Sons and Lovers
Sons and Lovers
Balagovindan Kerala
(CW) Kerala
Content Reviewer (CR) Dr. Jameela Begum Former Head & Professor, Institute
Balagovindan Kerala
Sons and Lovers - D.H. Lawrence
David Herbert Lawrence was born in 1885 in Nottinghamshire, England where his
father was a miner. He was the fourth child of his parents. His father Arthur Lawrence was an
uninformed, uneducated coal-miner, who barely knew how to write his name. Lawrence’s
mother Lydia belonged to a middle class family. Her father George Beardsall was an
of the inspiration for Sons and Lovers. Lawrence had many affairs with women in his life,
including a longstanding relationship with Jessie Chambers (on whom the character of
with Frieda Weekley. Sons and Lovers was written in 1913, and contains many
autobiographical details.
Lawrence was first sent to the local Board School. Though not exceptionally brilliant,
he was fairly good at studies. He won a scholarship and was then sent to the Nottingham
High School. D.H. Lawrence had fervent love towards his mother and she was a constant
source of inspiration for his creative ventures. She fostered his interest in writing and
painting. He had complex feelings about his mother which have found a fine expression in his
A writer is always the product of his age. Often, he does nothing but sensitively
transcribe from life. He reacts to the social, political, economic and religious conditions of his
times and his works are a direct expression of this reaction. It is just not possible to make an
The White Peacock, the first novel of S.H. Lawrence was published in 1911and
notwithstanding some harsh reviews that appeared in the United States, it was fairly well
received in the London literary circles. It is Autobiographical in style. Its story is narrated by
a sensitive young man Cyril Beardsall. The setting in the novel is Lawrence’s own country,
Eastwood. All the places are identifiable. The atmosphere is beautifully described.
The Trespasser
novel by Helen Corke, a friend of his London school-teaching days. The theme of The
Trespasser is ‘failure of contact, lack of warmth, between people’. It describes the frustrated
love affair of a thirty-eight years old violinist Siegmund and Helena, a school teacher of
Sons and Lovers, originally titled Paul Morel, was published in 1913. It is largely
autobiographical. Mrs. Morel, a lady of cultivated and refined taste, married to a miner,
Walter Morel, is very unhappy with her marriage. Her Sons grow up, she selects them as
lovers. It is the most popular novel of Lawrence. Its plot is well- knit and is free from all
superfluities. The characters are seen from the outside as well as emotionally realised from
within. A very striking feature of the novel is a faithful description of life in the mining
village of Bestwood.
The Rainbow
The Rainbow is supposed to be the least autobiographical of Lawrence’s major
novels. It discusses at length how an individual can find fulfilment through marriage. In
addition, it traces the altering relations between the generations and the impact of modern
civilization on human sensibility. The Rainbow traces the history of three generations of the
Women in Love
Women in Love, published in 1920, a sequel to The Rainbow and is perhaps the best of
his novels to understand his philosophy of life. Women in Love is a study of the lives of
Ursula Brangwen and her sister Gudrun in relation to the two men Rupert Birkin and Gerald
Crich, who are attracted to them. Birkin, who represents Lawrence himself, is an integrated
human being. He has polarised within himself the two centres of consciousness, the blood
Aaron’s Rod
Aaron’s Rod, published in 1922 comes immediately after the two masterpieces The
Rainbow and Women in Love but is a rather a disappointing work. The story begins on the
first Christmas eve after the First World War with Aaron, dissatisfied in marriage, leaving his
wife and two children and going to London, where he becomes a flautist and meets Lilly, a
school Master.
The first part of the novel focuses on Mrs. Morel and her unhappy marriage to a
drinking miner. She has many arguments with her husband, some of which have painful
results: sometimes she is locked out of the house and hit in the head with a drawer. Estranged
from her husband, Mrs. Morel takes comfort in her four children. William, her oldest son, is
her favourite. When William sickens and dies a few years later, she is crushed, not even
noticing the rest of her children until she almost loses Paul, her second son, as well. From that
point on, Paul becomes the focus of her life, and the two seem to live for each other.
Paul falls in love with Miriam Leivers, who lives on a farm not too far from the Morel
family. They carry on a very intimate, but purely platonic, relationship for many years. Mrs.
Morel does not approve of Miriam, and this may be the main reason that Paul does not marry
Paul meets Clara Dawes, a suffragette who is separated from her husband, through
Miriam. As he becomes closer with Clara and they begin to discuss his relationship with
Miriam, she tells him that he should consider consummating their love and he returns to
Paul and Miriam sleep together and are briefly happy, but shortly afterward Paul
decides that he does not want to marry Miriam, and so he breaks off with her. She still feels
that his soul belongs to her, and, in part agrees reluctantly. He realizes that he loves his
After breaking off his relationship with Miriam, Paul begins to spend more time with
Clara and they begin an extremely passionate affair. However, she does not want to divorce
her husband Baxter, and so they can never be married. Paul’s mother falls ill and he devotes
much of his time to caring for her. When she finally dies, he is broken-hearted and, after a
final plea from Miriam, goes off alone at the end of the novel.
Gertrude Morel, mother of Paul, was not happy with her family life; she hates her
husband Walter Morel. So, she shifts her affection on her sons – William, Paul and Arthur. At
the beginning, she had a passion for her first son William. When he died of disease, she takes
to Arthur. He joined in the army and settled there. Finally, the affection of Gertrude falls on
Paul who lives with his mother. Because of his deepest love for his mother, Paul did not
marry anybody. This misplaced affection led Paul to mental suffering at the end. All the
novels of Lawrence are more or less autobiographical. But Sons and Lovers is almost a
carbon copy of the author’s life. The principal characters of the novel and the central
situations are drawn from Lawrence’s early life. Like Paul Morel’s father, Lawrence’s father
was a miner, uncultured and drunk. Like Paul’s mother, Lawrence’s mother was her
Sons and Lovers is an autobiographical novel, Lawrence was a tortured soul for the
full forty-five years of his life. Being highly sensitive, he reacted sharply, suffered intensely.
His parents never enjoyed conjugal felicity. The home atmosphere was embittered by their
endless bickerings. Repelled, by the coarse brutality of his father, Lawrence developed deep
attachment with his mother. She, too, frustrated in her marriage, leaned heavily on her
children, in particular on Lawrence, for emotional fulfilment and for the realisation of her
ambitions. Gradually, there grew an unhealthy inter-dependence between Lawrence and his
mother, that rendered him unfit to establish healthy emotional relationship with other women.
Lawrence grew into a self-conscious neurotic. At the age of sixteen, he had met Jessie
Chambers. He liked and loved her. But the dark shadow of his Oedipal relation with her
mother not let him attain emotional fulfilment through Jessie. They hung on to each other for
nearly ten years, but finally broke off. The entire experience had been so painful that in order
to work out of his catharsis, Lawrence had to relive it imaginatively and express it in artistic
each other in any form of mutual relationship can achieve ‘polarisation’, they can achieve
happiness. There should be no attempt to ‘dominate’ or ‘possess’ the other partner. For a
successful human relationship, the ‘divine otherness’ of the others has to be recognised and
respected. Over-dominance by one results in the loss of identity of the other. And if one’s
very identity id threatened, it saps one’s vitality and poisons the whole relationship. Then
there is nothing to salvage it from total destruction. Lawrence does not deny the conflict, nor
does he recommend its cessation. He simply suggests that when two opposites come together,
they should endeavour to realise a state, “where conflict in transcended, a state of still
In Sons and Lovers, Mrs Morel fails to maintain herself and her husband in a state of
‘mutual complementary balance’. Her middle class values, very trivial and hollow in
themselves, make her contemptuous of her husband. Her love of religion, philosophy and
The mutual incompatibility of Mrs Morel and her husband not only destroys the
prospects of their personal happiness but also vitiates the lives even of their children. They
come to despise their father and develop an unhealthy attachment with their mother. Mrs
Morel too, frustrated in her married life, makes husband substitutes of her sons. She is jealous
of the girls who come to see William. She makes no attempt to hide her hostility towards
Gyp, the girl with whom William gets infatuated in London. Her open condemnation of Gyp
makes William feel guilty of his love. He suffers from an acute mental conflict, but this is a
conflict that cannot be resolved. He has developed such a relation with his mother that it can
neither release him nor offer him any emotional fulfilment. He gets weary of the world and
ultimately dies.
The Oedipus Complex
The strongest influence in the life of D.H. Lawrence was that of his mother. After
disappointment in marriage, she had turned to her sons as her lovers. Her second son Arthur
was her favourite and she had pinned all hopes of a respectable future life on him. But he
died in London at a very young age, and in order to fill the emotional void caused by this
Sigmund Freud's most celebrated theory of sexuality, the Oedipus complex, takes its
name from the title character of the Greek play Oedipus Rex. D.H. Lawrence was aware of
Freud's theory, and Sons and Lovers famously uses the Oedipus complex as its base for
exploring Paul's relationship with his mother. Paul is hopelessly devoted to his mother, and
that love often borders on romantic desire. Lawrence writes many scenes between the two
that go beyond the bounds of conventional mother-son love, Paul murderously hates his
But Lawrence adds a twist to the Oedipus complex: Mrs. Morel is saddled with it as
well. She desires both William and Paul in near-romantic ways, and she despises all their
girlfriends. She, too, engages in transference, projecting her dissatisfaction with her marriage
onto her smothering love for her sons. At the end of the novel, Paul takes a major step in
releasing himself from his Oedipus complex. He intentionally overdoses his dying mother
with morphia, an act that reduces her suffering but also subverts his Oedipal fate, since he
Relationships
The chief characteristics of lyric are intensity of emotion, spontaneity of expression
and fluency of movement. A lyrical poet is personally involved in his experience. There is
such an intensity and urgency in his feeling that, like Shelley’s ‘Skylark’, he bursts into
‘unpremeditated’ art. He writes because he must; hence there is spontaneity and directness in
his expression. And the fluency of his style is just overwhelming. Judged by these
characteristics, Lawrence’s style can, with perfect justness, be described as lyrical. Whether
he is describing the nature background or writing of men and women and their relationship
with each other, he displays great urgency and intensity in his writing. The following
description of the sunset bears ample testimony to Lawrence’s descriptive powers as well as
Every open evening, the hills of Derbyshire were blazed over with
red sunset Mrs Morel watched the sun sink from the glistening sky,
red, as if all the fire had swum down there, leaving the bell-cast
flawless blue. The mountain-ash berries across the field stood fierily
Only a poet could have written of ‘a soft flower-blue overhead’ or ‘the bell-cast flawless
It is now a recognised fact that D.H. Lawrence himself was the victim of a deep-
rooted Oedipus Complex. His mother Lydia Lawrence had a very strong hold on him, and he
too treated his mother like a lover. It was she who gave him life-warmth. His orientation into
life and literature also depended on the inspiration she gave him.
Gertrude Morel, a fanatically moral and religious woman, at twenty one, marries a
warm, sensuous and indulgent miner, Walter Morel who had a rich, ringing laugh and a red,
moist mouth. The first few months of their married life are extremely happy but gradually the
feeble bond of their poetised passion snaps and Mrs Morel feels disgusted with her husband’s
habitual drunkenness, his indulgent and shiftless ways and his temperamental dishonesty. As
her eldest son. William also instinctively responds to her. Once, when he is seven, he brings
for her, form the fair, the egg-cups with moss roses on them and presents them to her ‘almost
like a lover’. When he brings home the first prizes he has won at school, she receives it
almost ‘like a queen’. But she is so over-possessive that as William comes in contact with
other girls and goes dancing with them, she finds it difficult to tolerate them. In fact she
expresses her hostility towards them in rather crude and jarring terms. Later, when William
falls in love with a passionate girl called Gyp and brings her home on a short visit, she is
vehemently critical of her. Under her influence, William finds it difficult to strike a balanced
emotional relationship with Gyp. Torn with conflict between his love for his love for his
mother and his infatuation with Gyp, he suffers from terrible spiritual anguish and finally
dies.
Throughout his life Lawrence returned to his native Midlands for the themes of his
novels and stories. But Sons and Lovers is unique, for it is completely founded in his own
early experience in his native mining village of Eastwood. It is, therefore, completely rooted
in the soul of his youth. The two main aspects that this novel has are the social study of the
miners and the beginning of an exploration into the tangled and inexplicable relations
that the principal figures involved in different, intricate relationships that form the basis of
this analysis are Mrs Morel, Paul Morel, Miriam and Clara Dawes. Of the three women who
seem to form a triangle, Mrs Morel is at the strongest end, and she exerts the greatest
attraction on her second son, Paul Morel. The relation between them presents the Freudian
Mrs. Morel is central to Sons and Lovers and it is fascinating to observe how
Lawrence mingles and presents the different facets of her personality ranging from the bright,
young and delicate woman captured by the vibrant animal magnetism of her dark, earthy
husband, to the unhappy wife, the woman trapped in an environment hostile to her impulses
and wishes, the caring mother who also makes huge emotional demands on her sons, the
constant sufferer and the relentless tormentor. The woman trapped in a marriage that fails to
be what it should - the sacred union in the flesh - will become a familiar Lawrentian theme,
but this trapped woman will never break free, will not even try to, except indirectly through
her children, and so will remain deeply unhappy and consequently make all her nearest and
Sons and Lovers has a great deal of description of the natural environment. Often, the
weather and environment reflect the characters' emotions through the literary technique of
pathetic fallacy. The description is frequently eroticized; both to indicate sexual energy and to
nature, much as the Romantics did. More frequently, characters bond deeply while in nature.
Lawrence uses flowers throughout the novel to symbolize these deep connections. However,
flowers are sometimes agents of division, as when Paul is repulsed by Miriam's fawning
The novelist was a tortured soul throughout the full forty five years of his life, and
what he suffered, and what he through and served under the stimulus of suffering can very
well be guessed from a study of Sons and Lovers. The novel faithfully presents all his
passions and frustrations. Owing to the mother fixation which was acute, the novelist could
not make an agreeable and happy emotional adjustment with the other specimens of the fair
sex. The soul-corroding experience has been transmuted into the novel. His intense suffering,
his passions and emotions, his deprivations have found an artist and vivifying expression in
the novel. The Oedipus complex with which was affected with in his private life in
manifested in the novel also. The mother image or mother substitute marred his own life.
Although he married Frieda Weekly after the demise of his mother, Lawrence was never
happy, failed to derive a real complacency and satisfaction in his married life. Paul Morel, his
prototype also suffered from similar emotional complexes. His relationship with both Miriam
Sons and Lovers is thus an imaginative representation of the facts of Lawrence’s life.
E. Baker has observed that the novel “is of cardinal importance as a key to his intricate and