hello

How are you doing today?

Thanks for getting back to me.

once again nice meeting you.Could you please tell me little more about you?

It is good to know little about you and as we talk the conversation will create
further question so that we can know each other better. It will be a pleasure
having you as my friend, and what name should i call you often?

Thanks for your reply, It's nice reading from you again, I think telling you about
myself will give you more insight about me more as your new friend and that will be
good for a start.

I've been a widow for 3yrs..Born and raise in denmark.

Relocated here in the US since when i was 7yrs,I gained my Citizenship 10yrs
after,i base here in new york.

It takes me the whole 3years to recover from the lost pain burning through my heart
everyday. She was the most important part of my life and she's the most Lovable
woman have ever seen.

She supported me so much, We love each other so much. I just realize i have to let
go and move on.

It is good to know little about you and as we talk the conversation will create
further question so that we can know each other better. newly starting out to
look.Right now!! I'm so ready to find a new soul mate.

I feel lonely a lot of times and that's why I need to find my true love, a person
that will love me as much as I'll love her.

Thanks for your message, It might also interest you to know that, I have had a bad
experience on dating after I loss my wife that was 5 months ago; its really a long
and pathetic story

I want just want to give a try again and I believe this time my prayer will be
answered, I strongly believe there are a lot of good woman out there its a question
of time and patient, I believe there are still good ones among the bad.

I must not say because I have met with one bad woman everyone is bad, that's is an
insult to the institution of women as well as my mother.

I always pray to have a woman of my choice to grow old together till death do us
part. No matter the distance, ethnic or culture, a woman who will love me for whom
I am not what I have, a woman with care heart, honest, trust worthy, above all a
woman with love and understanding.

Im just a man one can trust and rely on in every situation bad or good.

Now tell me, what challenges have you been facing on relationship and would you
like to remain single till the end or would you strive till you accomplish your
dream man?
 Are you not worried of being alone? Because to me it's not easy being alone, life
without love is mere living. Hope to hear from you soon. Until then have a pleasant
day

I am the only child of my late parents Professor and Mrs... of the blessed memory i
lost my parents when i was 20years ever since then me and my uncle hardly
communicate the last time i talk with me uncle was about 10 years ago so my
daughter is the only family i have

I work self employed. I do construction work.I specialize on contract project,I

have been doing this all my life.

i have a son, he is my only child and my source of joy

I hope to meet a nice person and maybe we can see

Impressing is what I describe your captivating profile as.

At this point in my life, I am seeking peace, fun and simplicity. I have been in
serious relationships and have learned from them. It's nice to step back and be
able to see the big picture in life. Life is short and precious and I don't want to
waste time basing my life and relationships on things that don't really matter in
the long run.

I am a firm believer in things in as much power as you give them.

I want a true love, Which I know it is difficult a woman that has a big heart,
ready for a serious and honest long term relationship, A woman that believes in a
one man, one woman kind of relationship, A woman that has true moral, cultural and
family values these I have seen in you that caught my attention.Can we start as
friends? Hope this meet you well!

I know for now this may be a dream for me, however, I

hope and I wish you would put fourth the effort to get to know me and make it
reality for me.

second step..............................................

I am always very happy hearing from you each day that passes by. I wish you could
see the difference you make in my life since we started talking.

I come online each day just to read from you.. It is my wish at this point in time
to really find a good woman with good mind. A woman that is caring and knows what
it takes to really stand for his man no matter the situation and as I am also
willing to stand with you no matter what.

This is the simple reason why I had to contact you as I do not regret it at all as
you are the type of woman I deserve and hunger for. And I decided to give it a try
and now I have just met you. I must tell you that I am so happy to hear from you
and also for your simplicity for having me as a friend.
I need you to understand one fact that trust and understanding is one thing that
matters in every friendship and relationship.

I need you to trust me and to give me your attention and lets build our world.

Please do not work with me without trust as trust is most important in every
relationship.

I am a man of age right now and I know what I want for my self and not to play
games as I am not getting younger, therefore I must have to cultivate a habit of
been open minded to you as that is the only way we can work in same line.

am a man of age right now and I know what I want for my self and not to play games
as I am not getting younger, therefore I must have to cultivate a habit of been
open minded to you as that is the only way we can work in same line.

My purpose is to live a life full of love, joy, and accomplishments. I enjoy a good
laugh and I make others laugh easily and feel comfortable. I have a positive
outlook on life and seek the same.

I very much appreciate loyalty and understanding in a relationship, but most of all
I want is a trusting and open relationship.

Thank you so much for replying to my message, When I saw your profile something
inside me prompted me to contact you because there is something about your profile
that I cant explain.

Life is more enriching to share with a special person. My ultimate goal is to lead
a balance and harmonious life. Having live through so many years at different
places and far away from my birthplace that stretched my horizons and neurons and
have more bumpy than smooth ride, I am contented and proud to come this far.

Having established my basic, now i feel its time to bring garden to my life.
Naturally, humans are never satisfied otherwise we will live in stagnant and never
grow. In my view a long lasting relationship calls for sharing my value, interest
and we each feel the personal growth. In simple terms, enjoying our companionship
from resting to doing activities together.

I know there will always be the best soul mate out there.I believe that everything
that has happened in my life has made me a stronger person and has helped me know
what I want.

Even though the time-poor of my lifestyle, we should appreciate our togetherness

and not taking each other for granted.

The satisfaction from achieving something together or appreciating life's little

joy is very fulfilling.

I am never a pub/club goer, more of a relaxing park or beach person.

I need to face life now as i need a woman to share my world with.a woman who
believes in One woman one man. Am ready to sacrifice all i have as much as you give
me the opportunity to trust you. I need you to focus your attention on me and
develop interest on my request to have you for a relationship and lets see what God
holds for us.

I just thought it will be much easier to email out of the site. I will appreciate a
good communication and understanding in which if neither of us makes a wrong
statement, instead to stop writing, lets talk about it and

correct the mistake if necessary.

Waiting to hear from you and i hope this meets you well

third step................................................

Hi beautiful,

How are you doing?

It always touch me deeply when i read from you and it still beat my imagination
that a lady with such beauty is single. You deserve more than happiness. I think i
already adore and cherish you for only the warm letter you are sending me here
daily
well, I am just a normal hardworking, some what goofy, always happy guy trying to
make it in life like everyone else I guess. I am at a good point in my life and I
am looking for that special someone to spend time with (A soul mate). I like to
walk on the beach and go to the movies, dinner and dancing.

I am an easy going guy that's easy to talk to and fun to be with. I pretty much
have everything that I need all that's missing in my world is my Queen. I don't
mind opening door's and buying flowers for no reason, I don't mind someone being
themselves around me from day one because I'm a very upfront person and I'm going
to be myself from day one.

i like music, dancing, hearing and singing love songs while I drive in long
drivings. I'm not very good describing myself, but the only thing I could ask for
is a good companion that is loving and caring.

What are you looking for in a relationship?

How important is family to you?

What do you do for a living?

What's your experience on EHarmony?

Do you have any kids?

Do you have any pet?

Do you live with a roommate, family or own your home?

your unique way of expressing yourself, Its was fabulous. I wouldn't have express
myself better than that. We have a whole lot in common and you sound like the woman
i might spend the rest of my life with (My Dream and Hope). No one can tell though
until they find out. Good things never happen to comes easily, like my Dad always
says. I'm sure

you know what that means.

I'm ambitious to live each day with a smile, hard working, and practical, people
say have a magnet personality but i think i am more cautious in matters of love
because I know my heart is too soft to handle heart break. I enjoy cooking, keeping
the home clean and tidy. I say what I think, which I believe you do as well but I
don't like to hurt people, sometimes i say the wrong thing and I am sorry
afterwards.

I hate lying - or people who tell me lie's, I'd rather the truth, which I can deal
with it because I want you to be my best friend, you must know the meaning of true
friendship and have a clue what real love is all about.

Im not the one for playing games and Im very loyal. Jealousy is a sign of
insecurity and is defined as a fear of being replaced.

If you have a problem with trust issues because of your previous painful
relationships, please let me know we will find the source and deal with it. Because
I dont want to pay for someone else misdeeds. Lets start from scratch. Ill not
treat you the same way.

Communication is key to the success of any relationship. We must learn to talk

about any and everything and not be afraid of allowing others to say whats on
their mind. I really want to know you as fast as i can as i am not here to play
games with you but to know you like i should. i am not online all day due to the
nature of my Job as you already know.

I think this is true Love. You and me. .because. There are two reasons why I
wake up in the morning: my alarm clock and you.
Heart warm regards to you,Hugs from me
fourth step...............................................

hello dear, hope you are okay.

By the grace of God I am a successful contractor.I have been involved in various

projects from overseeing construction of commercial buildings to working on
government projects local and overseas. My work has provided me many opportunities
to see different parts of this beautiful world.

There are good times and some bad times. I am at the point in my life where I want
to start slowing down my work and begin enjoying time with my special woman. I
believe in working hard but also playing hard, if you know what I mean, Its the
playing part that I need attention to and want to, of course, pay attention to the
love of my life.

I am glad we are embarking on this voyage of trust and communication so I will tell
you a little more about myself to give you an insight as to the kind of man you
might fall in love with. LOL. Just teasing.

Anyways, I am a man that is easy to please and not fussy, but must have an honest,
true relationship. I dont play games and am dedicated to the one who loves me. I
am passionate, honest, loving, caring, very loyal and humble to everyone that
enters my life.

I'm only not looking for the love of my life. But Id prefer to find the best
friend and the Love of my life. If I may bore you with a little more detail about
myself it is to say I stay active.

I would love to spend weekends on short trips having dinner and wine over a
quiet,intimate dinner. I love dancing or sitting in front of a fire listening to
mellow music.I love cuddling and talking about lifes day.Seeing a sunset over water
or laying on the beach at night

kissing. Having a great cup of coffee or an ice cold beer.

It doesnt matter as long as we are together. Now I dont want to smother you
because I believe life should have its balance. I do enjoy playing golf,
hiking,swimming, Fishing, Dancing, riding Horses, walking on the beach, football,
Basket balls, and See Movie and i enjoy holding

hand to hand with my special someone and love each other. I love to read, travel
and discover new ideas and places. I don't Smoke but i drink occasionally. When i
was young i've always wanted to be a self employed. enjoying every moment of my
life with someone special. I am

more of a positive person. Negativity has no value to me, it only discourage, and
keep people away from acheiving there desire.

I will start with the most important to me & that is my relationship with God. My
daily life doesn't exist without him being my rock. I I will start with the most
important to me & that is my relationship with God. My daily life doesn't exist
without him being my rockst like i do with

my late wife!!!

I love my career and job as a contractor agent don't

get me wrong but my family comes first. a couple years ago when my late wife was
dying or Lungs Cancer, I stop working and i never apply to all the offer given to
me because i have to take care of my wife and my son. so I would say my family
comes first.

but I have to get better at not putting my job before how I feel... I like
traveling, if we were to plan a trip I have no problem make time for my woman. I
have never taken illegal drugs.I am a upbeat, cheerful person and find no reason to
dwell on the bad things... just laugh it

off and let it go... things happen to us everyday but if we stress out about it or
get upset it will be a long day.

I have a good sense of humor like to laugh and act silly when the time is right.
sometime you just have to laugh at yourself. sometime I start laughing and really
dont even know why. I am honest, trustworthy.. I have never cheated and do not
understand why someone would... I believe you share everything with each other.

Are you a negative or positive person?

What is your relationship with God?

What was your dream when you were younger, has it come true?

What's your favorite outdoor activity?

What is your favorite sport?

Tell Me More About Your Work?

Do you put your job before family?

Do you involve in drugs?

What makes you laugh?

Do you have a good sense of humor?

I hope this question didn't seem too much to answer.

fifth step.............................................

After all these years, the most important thing I've learned is that love is a
whole lot more than flowers and candlelight. It's sticking together during those
times when the other partner is short on courage, patience and confidence. It's
sacrificing something you want for something the family needs, and always being
willing to listen.

When I was a little boy, I dreamed of that one person that I would share my dreams,
happiness and energy with ... I could not see her face but she was there. I always
felt like she was out there, I just needed to feel her. I visualized the bond we
would have and the courage she would give me to endure life's obstacles.

All these years I was with others, and feeling my way through life, learning
lessons that later on would prepare me to become the person that I am now. I have
felt alone and sad. Then one day my eyes opened and I became that little boy
again ... realizing that she is here now. Here in my world was the woman that I had
dreamed of and I'd hoped would not miss our meeting in life ... that woman is you.

As I sit here and think about you and what you and I have been able to talk about
in a very short period, I see that I can only love you more and more every day.
You're my inspiration each and every day. You are what keeps me going when I just
want to give up. You are my meaning for life and love. I love the way that you love
me. I wouldn't know what to do if I didn't have you. You're every man's dream wife.

My wish for you is that you could feel all the passion and love that I carry around
in my heart and soul for you.

You have won my love and soul. You have gotten it all, even my heart. You make me
feel like I am in heaven in the arms of an Angel. You and I have an amazing
relationship.

sixth step..........................................

I want to know your interests. I catch myself daydreaming about this beautiful
soul and I know she is there for me. I think some times life takes you down a road
and you must learn something from that experience. I am a one man, one woman man, I
really want you to Know you Have My Full attention.

I'm a person who attaches emotionally to one person at a time. If I'm content in my
relationship. I couldn't be
drawn out of it, or into a new relationship or into an intimate adventure, even if
the person was extremely attractive , Once my partner and I learn how to please
each other, I'm content not to experiment further. When I am committed to someone,
I am rock solid.

I never wonder about what I am missing or whether or not I should be with someone
else in a different kind of life. If I feel loving, I'm very passionate and all
over the person I want. I don't moderate my romantic and sexual emotions.. Our
compatibility and my partners character are much more important to me.

My favorite Music, I like the country, Pop, Rock & Roll, R&B, Jazz. I often listen
to Trace Adkins, Brian Adams, Def Leopard and Band U2. i like Action movie, Some
thriller, sci - Fiction, Home Movie, Adventures, Maybe a little Scary movie lol
HAHA. I bet you won't really like the scary movie. :) lol.

I would love to go to Greece, love the Gulf shore, Sannibel Island(great sea
shells) and the Rocky

Mountains(I have only flown over)., France, Ireland, England, Norway, and would
love to go to Iceland and jump in every pool they have(they are heated by natural
lava flows under the ground). There are many parts of the USA I have not seen.

I love roller coasters!. I don't like to go to bed mad, I like to talk thing out
amicably and still able to have my woman in my arms when we're going to sleep.

I don't smoke, don't gamble, may play the lottery every

once in a while, but thats as far as that goes.. I only drink socially.

I like cuddling with soft music, lights down low, candle lit, and a glass of wine
though. I love physical attention and love to give it also. I love holding hands
with that special someone, I don't mind even kissing and hugging in public. That
probably what the world needs more is seeing positive affection from one another,
happiness, laughter. More question for you. Feel free to ask me anything okay.

Are you a sound or light sleeper?

Are you a morning person?

What kinds of music do you listen to?

What are your all-time favorite movies?

Where's the place you long to go but haven't been to yet? Why there?
Do you have Co-dependent tendencies?

I am not a sickler but If i were sick would you stand by me and support me?

Have you ever had an std or anything?

When in a heated fight would you walk away and cool off or brake things or walk
away all together and never come back?

Do you drink, smoke or gamble?

seventh step..................................................

Thanks for getting back to me. If I am seriously drawn to someone, I don't care
about traditional matching characteristics (like a certain age or financial
status). I go for it! I want a woman that want to commit to a relationship that
last forever.

The best thing about loving and being hurt is that you get to know what true love
really is. For as gold is tested in fire, and so will love be perfected in pain. we
could most likely share a lot about life.

It takes 2 to make a relationship work and both have to give and take care of the
other, have to forgive faults and focus on the parts that make you unique for that
is what brings people togehter. Every bit of my word do always comes from the
deepest bottom of my heart and it's all true ..

You might be thinking that, what would my son feel about me wanting to have a woman
in my life.

he want me to find a true loving woman. he don't want me to be alone as I've being
for the past few years, i never

dated or been in any relationship ( That would Wow you), anyway that is me.

My son is a great gift to me. I'm glad i have him.he has

being a great strength for me since his Mom is gone. he like to dance, Fishing,
Swimming, Mostly Shopping and he was a lot addicted seeing weekly Movie. She sees
movie most every week, he also like all kind of sport, hiking, Skiing, Snow Skate.

My wife Died of Lungs Cancer. We had a wonderful marriage and we were happy all
through.. She has been treating the Cancer for a very long time and even longer
than when she later died. I really miss her so much.

but I've moved on to fine a new true love and soul mate. Through our time together
She had my support and i never left her to be worried about anything. She made me
who i am today . She supported me so much and never give me any disappointment.

We were both Dedicated, Committed, Fidelity and reliable to each other.

I want to find a woman i can spend the rest of my life with..Thanks for answering
all my question and your answers are just what i'm expecting to hear, so we're good
and perfect for each other.

If I am deeply attracted to

someone immediately, I will trust my emotions and I am willing to start a serious

relationship right away. I trust my romantic instincts.

I want to find Someone who would allow me to spoil her and maybe spoil me too. I
would like for us to get to know each other first and lets see where it takes us.

I am willing to be patient to find out more about you now and lets share how much
common interests we have. I just know by reading your profile that we could have a
lot to share.

Would you be willing to take a chance in getting to know me even more? I want you
to know that I really am looking for a serious, long-term relationship. I consider
myself as one honest man who as never hurt anyone or cheat neither play games with
other peoples' feelings and emotions, so you can expect total frankness and honesty
from me.

I will answer any questions you want to know about my family, past relationships,
values and beliefs.

Drink : would be ice tea unsweet. but I really dont like sweet drinks.. I will
sometime place 2 teaspoons of sugar in my tea but not

always..
I feel like sex is one of the important things in a

relationship... there is no set time for it... holding hands, kissing, talking is
all part of it. It can be uneasy at first but as you get to know each others likes
and dislikes.. it is a amazing thing... and

makes you sleep really well (smile), I think that two people who love each other
can try and experiment as long as they both agree - Just no 3 person involved.

When you care about someone you care how they feel

and some call that spoiling each other I call that caring about the other and
making life nice for them... and it is always nice when it is a two way street.

I would not mind spending time with my woman at all. spending time together is the
only way to truly get a deep connection. but it is a different level when you can
not wait to runbhome to that person or count the minutes till we would be together
again.

I am a romantic myself, it is better to have loved and lost than to never have
loved at all.

Anytime we open ourselves to a relationship, we open ourselves to the possibility

of being hurt, but hoping not to get hurt. But, I am willing to take that chance..

Another aspect is, i do not mind been with either skinny or big woman.

it is more on how I am treated as to a big or small woman is. I would not try to
change you... you are who you are... and we have to like our differences.. no one
is perfect... it is all about can you tell with the inperfections and habits that
this person has..

I believe when someone doesn't want you with your fault, then they don't deserve to
have you at your best.

My question. I hope you understand this is the only way we can get to learn more
about each other.

What's your favorite food and drink?

Do you prefer spontaneity or stability?

What are your views on sex?

Will you spoil me and let me do the same for you?

Would you mind spending time with me?

do you like big men or skinny men?

Would you try to change me or love me as I am for all of me?

do you have any disabilities?

Do you Like Traveling?cruise?

eight step..............................................

(send this when you miss a chat)

I spent many sleepless nights trying to reach the depths of my feelings a

complicated feeling that only my heart could tell I searched to look for an answer

And moved me to where you are,i felt so afraid of loving you.

Am like a moth going to a flame, it could burn my wings

But I could feel your warmth I want to be close to you and be near you,to feel your
touch and your warm embrace.

Can you take my hand? And let me feel that you are here beside me,each passing day
my love for you grow stronger.

Really love moves in mysterious ways,sometimes it is hard to understand.

But the feeling of happiness is there,boundless and immeasurable,and this is where

my heart and soul go

Whenever I am with you,i am not poetic but you are my inspiration.

Love you most and forever,long soft kisses and tightest hot hugs,I am wishing you a
lovely bed rest and sweet dreams.Love you so much and much love my Queen you made
my day beautiful again today.

Your loyal King

Ok i see you are busy at the moment.. really wanted to have a chat with you..i
think its better chatting than long messages..

at this point am very bothered, and i don't know why i can't take my mind off you..
your words are like the antidote of the soul..

i think of you every minute of the day.. i really want to know what your plans are
with me.. what i really want is a woman to compliment my life and not to complete
it as am not searching at the moment.

when i came across your profile,it took me much courage to write to you.. from that
moment i could hardly take my mind off you.. i really wish you could see the
difference you make in my life..i don't think am willing to let you go for this
happiness you ve brought into my life.. your so sweet and romantic.. just my kind
of woman..

as i said earlier am not the one for playing games.. am too old for that now. i
want you to know that am willing to give up everything just to be with a woman like
you.

most times i can't even sleep. wow very unlike me..well i just hope you don't take
me for granted..its past midnight here now and i don't still know if am going to
wait here forever to have a chat with you..Hahha. well am willing to wait forever
just to have a chat with you.

kisses

ninth step................................................

(love messages and steady chat)

Be in love with me and make my life heaven. You are the only essential part of my
life. So dont even think about leaving me alone. I am nothing without you.

The best thing happens to me in my whole life is LOVE. Loving you is my passion and
spending my life with you is my dream. Please let my dream come true.

In bad and sad moments, just remember that I LOVE YOU.

My love would never fade or change, even if you forget the promises. Whenever you
look back Ill be there for you.

My true story is that I dont have a heart any more. Please check inside yourself, I
believe that you have too.

(Sites for loving emails and poems.)

https://lovewayz.wordpress.com/2012/04/20/sweet-love-poems/

http://ingenira.hubpages.com/hub/Romantic-Love-Quotes-for-Valentines-Day

http://www.mysmsmessages.com/romantic/

http://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poems/love/

http://doina touchinghearts.blogspot.com/search/label/LOVE%20%20POETRY

http://www.wishafriend.com/words/words-of-comfort.php

http://www.coolnsmart.com/love_quotes/

tenth step............................................

When I start something new, I expect it to work out. I tend to get going right away
and trust that I can correct problems along the way rather than having to do long
periods of research before I begin..

I expect the person I love to be honest and true to me. I

don't feel the need to be checking up on them, as suspicious thoughts almost never
cross my mind. Just because something has failed before, doesn't mean it will fail
again.

I don't let past disappointments weigh too heavily in my expectations of future

likelihood of success,i hope you do feel this way.

When I meet someone and there are big complications (a long commuting distance,
entanglements from a previous relationship, etc.) it doesn't deter me.

When I have a goodday, I want that person to be the one I can't wait to tell and
when it's bad I want her to be the one there with her arms open wide ready to
comfort me.

Do you think that's too much to ask? You should know

that ,love, the strongest emotional bond, is the most satisfying human experience
imaginable for those fortunate enough to find it.

Remember that the trust love, is one where your love for each other is greater than
your need for each other. I want Someone that loves people, GOD is the center of
her life, loves life, wants to spend time being purposeful in life, loves outdoors,
loves animals, loves family, loves

friends, knows how to be patient, keeps a level head in a moment of crisis, cannot
live without me, wants to grow together, healthy mind and body, likes to sing in
the shower, knows how to joke with me.

I feel that if you really love someone you accept them for who they are and don't
expect them to change.

When it comes to romance, I believe that it is better to go for it and risk getting
burned than to hesitate and never know what might have happened.

I've never regretted putting all my feelings on the line and making myself
vulnerable - even if I didn't get the person I originally wanted that's what i
expect others to see thing.

I am easy going, masculine and dependable, being creative and artistic are a few
words that describe me. Exploring excites me as well.
I feel it is important to be active intellectually as well as physically. I have
many diverse interests and passions - politics, art, music, philosophy and the
human condition. Patience is my most obvious virtue.

This time around the next woman ( hopefully you) I would love in my life would

be open-minded.There should be a mutual love and trust between two people.You

should always care about their feelings.one thing I don't like is someone who is
jealous and mean.

Youre a beautiful and good woman, otherwise I would not be writing to you. I would
not have spent all of this time talking about myself if I didnt have an interest in

you. I love what I see.

I am at your speed by any means of communication. Perhaps our words can touch each
other in a way that we captivate our emotions.I believe in looking into the window
of our

souls and seeing the beauty we have..

There is a contract i am pursuing right now. We are 10 independent contractor

bidding on it.. I should go for my own interview in few days.

Then i will have to wait to know if i'm qualify for the

contract. If i won the contract i will be going to Malaysia, The duration of the
project is just a month and half.

We have both been alone for too long, I don't want to lose the chance we have both
got to find each other and knowing that we're compatible.

Lets work this out, I'm sure through emailing, phone call, chat. till we can meet,
it will work out for us. As long as you realize that i can't wait to meet you
either. if something is worth waiting for i wouldn't mind to give

it a trial.

From the trip i could come straight to you, that's if i

won the bidding. I thought you would wish me a good luck!.

My favorite weather is mostly cold, when i could easily wrap my arms around my
woman and snuggle up together on the cough/sofa. cuddle up with each other and
having does quiet romantic time together.

I really don't like when its too hot. The one wish i have long for a special woman
to fulfill it is to be my life sustainable partner for life.

I don't want to ever be lonely ever again. I have always find my life easy and
flexible in every way of my daily basis. Very easy and i don't keep grudges.

I always like to talk about things rather than give it burning and disturbing my
physical being. I rather clear my mind. I've once find my Soul mate. I never gave
up from finding it again. Life is so easily only for does who know how to take it
politely.

I like roses Flowers. I have it planted in my Garden on a beautiful green grass.

Plus my cup as always been considered half full not half

empty.

What makes me laugh instantly is seem my woman been naughty with me. Showing how
needy she was. Either by whispering it in my ear or showing it off.

What's your favorite weather?

If I promise to fulfill one of your wishes, which one would it be?

Do you forgive easily or forget easily?

Do you believe in soulmates?

What would you prefer - flowers, candy or books?

Do you believe the cup is half full or half empty?

If there is one thing that makes you smile instantly, what is it?

ELEVENTH STEP............................................

Apparently, I am a man who support my woman when she's healthy, and when she's
unhealthy In any ramification of life. Nothing is more important than to have
someone who cares so much about you.
I am feelings very strong for you, i just don't want to see pushy, that's why i
don't want to be too forward. I really would appreciate you expressing your heart
felt to me, it will keep me going.

I want us to make a oath that no matter what happen we will always try to talk it
out, instead of just ignore. I believe working everything out together. To have a
true

loving relationship, is never easy, there are always a bumps on the way to examine
how much we're strong for each other.

We have to show that side of faith and strong heart to hold each other and face
every challenges that might want to be on the way together. To never allow anything
to come between us.

I even would suggest that if we just keep this secret right now, Lets work thing
out with each other and be

strong before we could share our heart desire to anyone about how we meet and how
we feel about each other.

I want my woman to be able to make her own decision without having to tell someone
or expose everything of her self to people before she can be sure of how she feels?
Someone who believe that, there is always a privacy in a

relationship.

I want to come to you and have you with me. I feel very

much good with you. I felt like i've known you forever.

Once we meet, then you can make me to meet anyone you want or tell anyone about
us,at least they can see us. We want encouragement not discouragement.

To prevent that side of affection then we have to stick tight with each other.

I want a woman that will support me in everything i do and i will also support her
too. She most be so good hearted to her man..Like a word that said love and
electricity are one in the same, my dear.

If you do not feel the jolt in your soul every time a word is shared, a whisper is
spoken, a touch is felt, then your not really in love at all.
I am looking for a woman that as a Companion, Friend, serious, caring, reliable,
kind heated woman,Lover, mentor, whom we can trust each other,someone who i can
gain strength from.

This is part of my vision. Someone who is intelligent , but not self involved she
is honorable, and puts those she loves first. she is soulful. she laughs

easily and pays attention to all the details without letting it take over.

And most of all she loves me, with all her being, through all my faults and
quirks.she is conscious of me and what makes me smile and showers me with love and
attention.she is kind, calm, gentle and we make love everyday sometimes all day.

she is industrious, works hard and smart at whatever she does. she supports me and
my dreams.she thinks of me with her first breath in the morning and last breath
before she drifts off to sleep in my arms.

she fiercely protects us,and always asks me first, before she believes things. she
is gorgeous inside and out. Her eyes will speak volumes and I feel safe and content
with her.

I work from home. I have an office set up here in my house. I could be online to
respond to your text as much as i can, only if i have to get busy with some paper
works. i own my home. I have 5 acre with a ranch where i ride my horses, I like it
here.

I love planting and been surrounded by beautiful animals. My choice in either city
or country home. I think i like living in the Country with a big acre of land.

I have a very simple life style and i haven't really in my life been crazy about
something or get completely upset about something.

but in some case, what brings forth my anger is when a child is being abuse in a
wrong way, cheat or taken advantage of someone basically because the person have
no clue about that particular thing, instead to be enlighten, and turn out to just
used the person and act like he/she has done nothing wrong.
My favorite meal Barbique, Potatoes a slice of fish with green pepper and
carrots,barbique ribs and potatoes, Grilled Chicken Salad, Soup, Rice with chicken,
Too many to count because i am not picky when it comes to meals.

I also love holidays, Nothing is as more exciting than having a beautiful holiday
when you have someone special with you. Travel, Go Camping, Boating, Go to the
Beach, Cruise etc.

If i could pick any car to have what would that be?I like a sport cars. I do have a
few choice of Car. Bmw X6 which i have one also one of Chrysler 300C. I like BMW
new Edition 2011, Toyota Matrix.

What is your wildest fantasy?

what are your working hours?

What's your property like?

Do you like living in the city or country?

If there is one thing that just makes you go crazy... (not in a good way) and makes
you angry what would that be?

How do you feel about Hoilday?

What is the craziest thing you have ever done?

If you could pick any car to have what would that be?

TWELTH STEP=============================================

The way to true love never been easy because true love is worth waiting for even if
it takes a lifetime. Then in return a lifetime of love will be waiting for you.

I do need a woman to trust me and each of my word . i always stand on my word each
time i say them when it

comes to a relationship. Without trustfulness, relationship goes no where.

Both man and woman must believe that a relationship is not a self-centre and not a
one way street. It should be equare size and been there for each other all the
time..
However, once you know that everything in life is all about risk. I do know what
its like to be hurt and i will never hurt anyone. Take me for my word. I guess you

could say I am a man that is in touch with his feelings.

I like to express how I feel and I enjoy making my woman feel an important part of
my life. If you feel this is a daydream, let me assure you its not.

Its just that I want to begin this time in the right direction by finding someone
who is close to what I have been looking for. I am a man that is confident and
goes after what he is interested when he sees potential.

Why let an opportunity fade away when I can just reach out? I want a woman who
believe that to have a long lasting relationship you have to take the risk.

Being able to easily talk about personal problems with my partner, being able to
tell my partner everything about myself, Being able to discuss with my partner how
I

am feeling towards her, Having my partner be open with me about how she feels
toward me.

Doing special things to let my partner know how

important she is to me, Showing my partner that her needs are as important to me as
my own and also when you can see thing the way which have seen it.

Being in a relationship is more on less like taking a chance believing that it

would end in a good path by working it out with all it cost.

I believe we both should know what thing we want in a relatioship. I must have
someone who is good at talking and listening, I must feel deeply in love with and
attracted to my partner, I must know that my partner is sharing their deepest
emotional thoughts and desires.

I must have someone who isn't afraid to take a risk and who sees life as an
adventure. I must have a partner who is emotionally healthy, and able to share a
stable life with someone else, I must have someone who is comfortable giving and
receiving affection.
I must have someone I can count on to always support me. I can't stand someone who
can't manage their anger, who yells, or bottles it up inside. I can't stand

someone who is unable to accept blame or see fault in their own actions.

I can't stand someone who finds fault with everyone and

everything. I can't stand someone who engages in sex outside a committed

relationship. Where as heated arguments, I never let them get that far.

first of all, I would never be with someone that couldn't communicate respectfully.
I always show respect to others no matter who they are, but expect respect in
return. Otherwise, I wouldn't be friends with them.

I have to laugh, for years people always have been coming to me with their problems
because they say I'm such a good listener, very understanding, I have a very
positive

attitude.

I have a very strong heart and i don't give up easily in anything i am committed
too.

Ever been arrested by the police?

Do you have any phobias?

Are you an upfront type of person?

What is it you must have & can't stand in a relationship?

Do you find it easy to get discourage?

I so much look forward to read from you.

Kisses&Hugs

THIRTEENTH STEP.........................................

Love is so many things in this life, but yet so hard to find! love is a easy word
to say, but it only special when you mean it!.
If you are willing to trust in a person when all others tell you to go against it,
if you are willing to risk getting your heart broken because you

believe in that other person, Then that is true love.

I like to plan out everything in advance.. It's not like me to smooth things over
or compromise an opinion, just to keep things calm and/or to make my partner happy.

I know if our love joined together as one and stand

strong, we will over come any challenge of time. I am a very stronghearted man who
never give up on anything i found myself at spot with.

Life is about trusting your feelings and taking chances, losing and finding
happiness, appreciating the memories, learning from the past, and realizing people
change especially with the help of internet it is easy to communicate and exchange
thoughts and emotions.

True love isn't without problem, it has many obstacles, true love is working
through all of them and coming out happy with that someone on the otherside.

You know love is the passion that we feel inside of our

hearts that we can't hide. We pretend to hide it, but it burns us more and more
until the pain grows and grows and it never ends..

Love is not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you
build till the end.Love is when the things you detest, you become in love with.

when your views are wrong the one who you love will

hear you out and understand you. Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle;
rather a great reminder of just how strong true love can be.

Love is totally forgetting yourself to someone that is always remembering you at

all times! True and sacrificial love is giving up your happiness and comfort, over
and beyond your own, just to consider the needs of another person.
You truly love someone when you can feel every joy, sadness and pain of the other
as if they were your own. You haven't found the right person if you can live with
them, you've found the right person if you can't live without them.

Love is like A flower, give it some time, patience and lots of tender loving care;
and watch it bloom into something wonderful before your eyes.

True Love is loving that someone one even with their worst faults and flaws.

Forgiving and Forgetting their wrong doings, Enduring and being Kind always
trusting and not easily angered, always trusting and hoping and never failing.

There may be many flowers in a man's life, but there is

only one rose, hope you're the Rose. Love is when you take away the feeling, the
passion, the romance- and you find out you still care for that person.

True love is worth waiting for even if it takes a

lifetime. Then in return a lifetime of love will be waiting for you.

True love is not finding someone else but finding your other half.

Love is a place in one's heart that is often found but rarely used to its fullest
potential.

If love is a drop, I'll send you shower; If love is a petal, I'll send you flower;
if love is water, I'll send you the sea; if love is a person, I'll send you me.

Everything in life is temporary, because everything changes. That's why it takes

great courage to love, knowing it might end anytime but having the faith it

will last forever.

destiny decides who you meet in your life but its

your heart that decides who gets to stay in your life.

True love isn't without problem, it has many obstacles, true love is working
through all of them and coming out happy with that someone on the otherside.

Love is forever, and love is a promise that will stay with you forever and never
leave, and that's a promise you can't take back.

True love is only true when the feeling is mutual. Yet, it need not be expressed in
words.

When love is true, you just feel it. Love is a constant

battle between the heart and the mind; True Love is when they agree.

Love is like a war - easy to start, hard to end, impossible to forget it doesn't
decide who wins, only who's left.

Love is a pathway of many colors and dead ends. But when the right path is chosen,
the sights are amazing.

Love is when you have a bad day but then you see

the one you love and everything seems to be okay.

Love is like a puzzle, hard to piece together, but beautiful when all the right
pieces are put together.

Love is not finding that perfect person, but finding all of that person's
imperfections and loving every single one

of them.

Do you change your mind easily?

What is your most embarrassing moment?

What are the two things that you would never agree to do?
FOURTEENTH STEP..............(HOW I MET MY WIFE AND MY FAMILY STORY)

About my Family. I was very young when my grands passed away, Even though i'm both
Daddy and Mommy's Son.They both fix me in and treat me equally.

I was very close to my Mom so it to my Dad. I am the only

Son of my parent, I wish i have a brother or sister.

My Dad never have any close relations to his other part of the family because he
was born and raise in the state and move to denmark to be with my Mom. So i'm kind
of mixed..

I don't have any relatives here in the State, Plus i'm

a man who came out of a very small world. Like i said, I'm the only child.

My parent are my gift and I've been blessed by them. They're both late now. I love
them. My Mom was very beautiful.

Shes encouraging, big hearted, compassionate, full of Integrity, Caring, God

fearing and her way has been very pure which many as wish to be like her. So as my
Dad.

I have an happy family. As small as we're. It was quiet unfortunate that i couldn't
go back to denmark due to the New Law that guide every denman from going out of the
country.

because i didn't eat my green card that soon. I was lucky to make it out of there.
My Dad brought me here to the US. I met my Late wife in denmak when her parent come
for a vacation.

I met her because my Dad and i was at the resort where they visited. We become
friends and we actually got addicted with each other.

It wasn't so easy to talk to her. back then she was kind of Introvert. We were at
the beach at a spot where they sell Ice Cream. I unintentionally step on her feet.

The look on her face intrigue me and i said hi. She didn't wanna reply. I tried to
confuse her just to talk to me. i could be a little thick head back then, i don't
back off easiy.

Then she look back and said why are you coming after me. I told her to come on, i
just want to be a friend, there we go. I never believe her parent would like me.

she has been a very isolate type of person and her parent was happy that she could
have a friend.

We started playing and i took her to the movie and some game spot at a Mall few
miles away from the hotel. Through that my Dad met her parent and they become
friends.

she was able to laugh and smile out that bountifulness she has got hidden for a
decade. She was never an extrovert.

At time pass on when they have to go back to the State. I

thought i wasn't going to see her again. We kept in touch with each other by mail
and phone for 3yrs. and i thought i found my heart with her.

I have a very strong desire for her. I made up my Mind to move to the State. I am
very close to my Dad, I share all my feelings with him and his very encouraging. He
have a very good friend here in the US.

So he decided to have me stay with him even though Cuba Rules was to strict that No
citizen will get out of the country. But we do made it out base on my Dad's
profession.

So i was living with my Dad friend while i was able to see Theresa. I was finish
with my college before coming

to the State.

When i got here my Dad went back to be with my Mom even

though we spend several hours crying. They can't stop me because my Dad too come
from the state to be with my Mom.

They think its some kind of destiny. Then the Constitution become very strict and
he couldn't come visit me or i go to visit back. I missed my parent soo much. It
was a hard task for me.

Then started the New surface of my new life with Theresa (My Deceased wife). My
dad's friends stands as my

parent since his wife could not have a child.

They accepted me and stand as my parent to married to Theresa. Though my late wife
parent realize why my parent couldn't be there. If not for the fact that mr robert
(My Dad's friend)Accepted me or my Dad knew him at least. I wouldn't have made it
to the US, because my Dad won't let me come here to the state and live on the
street.

Theresa ( My Late Wife) gave me the hope and confident to share her family with me
and they were all nice to me. I got better and feel addicted to it all even though
i still

miss my parent.

I call them often keeping in touch till the day they

both gone. ( Sad ) My beautiful Mom died 1yr after my Dad Died at 85yrs, my Mom
died at 82. then i was 43yrs because they're both old.

They both almost not have any kids. They had me pretty long after there marriage.

i am glad they never had a miserable life or regret about anything. They both
enjoyed each other to their old age.

I'm thankful of the way i was brought up by them with a heart of Gold and the gift
of life i've got to be in this world. The whole Thanks was for God . Quite a story.

HuH!!!

What is your Story?

Do you have a great Family?

How Close are you with you Parent?

FIFTEENTH STEP.......(ABOUT MY CHILD HOOD)..........

about my childhood so you could know more about me. I still remember some of the
wonderful memories when I was young.

I lived with my parents . My Mom & Dad lived in a beautiful wooden, colorful house
with five rooms only. The front lawn was kept clean and bare.

At the back,though my Mom had planted a number of vegetables for our consumption,
there was also a chicken coop.

My growing up years were often spent playing and exploring. I used to play
soldiers, played marbles,

bat-ball, hide and seek (I was always the one hiding, not the one searching), fly
kites, climb trees, swings, slides, chasing each other, riding a bicycle, running
and shouting with other children and other games especially barilbarilan.

My Dad taught me about the plants and how to look after them. My dad Also work in
construction.

He travel for work seldom, Mostly he does house renovation within and he doesn't
stay away from home much. My mom & Dad was a good cook and I remembered hanging
around the kitchen to help.

During those days,we sometimes watched television as we were just busy having fun
doing other things.

My days were happy ones before I started going to school, I was 3 yrs old then.
During my preparatory school, to begin with, I felt very sad having to leave my
mother and go off each morning to be amongst strangers.

I cried and wanted my mother around, much to my teacher's displeasure. My teacher

taught me how to write, read, count and I kept on reminding her that I already knew
that.

My mother used to teach me that before. I really dont know whats the reason why I
have to go to school and learn everything I already knew.
Isnt that confusing? As the days went by, however, I made friends easily in class
and found company. I became happy again and actually looked forward to leaving the
house each morning. To play with my classmates and not with my neighbors anymore.

And I realize its more fun. I still remember those days when I was learning to ride
a bicycle.When i was in my high school grade. I had so many addiction to sport, I
was

in a soccer team.

This period of time, I really enjoy my teenage years, I have many friends that we
were in the same team and we leave across the street. After getting home from
school we still hang around.

if there is any concert, we all convoy, just to make sure

we have a good time all together. I think you should have much view about how i
spend my child hood

Is there any experience you would like to share of your childhood too?