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CONCEPT OF STEVEN RICHARDS CONVEY ON
7 Habits Of
Succesful People
Concept Of Steven Richards Convey On
7 Habits Of Successful People
1 2 3 4
Be Proactive Begin With The Put First Things First Think Win-Win
End In Mind
5 6 7
Seek First To Synergize Sharpen The Saw
Understand, Then To Be
Understood
BE PROACTIVE
If you’re like most people, you probably seek first to be understood; you want to get your point across. In doing so,
you may ignore the other person completely, pretend that you’re listening, selectively hear only certain parts of the
conversation or attentively focus on only the words being said, but miss the meaning entirely. So why does this
happen?
Because most people listen with the intent to reply, not to understand. You listen to yourself as you prepare in your
mind what you are going to say, the questions you are going to ask, etc. You filter everything you hear through your
life experiences, your frame of reference. You check what you hear against your autobiography and see how it
measures up. Consequently, you decide prematurely what the other person means before they finish
communicating. Do any of the following sound familiar?
You might be saying, “Hey, wait a minute. I’m just trying to relate to the person by drawing on my own experiences.
Is that so bad?” In some situations, autobiographical responses may be appropriate, such as when another person
specifically asks for help from your point of view or when there is already a very high level of trust in the
relationship.
SYNERGIZE
Together, they can produce far better results than they could
individually. Synergy lets us discover jointly things we are
much less likely to discover by ourselves. It is the idea that
the whole is greater than the sum of the parts.
THANK YOU
- A. SAIDIVYA