5 Ways To Know Yourself
5 Ways To Know Yourself
5 Ways To Know Yourself
Basic Mindfulness Training is built around five core practices.Youdon’ tnecessarily have to
learn all five, although most people like to at least sample them all. Because these practices are
strongly contrasting, the chance sa rev eryg oodt ha teveni fy oudon’ tta
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one or two will really work for you. Furthermore, ifapa r
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time, then it’svery likely that one of the other four will.
A practice is said to “
work”if, in a reasonable time frame, it delivers one or several of the
following.
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sa brief outline of the 5 Ways.
Focus In
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At the psychological level this clear tracking allows you to break negative states into small
manageable pieces, thus loosening their power over you. By negative states I mean things like
difficult emotions, limiting beliefs, judgments, urges leading to unproductive behaviors and so
forth. By manageable pieces I mean individual images, individual self-talk phrases and specific
body locations where the emotional sensations are arising. Learning to focus on just one of these
at a given moment will reduce your sense of overwhelm. You stop being like a ping pong ball
pummeled about by words in your head, emotions in your body and pictures on your mental
screen.
At the spiritual level FOCUS IN allows you to become free from t he“s mallself .
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the sense that your identity is limited to your mind and body. When you can clearly separate your
subjective states into Feel, Image and Talk, those states will be a home where you can live, but
from which you can venture out…ve ntur eoutinto a deeper, broader sense of identity. On the
other hand, when Feel, Image and Talk get tangled and meshed, they become a prison that
confines your identity. With enough practice, the FOCUS IN technique will allow you to break
free from the prison of small self.
The name FOCUS IN comes from the fact that you are turning your attention inward to your
thoughts and emotions, monitoring them as tangible sensory events. This technique represents a
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Aggregates or the Four Foundations. In terms of modern neuroscience, it is a way of detecting
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Focus Out
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given to new monks in Zen temples, allowing them to remain in a meditative state while
effectively performing their daily tasks.
At the spiritual level, FOCUS OUT fosters an experience of merging with the outside world.
The FOCUS IN method allows you to clarify how Feel, Image and Talk create the subjective
world of past, future and fantasy. By way of contrast Touch, Sight and Sound are always now.
Put succinctly, the FOCUS OUT practice is a tangible way to harness the Power of Now.
Focus on Rest
Learn to detect and enjoy naturally occurring restful states such as physical relaxation, mental
blank, emotional peace and quiet moments in your head.
These states often occur spontaneously. The problem is that peopledon’ tknowhowt
ode tect
them or how to utilize them. The FOCUS ON REST technique teaches you what to look for and
where. You can then utilize these restful states for a wide range of purposes.
For one thing, the more intently you focus on restful states the better you feel, motivating you to
focus even more intently. This clever strategy creates a positive feedback loop that revs up your
baseline of concentration power. The restful states can also be used to create a container of
equanimity within which emotions, physical discomfort and negative urges can come and go
with less identification.
Finally, the restful states can evolve into a self-contained source of sensory fulfillment, one that
is available on-demand, independent of external circumstances. This is particularly important for
people who live in physical discomfort and also for people in recovery. People in physical
discomfort need to have a source of pleasure despite the discomfort in order to avoid becoming
depressed. People in recovery need a free, legal, healthy and anti-a ddictive“ hig h”tor eplacet ha t
of the substance/behavior they are trying to abstain from.
At a spiritual level, continuously noting when things change facilitates their break up into a kind
of subjective “ energy,”which in Asian medicine (and martial arts) is referred to as qi (ch’i).
Also, by noticing the very moment when things vanish, your attention is directed to the Source
from which they arise. This leads to the classical experience of “
Cessation”referred to by the
mystics of the world as True Self, No Self, Nothingness and so forth.
Like FOCUS IN, FOCUS ON POSITIVE works with Feel, Image and Talk, but in a very different
way. Instead of just observing Feel-Image-Talk as it arises, FOCUS ON POSITIVE has you actively
create positive Images and Talk. These then prime the pump for pleasant emotional Feel—joy,
interest, enthusiasm, love, friendliness, compassion, gratitude, forgiveness and so forth. You then
use your concentration power to spread that pleasant Feel over your whole body and then radiate
it beyond your body out to the people and objects around you. In this way you subtly bless
everything you see, hear or touch. When you get good at this practice it dramatically changes the
way you relate to the world. Equally important, it changes the way that the world relates to you!
Every moment becomes a moment of subtle service to those around you. Every day you deliver a
silent sermon from all the pores of your skin.