LCH2019 Week 02 Lecture - Suggested Answers
LCH2019 Week 02 Lecture - Suggested Answers
LCH2019 Week 02 Lecture - Suggested Answers
Introduction to
Communication Studies
CREATING COMMUNICATION CLIMATES
CHAPTER 7 (PP. 131-137; 143-147)
SUGGESTED ANSWERS
Defensive and Supportive Climates:
Activity 1 (Suggested Answers)
Background:
Romeo and Juliet have been together for 2 years. Juliet
complains that Romeo always goes out and meets his
friends at night. Therefore, Romeo always looks tired
when they are together in weekend. Romeo has
changed his job recently, and he feels great pressure.
Therefore, he sometimes watches soccer and drinks in
pub with friends to release the pressure. They quarrel on
the same issue again...
• What defensive style(s) are demonstrated in Romeo
and Juliet?
• Any suggestions for improvement?
1. Romeo: Oh, darling… I feel very sleepy
and tired!
2. Juliet: Why? You must go to bed very L2 Certainty
late again!
3. Romeo: Not really, just went out to see
the football match yesterday night.
4. Juliet: Football again? I wonder why all L4 stereotype →
males are crazy about the stuff related Evaluation;
to football. “all”→ Certainty
5. Romeo: Wow… the match yesterday
was marvellous! Ronaldo proved once L5 Neutrality
again why he is the world's top striker (not too
with a tremendous strike, and Messi's interested to hear
silky skills on the ball were just more than Juliet’s complaint)
great!
6. Juliet: Hey! Are you listening to what I am
talking about? You spend most of your L6 Certainty (a bit)
time with your friends. How about me? If
you reduce the number of the night
gatherings, you won’t feel so tired.
7. Romeo: Whatever. L7 Neutrality
8. Juliet: You just don’t care about L8 Evaluation
anything…
9. Romeo: Instead of blaming me, why don’t
you care about my situation? I just want to L9 Evaluation
be relaxed and have fun with my friends
after a long working day. You know, my
new job is very stressful… Can’t you be
more considerate?
10. Juliet: Hey, do you still love me?... If you L10 Control
love me, you should spend more time with (Not strategy
me…That’s all… because explicit)
2. Avoid self-disconfirmation:
Activity 2 (Suggested Answers)
Communicating Assertively (p.151)
• The following statements are deferential or aggressive.
Revise each one so that it is assertive.
1. I’m going to the party regardless of what you want.
2. I’ll lend you the money, even though I may have to
work an extra shift to get it.
3. We’re getting the car that I like, and that’s it!
4. They don’t have vegetarian entrees at the
restaurant you want to go to, but I can just eat a
salad/ the decoration.
2. Avoid self-disconfirmation:
Activity 2 (Suggested Answers)
Communicating Assertively (p.151)
• The following statements are deferential or aggressive.
Revise each one so that it is assertive.
1. I’m going to the party regardless of what you want.
I must go. Johnny is leaving for good tomorrow. I
could go earlier and come home early enough to
watch a DVD with you. Or I stay with you like till 8 pm
but then I won’t be home early. What do you think?
2. I’ll lend you the money, even though I may have to
work an extra shift to get it.
Bro that’s all I can give. I’ve got my own bills to pay
you know.
2. Avoid self-disconfirmation:
Activity 2 (Suggested Answers)
Communicating Assertively (p.151)
• The following statements are deferential or aggressive.
Revise each one so that it is assertive.
3. We’re getting the car that I like, and that’s it!
What priority would you give to the choice of car? I
like this one because…
4. They don’t have vegetarian entrees at the
restaurant you want to go to, but I can just eat a
salad/ the decoration.
Maybe we could go to a restaurant with vegetarian
options?