Communication (From Latin Commūnicāre, Meaning
Communication (From Latin Commūnicāre, Meaning
Communication (From Latin Commūnicāre, Meaning
another through the use of mutually Now let’s look at how the same Message can travel
understood signs and semiotic rules. successfully from Sender to Receiver.
Oral communication is the process of verbally Manager (speaking on the phone): “Good morning,
transmitting information and ideas from one
Bill!”
individual or group to another. Oral
communication can be either formal or informal.
(By using the employee’s name, the manager is
Examples of informal oral communication include:
establishing a clear, personal link to the Receiver.)
Face-to-face conversations
Manager: “Your division’s numbers are looking
Telephone conversations
Discussions that take place at business great.”
meetings
(The Manager’s recognition of Bill’s role in a winning
More formal types of oral communication include:
team further personalizes and emotionalizes the
I did not tell John you But maybe I told Sharon Which bank would you choose?
were late. and José.
I did not tell I was talking about The speaker’s body language must match his or her
John you were late. someone else. words. If a Sender’s words and body language
I did not tell John I told him you still are late. don’t match—if a Sender smiles while telling a sad
you were late.
tale, for example—the mismatch between verbal
I did not tell John you I told him you were
and nonverbal cues can cause a Receiver to actively
were late. attending another meeting.
dislike the Sender.
Changing your tone can dramatically change your
Here are a few examples of nonverbal cues that can
meaning.
support or detract from a Sender’s Message.
Source: Based on ideas in Kiely, M. (1993, October).
Body Language
When “no” means “yes.” Marketing, 7–9.
A simple rule of thumb is that simplicity,
For an example of the importance of nonverbal
directness, and warmth convey sincerity. And
communication, imagine that you’re a customer
sincerity is key to effective communication. A firm
interested in opening a new bank account. At one
handshake, given with a warm, dry hand, is a great
bank, the bank officer is dressed neatly. She looks
way to establish trust. A weak, clammy handshake
you in the eye when she speaks. Her tone is
conveys a lack of trustworthiness. Gnawing one’s
friendly. Her words are easy to understand, yet she
lip conveys uncertainty. A direct smile conveys
sounds professional. “Thank you for considering
confidence.
Bank of the East Coast. We appreciate this
Eye Contact
opportunity and would love to explore ways that
In business, the style and duration of eye contact
we can work together to help your business grow,”
considered appropriate vary greatly across
she says with a friendly smile.
cultures. In the United States, looking someone in
At the second bank, the bank officer’s tie is stained.
the eye (for about a second) is considered a sign of
He looks over your head and down at his desk as
trustworthiness.
he speaks. He shifts in his seat and fidgets with his
Facial Expressions according to business etiquette writer Nazir Daud,
The human face can produce thousands of different “it is considered impolite for a woman to shake a
expressions. These expressions have been decoded man’s hand.” [9] Americans, as we have noted, place
by experts as corresponding to hundreds of great value in a firm handshake. But handshaking
different emotional states. [8] Our faces convey basic as a competitive sport (“the bone-crusher”) can
information to the outside world. Happiness is come off as needlessly aggressive, at home and
associated with an upturned mouth and slightly abroad.
closed eyes; fear with an open mouth and wide- Space
eyed stare. Flitting (“shifty”) eyes and pursed lips Anthropologist Edward T. Hall coined the
convey a lack of trustworthiness. The effect of facial term proxemics to denote the different kinds of
expressions in conversation is instantaneous. Our distance that occur between people. These
brains may register them as “a feeling” about distances vary between cultures. The figure below
someone’s character. outlines the basic proxemics of everyday life and
Posture their meaning: [10]
The position of our body relative to a chair or
another person is another powerful silent Elements of communication