Tips For Effective Journaling
Tips For Effective Journaling
Tips For Effective Journaling
• Your journal must be a safe place. No one will be punished for anything they write
in the journal.
• Your goal is to get the information you need to know all parts of the mind.
• If you’re disturbed by a particular response, ask if there are others inside who
would like to respond, others who have a different point of view perhaps.
• If you need help, get help. Ask for it – inside and out.
• If some part of you gives a response that you didn’t expect, ask for more
information. Look deeper.
• Keep asking questions. Expect the answers. The answers will come. Go back to
unanswered questions later, or ask someone else to respond. If you don’t get a
response, gently ask again. Insist on cooperation and you will get it. If it’s not
happening, ask – Why not?
• Keep asking questions. Try a different approach. Ask others who have been
helpful before, to help again.
• Set your intention. Your intention is to work together, to support each part to
heal, to be happy, and healthy, and whole.
Rainbow’s end
Questions to get a dialogue started
• Who needs to talk? • Do you ever feel safe? Do you feel
safe now?
• Who are you?
• Are you trying to protect the
• Do you have a job? others? How do you protect
• What do you usually feel, or how do yourself, or others? Is it working?
you usually behave? • Do you feel misunderstood? By
• Are you okay with that? whom? By the others inside? By me?
By someone outside? By the world?
• What can we call you?
• Do you know things that you want to
• How did you come to be? share?
• Are you aware of the others inside? • Is there anything right now that
feels like it’s ‘too much’?
• What’s going on inside, or what’s
going on with you? • Do you have enough helpers?
• Are the feelings based in the The two worksheets above i.e. “Tips for effective
present in any way? journaling” and “Questions to get a dialogue
started” are reproduced with permission from The
D.I.D. Journal Kit *Castelli Studios Publishers*
• Are there others who feel the same? © 2000 Judy Castelli