10 Ways For Better Meditation
10 Ways For Better Meditation
10 Ways For Better Meditation
Being not satisfied with the objective life, human beings dive deep into their
subjective Self with the help of Spiritual science to transcend the limitations of
the Relative World around them and enjoy the eternal bliss of the Self. This
attainment is possible through deep meditation. What are the ways to better
meditation ? This is an important question which has been attempted to answer in a
practical manner.
1. MINIMIZE INTERRUPTIONS
Take the phone off the hook, let your friends and family know that during this
time you don't wish to be interrupted; close the door, close your eyes and for the
time being leave the ordinary world behind. This has tremendous psychological
impact. If, while meditating, one part of your mind is listening for the doorbell,
or is ready to jump up if the phone rings, or to come out if someone wants to
talk, it will be very difficult to concentrate. Give yourself completely to the
task at hand, letting the people around you know that it is important to you. They
will learn to respect it too. Establish right away that during that period of time
you do not wish to be disturbed, making whatever arrangements are necessary
(childcare trade-trade offs, phone message arrangements etc.) and you will feel
freer and happier in your meditation.
5. ON A LIGHT STOMACH
After eating, the energies of the body are directed toward the digestive processes
at the expense of the mental processes (we have all noticed the sluggishness that
follows a heavy meal). Because meditation requires alertness, concentration,
mental energy and "awakeness", it is helpful stomach. If you are really famished,
take a glass of juice or milk or eat lightly. If your body is really hungry, your
meditation may be distracted.
10. BE PERSERVERING
Many people experience a sense of discouragement or frustration when the results
of their first few meditations do not measure up to their expectations or hopes.
They may feel that it is their own fault, and even give up the practice with a
sense of failure or inferiority. Everyone who has meditated has had to deal with
this in some way. It is a great help to know that others are also having similar
experiences, and to understand what is actually taking place during this time.
Especially in the beginning, the mind may seem uncontrolled. A
great Yogi, Ramakrishna, once said: "The mind is like a
drunken monkey stung by a scorpion." You may find when you
sit down to meditate that many thoughts arise in your mind;
you set your mantra going_ and then drift off to something else. Sounds
and noises from without may sidetrack your internal
concentration and your body may become restless.
At times like this, one can easily get discouraged and think nothing is happening.
However, many of the benefits of meditation come from deep within the mind and do
not show themselves immediately. By constantly bringing your mind back to the
mantra, you are building up your capacity to hold your mind steady in the future.
We are not qualified to say whether we had a "good" meditation or a "bad" one.
People in our culture tend to be judgemental about their meditation and become
discouraged when they don't achieve instant results. But in a sense, EVERY
meditation is a good meditation-it's the "twice a day invariably" pattern that
counts. Only by practice can we achieve a peaceful and blissful meditation-through
persistent, regular practice.
Another puzzling experience for the new meditator is that the mind may appear to
become even more unsteady after commencing meditation. More thoughts than usual
may come to mind. This is often taken to mean that the process is being done
incorrectly However, just the opposite is true. One of the functions of the mantra
is to work internally on our minds by clearing out all the distortions and
impressions which our past experiences have registered on our subconscious mind.
Thus, the repitition of the mantra sometimes acts to revive memories and thoughts
of what has gone before. It is like cleaning house; in the middle of the process
the house may look messier than when you started, but by persevering and not
gutting in the middle you are much better off. The same is true for the mind; as
one continues to meditate, it gets clearer and clearer.
How long does it take? It's hard to say exactly, but most people feel it takes
five to nine months to get established in meditation. At first the results may be
more apparent to your friends than you. When you began to grow in adolescence you
probably did not notice a few extra inches in height until someone told you; you
were too close to the growth to see it happen. Continue to meditate and the people
around you will notice the changes, and finally, so will you.