My Mother at Sixty Six

My Mother at Sixty Six Summary
This is a touching poem written by Indian poet Kamla Das who wrote under the pen name of
‘Madhavikutty’. In this poem, she describes her feeling of love and attachment towards her ageing
mother.
Once the poet went to visit her mother. She was on her way back to the the airport to return to
Cochin. She looked at her mother who was seated beside her in the car. Her mother had dozed off
to sleep and her ageing face - was smoky in colour like ash. Her mouth was open and she
resembled a dead body. The poet realized that her mother was old. She felt pain and sympathy for
her. Her mother needed love, affection and care.
In order to come out of the gloom, the poet shifted her glance and looked out of the car’s window.
There she saw young trees pass by. Little children were running out of their houses into the
playgrounds. These things were contrary to the ageing face of her mother. They symbolised energy,
life and happiness.

As they reached the airport and the poet was about to leave for the aeroplane, she glanced at her
mother one more time. Her mother appeared weak and pale just like the moon in the winter season
which seems to have lost all its strength. The poet felt the pain and fear of losing her mother. She
was reminded of her childhood when she used to fear losing her mother. As a child she could not
bear to be separated from her mother even for a few moments. Now the loss would be permanent
as her mother was about to die and she would lose her forever.
The poet did not express her feelings. She smiled and said “see you soon, Amma” because she
wanted that her mother should live and they could meet again.
Explanation
Firstly, when the poet is on her way to the cochin airport with her old mother sitting beside her, she
looks at her closely and presents before us her image.
She compares her with a corpse. (similie is a figure of speech to show comparison between her
mother’s face and a corpse.) As she looks at her mother’s pale and pallid face, she is struck with
the horror and pain of losing her. The mother with the dozing face and open mouth is compared to a
corpse. Here, the poet shows the typical love and affection which is present in a mother-daughter
relation.
The poet is pained and shifts her attention outside the car in order to drive out the negative feelings.
She changes her sad mood .The scene outside the window is of growing life and energy. The rapidly
sprinting trees alongside the merrily playing children symbolize life, youth and vitality. The poet here
is reminded of her own childhood when her mother had been young whereas now she is encircled
with the fear of losing her and that has made her insecure.
She is at the airport to take a flight. It indicates departure and separation which creates melancholy.
As she bids goodbye to her mother, the image of the old, wan, worn out mother in the twilight of
years strikes her again. Here again a similie is used to compare her mother with a late winter’s
moon whose light is obstacle by fog and mist As she looks old now, her personality is affected by it.
The poet is feeling the pain of separation, leaving her mother and going. Also, her childhood fear of
losing her mother which she feels that earlier was temporary but now, could be forever as she could
die of old age, is haunting her. She is so pained that it is natural for her to cry but keeping a brave
front she hides her tears and smiles.
She bids farewell to her mother and keeping her hope of seeing her again alive, says “see you soon,
Amma”. She hides her sorrow as she does not want to create a painful environment for her mother
and conveys her that as she is enjoying her life similarly her mother should also be happy and enjoy
her life.
(The poem revolves around the theme of advancing age and the fear that adheres to its loss and
separation. It is a sentimental account of the mother’s approaching end through the eyes of the
daughter. The seemingly short poem touches upon the theme of the filial bond between the mother
and daughter smeared in the backdrop of nostalgia and fear. Nostalgia of the past (the time spent
with the mother) and fear of the future without her.)
It is a short poem, without a full stop, the poem is like a long sentence, over flowing thought
process. The poet uses the device of comparison and contrast, simile and repetition.
NEW / DIFFICULT WORDS

1) doze: a short, light sleep
2) ashen: very pale, like ash.
3) corpse: a dead body.
4) sprinting: here, shooting out of the ground.
5) spilling: here, to move out in great numbers.
6) wan: unnaturally pale, as from physical or emotional distress.
7) ache: pain.

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