5): 8]
An-Numaan bin Basheer ~ related that: 'My mother asked my
father to present me a gift from his property; and he gave it to
me after some hesitation. My mother said that she would not be
satisfied unless the Prophet ~ was made a witness to it. I being
a young boy, my father held me by the hand and took me to the
Prophet ~ - He said to the Prophet, "His mother, Bint Rawaha,
requested me to give this boy a gift." The Prophet ~ said:
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Say: "I seek refuge with (Allaah) the Lord of the daybreak,
From the evil of what He has created; And from the evil
of the darkening (night) as it comes with its darkness; (or
the moon as it sets or goes away). And from the evil of the
witchcrafts when they blow in the knots. And from the evil
of the envier when he envies." [AI-Falaq (113)]
Admiration
Expressing likeness for a particular blessing can result in envy
and the evil-eye effect. Whoever finds any good thing in his
brother and admires him for it should seek Allaah's blessings
and say :
Abu Umaamah bin Sahl bin Hunayf ~ said: '"Aamir bin Rabee'ah
~ passed by Sahl bin Hunayf ~ whilst he was doing Ghusl, and
said, 'I have never seen anything like what I have seen today, not
even the skin of the virgin who is hidden away!' (Referring to the
whiteness of his skin). It was not long before he (Sahl) fell to the
ground. He was brought to the Prophet :i and it was said, 'Help
Sahl! (He is) epileptic!' He ~ asked:
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'Whose fault is this?'
'Why would any one of you kill his brother? If any one of you
sees that his brother has something he likes, let him pray for
blessing for him.'
Envy in Peoplel3 11
(Their categories)
[30] AI-Bukhaaree.
The third category are those who do not just seek to remove
that bounty from the other persons, but they also work to get
that favour specifically for themselves.
The fourth class includes those who willingly have the evil
thoughts of envy, are pleased with them and continue to think in
such an evil manner while putting up no resistance to stop them.
The people of knowledge differ whether this person is a sinner or
not. However, his condition is precarious.
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The second group includes those who recognized that they have
traits of envy within their souls and tried hard to treat themselves
and be free from it and to treat the one they are envious of in the
best possible manner. They pray'for the person, speak well of him
to others and they love what Allaah has bestowed upon him of
His bounties in all situations.
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Effects of Envy
c. Loss of good deeds, since envy feeds on the good acts until
they are all destroyed .!3 31 The Messenger of Allaah ~ said:
(33] There is a weak Hadeeth in this regard that was narrated upon Abu
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"Avoid envy, for envy devours good deeds just as fire devours fuel or (he
said) grass." (Abu Dawood, garaded Da'eefby Al-Al baa nee in Da'eef Sunan
Abee Dawood)
[34) Ahmad and At-Tirmidhee . Related from AI-Zubayr bin AI-Awwam ~ -
concerning the meaning of the phrase:
On the Envied
There are at least five obvious effects on the envied as follows:
a. Harm.l3 51
b. Inability to fulfill one's task.
c. Hate and resentment for the envious person.
d. Seeking retaliation or revenge.
e. A new avenue for rewards. Suhayb bin Sinan Ar-Rumi ~
narrated that: Allaah's Messenger ;I said:
[35] Abu Umaamah bin Sahl bin Hunayf ~ said: "'Aamir bin Rabee'ah ~
passed by Sahl bin Hunayf ~ whilst he was doing Ghusl, and said, 'I have never
seen anything like what I have seen today, not even the skin of the virgin who
is hidden away!' (Referring to the whiteness of his skin). It was not long before
he (Sahl) fell to the ground. He was brought to the Prophet ~ and it was said,
'Help Sahl! (He is) epileptic!' He asked:
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brother has something he likes, let him pray for blessing for him.'
Then he called for water and told 'Aamir to perform ablution', so he washed
his face, his hands up to the elbows, his knees and inside his lzaar (lower
garment), then he told him to pour the water over him (the person he had
harmed)." (fbn Majah)
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[37] Dr. Sayed Noah - Obstacle on the path of Da'wah Pg 231.
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humans and the "eye" of the jinn. Umm Sala mah ~ narrated that
the Prophet ~ saw a young girl in her house who had Saf'ah[ 3 s1 on
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said: "Saf'ah means a look (Nazrah) from the jinn, and the look of the jinn is
more harmful than the points of spears."
[39) AI-Bukhaaree.
[40) Some of the scholars explained the Verse as follows : "The meaning
is that they are trying to harm you (Muhammad ~ ) with their evil eyes in an
attempt to remove you from the high position to which Allaah has raised you,
out of enmity and hatred towards you . They used to look at him with intense
envy and hatred that could almost have made him slip, if Allaah ~ had not
protected him. They did indeed want to harm him with their eyes, and a group
of Quraysh who were infamous for that looked at him and said, "We have
never seen anyone like him or anything like the evidence he brings," with the
intention of harming him with Al-'Ayn, but Allaah protected him from their evil
and revealed this Aayah to him."
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1. Performing Ruqyahl441
Sahl bin Hunayf ~ said: "We passed by a waterfall and I entered
it and did Ghusl, and I came out with a fever. Someone told the
Messenger of Allaah ~ about that, and he said:
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(42) Reported by Abu Na'eem in AI-Hilyah. There is some weakness in the
Hadeeth.
(43) Reported by AI-Trimidhee and he said it is a Hasan Saheeh Hadeeth .
(44) Ruqyah - consists of words said or written in the form of Du'aa or Dhikr
for the purpose of protection or cure. It is sometimes accompanied with other
actions such as blowing or wiping over the thing to which it is applied.
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[45] Abu Dawood. The Hadeeth was graded Da'eef by Al-Al baa nee under
the chapter Kitaab At-Tibb in Da'eef Sunan Abee Dawood.
[46] AI-Bukhaaree and Muslim.
[47] Ahmad and At-Tirmidhee. He said it Hadeeth Saheeh Hasan.
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[48] Narrated Abdullah bin Abbaas ~ : "The Prophet ~ used to seek refuge
with Allaah for Al-Hasan and Al-Husain (his two grandsons) and say:
"Your forefather (i.e. lbraaheem ~\) used to seek refuge with Allaah for
lsmaa'eel ~\ and lshaaq ~ by reciting the following:
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from poisonous pests and from every evil, harmful, envious eye."' (AI-
Bukhaaree)
[49] The last two Surahs of the Noble Qur'aan.
[SO] [AI-Baqarah (2): 255.]
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[53] Ahmad.
[54] Adhkaar of lmaam An-nawawee.
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Then Jibreel ~I said "Bismillah urqeek ..."till the end of the prayer.
[59) AI-Haafiz Ad-Dhahabi said: "Ruqyah and seeking refuge with Allaah are
only of benefit if people believe in them and if they coincide with a time when
Allaah answers Du'aa's and with the appointed time."
lmaam lbn AI-Qayyim said: "A person should recite Ruqyah for protection from
Al-'Ayn if he does not know who has harmed him in this way, but if he knows
who has harmed him with Al-'Ayn he should be told to do Ghusl." And Allaah
knows best.
Abu Umaamah bin Sahl bin Hunayf ~ said:" 'Aamir bin Rabee'ah
~ passed by Sahl bin Hunayf ~ whilst he was taking Ghusl, and
said, 'I have never seen anything like what I have seen today, not
even the skin of the virgin who is hidden away!' (Referring to the
whiteness of his skin) . It was not long before he (Sahl) fell to the
ground. He was brought to the Prophet ~ and it was sa id, 'Help
Sahl! (He is) epileptic!' He asked:
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So 'Aamir washed his face, hands, elbows and knees, and the
sides of his feet, and inside his lower garment with a vessel, then
he poured some water on him, and he went with the people (i.e.,
he was cured and got up)."l62 1
3. Concealment
Another way of dealing with Al-'Ayn is to try not to provoke it
in the first place, by covering the beauty of the one for whom
you fear with something that will repel it. 'Uthmaan ~ saw a
handsome boy, and said : "Put something black on his chin, lest
Al-'Ayn harm him" - meaning that they should put something
black in the dimple of his chin. r631
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So you will find that Allaah ~ has given an edge to some over
the others even among His Names!
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"Indeed, you have asked Allaah the Most Exalted by the
Names with which when He is asked, He gives, and when He
is invoked He responds. "
At a different time, Anas bin Malik ..t;, narrated that while he was seated with
the Messenger of Allaah ~ and a man was offering the Sa/aah and thereafter
he prayed saying: "O Allaah ! Certainly I ask you by virtue of the fact that the
Praise is for you, there is no deity worthy of worship in truth except you; Al
- Manaan - The Benefactor, Badee'u samaawaati wal-ard - The Originator
of the Heavens and the earth, Ya Dha/-Jalaal wal-/kraam - Owner of Majesty
and Honour, Yaa Hayyu Yaa Qayyuum - The Ever living one that dies not, The
Self-Subsisting and Independent." So the Prophet ~ said :
"He has indeed asked Allaah and invoked Him by virtue of His greatest
Names, with which whenever He is invoked He responds and when He is
asked by them, He gives." (Abu Dawood and An-Nasaa'ee.)
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(67) Narrated Muhammad bin Al Hanafiya I asked my father ('Alee bin Abi
Taalib ~ ), "Who are the best people after Allaah's Messenger ~ ?" He said,
"Abu Bakr." I asked, "Who then?" He said, "Then 'Umar." I was afraid he would
say "Uthman," so I said, "Then you?" He said, "I am only an ordinary person ."
(AI-Bukhaaree)
Likewise lbn Umar ~ narrated that: "We used to compare the people as to who
was better during the lifetime of Allaah's Messenger ~ - We used to regard Abu
Bakr as the best, then 'Umar, and then 'Uthman." (AI-Bukhaaree)
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Aadam ~\ was created, on it he was made to enter Paradise,
on it he was expelled from it."l 68 l
If you reflect carefully upon all that has been stated, you will
see that Allaah is the Doer of all that He intends and that no one
can question His Authority. Instead of grudging Allaah's decision,
the various forms of excellence granted to different people should
instill in you:
a. The absolute faith in Allaah .
b. Being pleased with Qadar as you continue to strive in
your endeavours.
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c. The ability to avoid the rivalry for excellence for the sake
of th is world.
This is the first and the surest cure for the di sease of envy.
As a Muslim, you need to strive against your own selfl 70l so that
your heart will be free of jealousy towards your Muslim brothers.
If you sincerely Jove your brothers, most of these problems from
which you might be suffering will disappear.
"And I free not myself from the blame. Verily, the human self is inclined
to evil, except when my Lord bestows His Mercy upon whom He wills.
Verily, my Lord is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." [Yusuf (12) : 53]
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When you realize how great your virtue and status will be when
you love your brothers and love good things for them, and when
you know how great your reward will be if you treat them well,
this will motivate you to treat them well in all ways, and to strive
to benefit your brothers and sisters instead of being preoccupied
with jealous thoughts of what they have and you do not have.
You need to reflect and think deeply these words of Allaah:
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"That (which you are envious and sad about) is the Grace
of Allaah which He bestows on whom He wills. And Allaah
is All-Sufficient for His creatures' needs, All-Knower." [AI-
Mad'idah (5) :54]
And also His ~ saying:
"Is it they who would portion out the Mercy of your Lord?
It is We Who portion out between them their livelihood in
this world, and We raised some of them above others in
ranks, so that some may employ others in their work. But
the Mercy {Paradise) of your Lord is better than the wealth
of this world, which they amass." [Az-Zukhruf (43): 32]
Supplication
Make Du'aa' (supplication) to Allaah ~ and ask Him to rid you
of th is problem. The Prophet ~ used to say in his Du'aa',
(71] This is evident from the Hadeeth of AI-Zubayr bin AI-Awwam ~ stated
on page 36.
(72] Shaykh ul-lslaam lbn Taymiyyah : Amraad AI-Qu/oob (Diseases of the
Heart) :
(73] At-Tirmidhee.
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(74] Those consisting of the companions, their successors and their righteous
followers and upholders of the Sunnah from the earlier generations of
Muslims.
(75] Biography. An addition to this is reading the biographies and stories of
the Sahaabah.
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busy with something that will make you forget these insinuating
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not believe until you love one another. Shall I not tell you of
that which will strengthen love between you? Spread (the
greeting of) Salaam amongst yourse/ves."f_79 l
(79] Muslim.
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(80] At-Trimidhee.
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The Praiseworthy Envy
Allaah ~ says:
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"And for this (reward of Paradise) let all those strive who
want to strive (i.e. hasten earnestly to the obedience of
Allaah).'' [AI-Mutaffifeen {83): 26]
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"Verily, Qaarun was of Musaa's people, but he behaved
arrogantly towards them. And We gave him of the treasures,
that of which the keys would have been a burden to a body
of strong men. When his people said to him: 'Do not be
glad with ungratefulness to Allaah's Favours. Verily! Allaah
likes not those who are glad with ungratefulness to Allaah's
Favours. But seek, with that wealth which Allaah has
bestowed on you, the home of the Hereafter, and forget
not your portion of legal enjoyment in this world, and do
good as Allah has been good to you, and seek not mischief
in the land. Verily, Allah likes not those who commit great
crimes and sins."' He said: "This has been given to me only
because of knowledge I possess."
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[82] AI-Bukhaaree.
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Chapter 7
Be Free of Envy ... Gain Allaah's Paradise
If you strive as hard as you can to free yourself from the evil
of envy, and may Allaah bless your effort, His Paradise will be
the reward for you. Surely Allaah's love and His Great pleasure is
upon those who struggle to attain the good end.
Allaah ~ says about the supplication of believers for their
righteous predecessors thus:
"And those who came after them say: 'Our Lord! Forgive
us and our brethren who have preceded us in Faith, and
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put not in our hearts any hatred against those who have
believed. Our Lord! You are indeed full of kindness, Most
Merciful.'" [AI-Hashr {59): 10]
Allaah ~ says:
Try your best to rid your heart of rancour, envy and hatred
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May Allaah ~ keep our hearts free of the disease of envy. And
praise is due to Allaah ~ in the end as it is in the beginning. May
the peace and blessing of Allaah be upon Muhammad ~ , his
household and those upon his path till the Day of Resurrection .
May Allaah ~ keep our hearts free of the disease of envy. And
praise is due to Allaah ~ in the end as it is in the beginning. May
the peace and blessing of Allaah be upon Muhammad ~ , his
household and those upon his path till the Day of Resurrection.
Index of Hadeeths
Al-'ayn could lead a man to his grave, and a camel to the cooking pot 38
Al-'ayn is real; if anything were to compete with the Qadar 38
Alfaah will forgive my Ummah for their mistakes, what they forget 54
And belief and envy do not occur together in the heart of a believer 62
Creeping and advancing upon you is the disease and malady 16
Creeping and advancing upon you is the disease and malady of 35
Do not be envious of one another and do not nurse 13
Do not make me a witness for injustice 30
Guide my heart and remove ill will from my breast 52
He has indeed asked Alfaah and invoked Him by virtue of His 48
He who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of pride 28
How would you be, 0 people, when Persia (Iran) and Rome 24
I seek refuge for you both in the perfect words of Af/aah 40
I seek refuge in the perfect words of Alfaah from His wrath 42
I seek refuge in the perfect words of Alfaah from the evil that 40
I seek refuge in the perfect words of Alfaah, through which no man 41
I seek refuge with Alfaah from every devil and poisonous reptile 41
I will pave the way for you as your predecessor and will be a witness 25
In the name of Alfaah I pray for you, from everything that may 43
Indeed, you have asked Alfaiinthe Most Exalted by the Names 48
Look at those who are lower than you but do not look at those 24
No human is killed or murdered unjustly, but a part of responsibility 22
No, pride is disdaining what is true and despising people 28
None of you would have believed until he loves for his brother 26
Nothing else besides it? You would in fact vie with one another 25
0 Alfaah ! I seek refuge with Your Perfect Words from every devil 40
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