LIXIN SILE YEAR{1978}

DANH LIXIN{2003}
CANH LIXIN{2012}
CAI LIXIN{2016}

2:47 PM 8/22/2022 Engineering Format

Facebook Introduction

Good morning my dear,how are you doing?

I'm sorry I invaded your privacy, I came across your profile here on Facebook.

I decided to check it out, researching it tells me a lot about you!!!!, I'd love to
see us be good friends if you don't mind.

My name is Engineer Lixin Sile, from Hội An Vietnam.

Am a single dad surviving with 3{Three}Chiledren,I'm a widower and i lost my wife

in a fatal plane crash.

My kids name are Cai ,Canh and Danh...Danh is 19 years old,Cai is 7 years old
and ,Canh is 10 years old..

I'm an Engineer,working in a Shipping company.Dilivering of Goods to different

countries.

I'm 44 years old

The reason I ask for your gmail is because here in our Ship,we don't use facebook
here. All connections are made with the Pentagon for our security.

I rarely use this app..

Why are you ignoring my messages?.

I think blocking me will be the best option. If you are not ready to communicate
with me.

MAIN FORMATT

FIRST DAY ON HANGOUT

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well, i would really like to know more about you.Hope you don't mind telling me
about yourself?..
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MY HEIGHT

1.73 m

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WEIGHT
61 Kg
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CAR

Do you have a car?

I have two cars but they are in Vietnam. A Rolls-Royce Phantom II, and A 2019
Mercedes-Benz GLE-Class. Anyway, I used the 2019 Mercedes-Benz GLE-Class

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AGE

44 years

Facebook

Age difference doesn't really matter to me. What is in the heart is more important.

Hangouts
Age is just a number and for me, it isn't important. Maturity is not determined by
age. A good heart is always a matured mind but a matured mind does not always have
a good heart. A good heart surpasses all.

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MY HOUSES( do you own a house or rented )

I had two houses. One in Vietnam and the other in U.S. (Duplex)

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PET

Do you have a pet?

I have a two pet dog. It is a Scottish breed,Golden Retriever and A Siberian

Husky...

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MY CHRISTIANITY

Are you a Christian?

I am a Roman Catholic, but I must be honest that I do not like going to church. In
the course of life, I have become metaphysical. I am less religious but honestly, I
am a good man.

I believe in good friendship and sincerity. I am interested in doing the right

thing at the right time.

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CHILDHOOD (How was growing up as a child for you?)Here?

Well, I grew up in Hội An Vietnam. like every other child but with my mother only.
Growing up was not with much fun but I enjoyed my childhood days anyway. I studied
a lot during those days.

I did my internship in a U.S private Engineering Company and after then worked for
few years in that same Company.

I grew up in Hội An Vietnam. And worked in U.S.Engineering Company

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SMOKING (Do you smoke?)

I have never smoked and I do not hate smokers. During my time in college, we made
some research on the health benefits of smoking and I eventually changed my opinion
on smokers.

I think smokers have their different opinion about it but the advice that I gave
to anyone who smokes was to stop it. Rehabilitation helps which is not always easy.

DRINKING ( are you addicted in drinks?)

Sometimes I drink beer. My favorite drink is red wine and also champagne.

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DIVORCED OR SEPARATED WOMAN

You told me that you are divorced, what was the reason for it?

How long have you been divorced?

Is your ex remarried?

I am very sorry about what you experienced but What would your response be if your
ex asks for a second chance?

considering the fact that you've both built a family together and also had the
intimacy in marriage.

What would your response be?

Well, I am really sorry about how you feel. I see you as a good person and I am
happy to have you in my life. If nature allows us, I will never do anything to make
you feel bad.

I am a man of good principles and virtues and I hope you are the same.

Have you had any relationship since then?

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MY RELATIONSHIPS

I have only had two deep relationships in my life, the first I had was when I was
still a teenager with a girl named Binh she was born in Vietnam but her parents
were Italian.
I really felt unhappy at that time. The second was with Canh my late wife and was
my longest relationship, we were married for 18 years.

Of course, it was not easy to overcome that situation and I think it was the most
difficult experience I have had all my life but I have been positive all the way.

I do not want to talk about that. I think at the moment, I am ready to move on with
someone who understands me and supports me emotionally.

I believe everything happens at the right time. Only nature can decide our fate.

To be honest with you, I like you and I hope we can give love a chance between us
to see where it can lead us, I will be grateful if you give me that opportunity.

Well, it is late here and I am going to bed. It has been nice talking to you.
Have a wonderful night of sweet dreams.
Good Night. A kiss.

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DREAM MAN IF SHE HAVE

Do you have for a man on mind now ?

For me i am interested in is a woman who can laugh, love and care for me, one who
is motivated and ambitious, intelligent, and self confident, that enjoys meaningful
conversation in addition to plain old good fun.

Romance and passion are important as well.

I have learned though that chemistry is not everything and not the only like
everyone I talk to I want the whole enchanter, including chemistry and component
for building a strong relationship.

I do believe my soulmate is out there because I know now that I am ready for an
unconditional love relationship...a forever relationship with a woman of my life .

And most of all trust, understand and communication are the key to every
relationship.

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KNOWING IF SHE WANTS TO REMARRY

Do you wish to remarry, Where will you love to spend your honeymoon in-case you
find the right man?

I've always dreamed of going to a tropic island for a couple of weeks. We would
stay in a romantic bungalow. Windows open, there would be lace curtains blowing in
a light breeze along with warmth coming from the sunshine shining through the lace.

Although this would be heaven on earth, I'd be in heaven just being with the woman
God intended me to go through life's journey with each together.

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KNOW IF SHE STILL BELEIVE IN TRUE LOVE

 Do you still believe in love and if i may ask what are your understanding?

True love to me is the kind of love God gives.

Unconditional love, It's a love that is indescribable with words yet is felt deep
within the heart. It's when you can't stop thinking of the other person & you are
excited to get home to them after a long days work or you desire to just say hello
through a text or phone call just because they are on your mind.

It's a precious thing that way too many people take advantage of something everyone
should have at least once in their lives.

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FUN ACTIVITIES

What do you do for fun ?

I enjoy walking in the woods holding, hands, candlelight dinners, travel, shopping,
clubing watching movies, and playing romantic piano for that special person.

I love snuggling and sharing passionate kisses with that special person.

I love any restaurant that serves good healthy foods and where a very good band is
playing. I love restaurants with romantic settings where we can look into each
others eyes and feel that special connection.

I also love candlelit romantic dinners.

I like healthy foods such as a good seafood salad I love the color blue. I like to
snuggle when it rains or read a good book, shopping at a large mall, reading any of
the self-help books, listening to romantic music or 60's music, and exercising.

I love being in the great outdoors seeing the natural beauty God has given to us
that others take advantage of.. I love snuggling with the ones I love while
watching a movie.

I enjoy meeting others & making a difference in the lives of those around me. the
feeling of that is so amazing.

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JEALOUS/ SHY TYPE

Are you the shy and jealous type?

I don’t have any reason to be jealous because trust and understanding are the key
to every relationship and i trust my woman.

Am not the shy type but on a second well i will tell you that i am a bit jealous,
that is when other men come too close to my partner, especially when they are
younger men, lol. see i am old, lol.

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ROMANTIC

Are you a romantic type?

I'm a helpless romantic.. I love being with my woman & doing little things for her
to put a smile on her face. I enjoy surprising her & doing my part to making her
dreams come true.

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FLOWERS

Do you love flowers ?

My favorite Rose is a Purple rose... they are not as common as the other types. My
favorite flowers are Stargazer lilies & lilac bushes.

If you turn out to be my dream woman. Giving you breakfast in bed is such a
romantic thing to do, I will buy a cheap platter from the thrift store or i could
just use a baking sheet with fabric draped over it.

I will make your favorite breakfast before you wake, with orange juice and coffee.

I will place a couple tea light candles next to your nightstand they're very cheap
and light, then Place a rose head or other flower head into a small container or
glass and place it on the platter, then open the curtains, and then wake you up.

If it happens that you work a lot of overtime at your job and comes home absolutely
exhausted, I will get this cute basket and put massage oil, bubble bath, body
lotion, a loofa, those wooden massage things that i can buy, and a few other things
in the basket and I keep it in my bedroom.

I will write you a note and put it in your room where you'd find it which said,
"Any time you need to unwind from work, just call me and tell me to bring the
basket." That way, every time you work overtime and wants to relax...

I expect to get a call and I come over to give you the most romantic bubble bath I
possibly you will love it!

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KNOW HER DREAMS AS A WOAMN (what she hopes in mind )

I would like to find a partner who is honest, assertive, intelligent, loquacious,

willing to hang in there when things get a little difficult.

I appreciate masculinity in a woman great deal, someone who is in touch with her
sexuality and not afraid to express it.

A woman who is communicative, sure of herself and willing to solve problems when
they arise.

Someone that is open minded and willing to try new and different things.

she takes care of herself and is comfortable dressing up once in awhile, casual is
ok too.

she knows she's not perfect and is ok with that, just as I know this about myself
and keep trying to succeed in things anyways.

Most of all, She must be willing to be treated with respect, To be cared for and
payed attention to in the best possible way.
She must be willing to be with someone who is faithful to her exclusively.

I am a good man. I have my faults but pride myself on my honesty and my ability to
express my feelings and I don't believe in cheating on a partner, in other words
when I am with someone I am faithful and honest.

I am not interested in one night stands or playing the field. I am a single father
and sometimes I ask myself "Why?" I'd have to say that it was just not a problem
earlier, and I just never seemed to notice that.

I am a person who enjoys communicating on a physical level, a touch or caress can

mean so much whether given or received. I also love to talk and truly enjoy good
conversation on a variety of subjects.

I can be quite direct.

I also like to work with wood and fix things, I enjoy dressing up and take pride in
my appearance.

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ICE CREAM

What is your favorite Ice Cream flavor?

I have a weakness for carmel (& chocolate. As in I rarely go a day without some
chocolate. I'm really bad that way. And too many people know this about me! LOL).

So my favorite ice cream is Copper Nettle Carmel. It tastes mostly like carmel and
has chocolate chunks in it. It is HEEEEAAAVEN!!! I promise you. Other than
that...give me chocolate. Plain old chocolate.

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THINGS THAT MAKES HER HAPPY

What makes you smile and happy ?

Well' for me, What makes me smile is very easy!!! What makes me smile is seeing
those I love smiling & knowing I put that smile on their faces and when I have a
woman who treats me like a King it makes me happy.

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THINGS THAT MAKES HER CRY

Do you cry alot and what make you cry?

I do have a tendency to cry easily, I cry also when I'm happy & surprised. I don't
like to cry in front of others so i feel embarrassed when I do. but i cry when i
think about my past life .

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HER ACTTRACTION IN A MAN

What attracts you to a man?

Truthfulness and respect. It really makes me get closer to a lady is the person
inside, I do considers that more important because beauty fades with time but the
person inside appreciates with time.

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HER GO FOR A MAN

What do you go for in a man?

I go for the inner beauty, it radiates and it speaks for itself over time and for
women like you who are family oriented is an added advantage to me.

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HER TRUST FOR A MAN

Do you think you can be trusted by your man?

Yes I can be trusted, because I am ready to open up my mind and my heart and also
lay down my life for the woman I love.

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HOW DO SHE TREAT HER MAN

How do you treat your man?

Although every relationship has it's ups & downs, I will treat my woman with lots
of love & respect.

I like to hold her hand while walking side by side, I enjoy the little kisses
stolen throughout the day, & the little smiles she gives me from across the room.

I believe a man & woman are to walk side by side in life & so communication &
honesty are VERY important.

I will make sure my woman is a woman of God and because of that reason alone I will
not have to worry about her treating me badly or cheating on me.

I in return will be completely faithful to her & will support her during our lives
together. I do expect her to do the same for me.

We will be each others rock to lean on & we will share dreams & goals for ourselves
and who will have faith & be strong even when life is looking down.

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HER FAVORITE THINGS

Would you like to share somes of your favorite things?

Some of my favorite things are laughing, sharing, being outdoors, colors, music,
dancing, fires in the back yard, deep conversation, spontaneous road trips, the
smell of a fall morning, the smell of my special someone, reassuring looks, and the
touch that makes you feel so warm and content.

I can enjoy a night out on the town, but don't like to frequent the bar scene.
Coffee shops and lattes, music, intimacy, talking, dancing, children, and just
doing things together.

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KNOW ABOUT HER FAVORITE MUSIC

Do you love music and any favorite?

I love music... the songs I listen to will usually tell you what kind of mood I'm
in or tell you what's in my heart when words can't begin to describe who I am.

When I'm happy, you'll usually find me singing and i love listening to romantic
music or 80's music.

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MOVIES

What about movies any favorite?

I have a few favorite movies. My all-time favorite is "City of Angels" it's a movie
where a man sacrificed his life as an angel to experience what it was like to love
the man he was drawn to.

I also love Notebook, Sweet November, Sleepless in Seattle, Grease, Never been
kissed, anything with Reese With er spoon. I like romantic comedies, action movies,
Romantic, & ones based on a true story like Titanic, & Pearl Harbor.

There are really so many that I like, I can't really name them all.

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SPORTS

What kind of sports do you like best?

I like Football, shooting baskets, playing volleyball, & a few others. baseball
game also.

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BOOKS

What is your favorite book?

my favorite book is the bible . It's got the greatest stories ever told as well as
words from our heavenly father. despite that i don't go to chruch i do read it when
i'm free most times .

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HER LIKE AND DISLIKE

What do you like and dislike ?

For me...I don't like cheaters, liars, thieves, or shallow people. Other than that,
I'm a person that likes pretty much everything in life ... I'm VERY easy going and
love easy going people.

I believe that romance is a very important part of the relationship.

I enjoy women who are confident with themselves and are not afraid to express
themselves in a diplomatic way.

I also think it is very important that two people want the same thing in a
relationship. I believe that this should be discussed and communicated clearly when
two people first meet.

I do not believe in wasting my time or the other persons time because life is too
short. I believe each person should be allowed to be who they are and to be free to
give their best for each others mutual benefit.

I do not like controlling women who do not communicate well and have agendas or
excessive previous baggage. I like woman who I can have a good conversation with
and we can communicate in a mutually beneficial way....

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CHANGES ABOUT HER SELF

If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?

I would change how I tend to dwell on the past...it's really dragging me down
lately.

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HER FEARS

What is your biggest fear?

My biggest fear is loosing anyone and I don’t want to loose anyone close to me
again.

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HER DECISIONS

What has been the best decision you've ever made?

Sending my dear daughters away for education abroad has been my best decision! I
never thought I would be able to cope but I realized their study comes first.

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FEELINGS

Do you love to express your feelings or you love to hide your feelings?

I'm a person who would rather express my feelings as I know it's not good to keep
them locked up.

It's important to express to others that you care for them & are there to support &
encourage.

I love sharing sweet moments with the woman I love... it makes my heart happy!

I am a very positive person who cares a lot about the people around me, Great
conversation motivates me.

I live my life with intent and purpose. I can find fun in almost anything I do and
I am looking for someone to share special moments and love unconditionally.

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TRY TO KNOW ABOUT HER JOB SALARY

How much were you earning before retirement?

How much do you earn at work?

What is the nature of your work hope isn't stressful to you ?

How much does your employees earn?

I don't think I can tell you about how much I earn because you may feel in
inferior. Well It's for my security purposes I would like to share anyway ok .

I am well paid but I am not happy due to the situation of insecurity here. Even our
salaries are paid into our bank accounts in our various countries because of this.

We do not have access to our salaries here because of some terrorist attacks that
happened in the past.

Everything is difficult here especially the work schedule. We don't lack anything

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CALLS AND CAMS

Calls and cams are not allowed here in the Ship for security reasons. All
connections are made to pentagon for our safety. I can call you but it is risky. It
is very risky to do that.

Our conversation is private so don't worry about it. I can take care of that.

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MY WORK HERE (MWH)

I Deliver Goods to different countries and i have been to a lot of Countries...

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FOOD IN THE Ship

Everyone who works here in the Ship eats at the Ship cafeteria or restaurant. I do
not cook food in my room. Sometimes, I only prepare tea or coffee.
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HOBBIES

My hobbies are quite few. While I was in my country, I actually had less time to
have fun because of the nature of my job but whenever I had the opportunity, I go
to the cinema.

I like cycling, reading, music, traveling, Hiking, painting, Swimming, walking.

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DON'T TELL ANYONE ABOUT US

I can say that you came into my life when I least expected it. It's crazy to
constantly think about you, even while I'm at work. Well, I feel that for the
moment, you shouldn't tell anyone about me anymore.

I still haven't told my daughter about you and I have my reasons. I think she will
be very happy when she knows that I am in a relationship, but I want that to be
within me, at least for now.

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How do you enjoy walking in the park?

I enjoy it a lot; feel the fresh air of the nature, viewing the beautiful green
trees.

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FOOD

I am not a foodie but I eat almost everything. In English, I can say that I am not
a "glutton." My favorite food is pasta. I also like seafood. Shrimp, crab legs,
prawns, etc.

Vegetables with any fish. meat or chicken, desserts. Anything.

Naturally, I do not eat much and that is the reason I have been able to adapt
quickly to how things are here. I don't like the food cooked here in the work site.

And when I get home, I prepare tea and bread..

Do you understand me?

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AFTER THE FIRST STREET GIVE HER THE PROJECT THAT MADE YOU NOT TO COMMUNICATE WITH
HER THAT MOMENT.
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PROJECT IN CAMP

Honey, I have been working at the Ship.

I will have to make some exploitative research drawing on field document and
expert interviews.
It would be difficult for me because it requires a statistical analysis but I won't
be able to get the correct statistics because I am in a Ship, I will have to make
assumptions.

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AFTER MISUNDERSTANDING

Hi ,I hope you are having a good day. Today, I couldn't stop thinking about you.
Last night, we had a little misunderstanding but we have to forget about that. We
are humans and we have emotions.

These things happen in every relationship but the ability for us to understand
ourselves is what makes the difference. I am not perfect and you neither.

I have to assure you that I've given all my love to you and I'll never hurt you.
I've known inner peace since I met you and I've pledged to love and to trust you
despite the distance.

It is a bit difficult to express ourselves perfectly through writing but I hope we

will be patient. We can only overcome the distance that separates us by being
patient and honest always.

I am a gentleman and maybe you might get to notice it when we are together. I love
you and I trust you of course.

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