My Mother at Sixty Six
My Mother at Sixty Six
My Mother at Sixty Six
Poetry Section
Poem: My mother at sixty-six
The poet, Kamala Das also wrote by her pen-name of ‘Madhavikutty’. She was
born in Kerala and is one of India’s first poets. Her subject – matter is basically
related to her personality- beautiful, sensitive, bold and tormented. External
factors do not reflect in her writings, her writings bring out her true inner feelings.
Her favorite poem is ‘composition’.
In the poem ‘My mother at sixty six’, she talks about her mother. This poem is
based on mother-daughter relation and the poet shares her feelings for her
mother.
Theme:
This poem revolves around the theme of advancing age and the fear of loss and
separation. The poet looks at her old feeble mother and the finality of death
looms large on her mind. Looking at her old mother, she is pained and worried as
she realizes that the mother may not live long.
Summary:
Once the poet went to visit her mother. She was on her way back to the airport to
return to Cochin. She looked at her mother who was seated beside her in the car.
Her mother had dozed off to sleep and her ageing face - was smoky in colour like
ash. Her mouth was open and she resembled a dead body. The poet realized
that her mother was old. She felt pain and sympathy for her. Her mother needed
love, affection and care.
In order to come out of the gloom, the poet shifted her glance and looked out of
the car’s window. There she saw young trees pass by. Little children were
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running out of their houses into the playgrounds. These things were contrary to
the ageing face of her mother. They symbolised energy, life and happiness.
As they reached the airport and the poet was about to leave for the aeroplane,
she glanced at her mother one more time. Her mother appeared weak and pale
just like the moon in the winter season which seems to have lost all its strength.
The poet felt the pain and fear of losing her mother. She was reminded of her
childhood when she used to fear losing her mother. As a child she could not bear
to be separated from her mother even for a few moments. Now the loss would be
permanent as her mother was about to die and she would lose her forever.
The poet did not express her feelings. She smiled and said “see you soon,
Amma” because she wanted that her mother should live and they could meet
again.
Beside: next to
Corpse: a dead body, especially of a human being
Spilling out of their homes: coming out of their homes
Late winter's moon: relating to old age or death
doze: a short, light sleep
ashen: very pale, like ash.
sprinting: here, shooting out of the ground/running fast
wan: unnaturally pale, as from physical or emotional distress.
POETIC DEVICES:
The poetic devices used are simile, repetition and personification:
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TEXTUAL QUESTIONS:
Think it Out:
1. What is the kind of pain and ache that the poet feels?
Whenever the poet looks at the colourless and pale face of her mother, her
old familiar pain surfaces realising that her mother was ageing and would
die soon.
3. Why has the poet brought in the image of the merry children ‘spilling
out of their homes’?
The poet draws a comparison between what is travelling with her and what
she can see outside. It’s a comparison between life and death. Her mother
is sleeping, with mouth open, like a dead body, while outside she can see
children who are full of life, energy and enthusiasm.
4. Why has the mother been compared to the ‘late winter’s moon’?
Just as the late winter’s moon is dull and lacks luster, so is her mother at
the end stage of her life. Also, as the late winter moon gets overshadowed
by the fog and mist in the sky similarly her mother can get overshadowed
by death at any time. Both of them are nearing an end- one of season and
the other of life.
5. What do the parting words of the poet and her smile signify?
The parting words of the poet show her positive attitude.
She smiles to conceal her fear and pain of separation from her mother and
assures herself and her mother that they would meet again. She is being
very brave which is indicated by the use of repetition in the poem:
“smile and smile and smile......”
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DO-IT-YOURSELF EXERCISES
Reference-to-context:
Read the extracts given and answer the questions that follow:
3. ...I looked again at her wan, pale as a…smile and smile and smile.
● What does the poet compare her mother's pale face to? Mention the poetic
device.
● What is meant by "familiar ache"?
● What were her parting words to her mother?
● Why did she smile?
● What is the fear of the poet?