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Hochschild EmotionWorkFeeling 1979
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Emotion Work, Feeling Rules, and Social Structure
Arlie Russell Hochschild
University of California, Berkeley
Social psychology has suffered under the tacit assumption that emotion,
because it seems unbidden and uncontrollable, is not governed by social
rules. Social rules, for their part, are seen as applying to behavior and
thought, but rarely to emotion or feeling. If we reconsider the nature of
emotion2 and the nature of our capacity to try shaping it, we are struck
by the imperial scope of social rules. Significant links emerge among social
structure, feeling rules, emotion management, and emotive experience-links
I try to trace in this essay. The purpose is to suggest an area for inquiry.
I This paper summarizes part of the argument presented in a forthcoming book. This
study has been generously supported by a Guggenheim Fellowship. Although gratitude
in footnotes like this is (as this paper demonstrates) conventionalized, and although
convention makes authenticity hard to decipher, I want anyway to express appreciation
to Harvey Faberman, Todd Gitlin, Adam Hochschild, Robert Jackson, Jerzy Michaelo-
wicz, Caroline Persell, Mike Rogin, Paul Russell, Thomas Scheff, Ann Swidler, Joel
Telles, and the anonymous reviewers for the AIS.
2 I define emotion as bodily cooperation with an image, a thought, a memory-a coop-
eration of which the individual is aware. I will use the terms "emotion" and "feeling"
interchangeably, although the term "emotion" denotes a state of being overcome that
"feeling" does not. The term "emotion management" is used synonymously with "emo-
tion work" and "deep acting."
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ings, several questions emerge. First, with what assumptions about emotion
and situation do we begin? In other words, (a) how responsive is emotion
to deliberate attempts to suppress or evoke it? (b) What sociological ap-
proach is most fruitful? Second, what are the links among social structure,
ideology, feeling rules, and emotion management? To begin with, (c) are
there feeling rules? (d) How do we know about them? (e) How are these
rules used as baselines in social exchanges? (f) What in the nature of work
and child rearing might account for different ways adults of varying classes
manage their feelings? I shall sketch outlines of possible answers with the
aim, in some measure, of refining the questions.
In order to address the first question, we might consider two basic accounts
of emotion and feeling found in social psychology: the organismic account
and the interactive account. The two approaches differ in what they imply
about our capacity to manage emotion, and thus in what they imply about
the importance of rules about managing it. I cannot do full justice here to
the question of what emotion is and how it is generated, nor can I offer a
full reaction to the ample literature on that question.
According to the organismic view, the paramount questions concern the
relation of emotion to biologically given "instinct" or "impulse." In large
part, biological factors account for the questions the organismic theorist
poses. The early writings of Sigmund Freud (1911, 1915a, 1915b; see Lof-
gren 1968), Charles Darwin ([1872] 1955), and in some though not all
respects, William James (James and Lange 1922) fit this model.4 The
concept "emotion" refers mainly to strips of experience in which there is
no conflict between one and another aspect of self; the individual "floods
out," is "overcome." The image that comes to mind is that of a sudden,
4 W. McDougall (1948) and, to some extent, S. S. Tomkins (1962) also fit this classi-
fication. Both focus on the relation of emotion to drive or instinct (Tomkins elaborates
a relation between emotion and "drive signals" whereby emotion is said to amplify
drive signals). The central issues on which the two theoretical camps divide are fixity,
reflexivity, and origin. (1) The organismic theorists, unlike their interactive counter-
parts, assume a basic fixity of emotion, based in biological givens. (2) They assume
that social interaction does not basically affect emotions; the social surface remains
what is implied by the term "surface." In the interactive account. this is not the case.
Labeling, management, and expression of feeling (more clearly differentiated by the
interactionists) are processes which can reflexively "act back" on emotion, and indeed
come to constitute what we mean by the term "emotion." (3) Again, the organismic
theorists are more concerned with tracing emotion back to its origins. For Freud and
James the origins were energic or somatic, and for Darwin, phylogenetic. The inter-
active theorists are less concerned with origin than with the interface of a situation
and experience. The focus on origin leads the organismic theorists to focus on com-
monalities between different peoples, and between people and animals. The focus on
social interface leads the interactionists to focus on differences. For recent innovations
in the interactive tradition, see Kemper (1978) and Averill (1976).
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5 The stress on will (included in the concept of ego, but not all that "earo" refers to)
is not a clean divider of the organismic from the interactive theorist. Schachter and
Gerth and Mills, whom I see as members of the interactive camp, lay no particular
stress on volition. Goffman stresses the phenomena that call tacitly for will. He stresses
the patterned results of it, but provides no theoretical account of will itself. He posits
no actor qua emotion manager who might accomplish the acts that, by inference, must
get accomplished to pull off the encounters he describes so well. In my view, we must
reinstitute a self capable of experiencing emotion and of working on it in socially
patterned ways. (On the issue of will, see Piaget in Campbell [1976]; Solomon [1973].)
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If emotions and feelings can to some degree be managed, how might we get
a conceptual grasp of the managing act from a social perspective? The in-
teractive account of emotion leads us into a conceptual arena "between"
the Goffmanian focus on consciously designed appearances on the one hand
and the Freudian focus on unconscious intrapsychic events on the other.
The focus of Mead (1934) and Blumer (1969) on conscious, active, and
responsive gestures might have been most fruitful had not their focus on
deeds and thought almost entirely obscured the importance of feeling. (See
Shott [1979] for an attempt to consider emotion from a symbolic inter-
actionist perspective.) The self as emotion manager is an idea that borrows
from both sides-Goffman and Freud-but squares completely with neither.
Here I can only sketch out a few basic borrowings and departures, focusing
on the departures.
Erving Goffman
6 My own account of emotion draws on that proposed by Katz (1977). For Katz emo-
tion is generated by a "schematic discrepancy," that is, a discrepancy between the
individual's schemata and his current perception, memory, or imagining of an event
or object. Also see the interesting work of Lazarus, Kanner, and Folkman (1979).
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a course of action, but in the long run, all the action seems like passive
acquiescence to social convention. The conserving of convention is not a
passive business. Goffman's approach might simply be extended and deep-
ened by showing that people not only try to conform outwardly, but do so
inwardly as well. "When they issue uniforms, they issue skins" (Goffman
1974) could be extended: "and two inches of flesh."
Yet, ironically, to study why and under what conditions "participants . . .
hold in check certain psychological states . . ." (Goffman 1961, p. 23), we
are forced partly out of the perspective which gave birth to the insight. I
shall try to show why this is so, what the remedies might be, and how the
results could be conceptually related to aspects of the psychoanalytic
tradition.
First, Goffman, for reasons necessary to his purpose, maintains for the
most part a studied disregard for the links between immediate social situa-
tions and macrostructure on the one hand, and individual personality on
the other. If one is interested in drawing links among social structure, feeling
rules, and emotion management, this studied disregard becomes a problem.
Goffman's "situationism" is a brilliant achievement, one that must be
understood as a development in the intellectual history of social psychology.
Earlier in the century a number of classic works linked social structure to
personality, or "dominant institutions" to "typical identities," and thus
also related findings in sociology and anthropology to those in psychology
or psychoanalytic theory. These studies appeared in a number of fields-in
anthropology, Ruth Benedict (1946); in psychoanalysis, Erich Fromm
(1942), Karen Horney (1937), and Erik Erikson (1950); in sociology,
David Riesman (1952, 1960), Swanson and Miller (1966), and Gerth and
Mills (1964).
Possibly in response to this paradigm Goffman proposed an intermediate
level of conceptual elaboration, "between" social structure and personality.
His focus is on situations, episodes, encounters. The situation, the episodi-
cally emergent encounter, is not only nearly divorced from social structure
and from personality; he even seems to intend his situationism as an analytic
substitute for these concepts (see Goffman 1976, p. 77). Structure, he
seems to say, can be not only transposed but reduced "in and down," while
personality can be reduced "up and out" to the study of here-now, gone-then
interactional moments.
Each interactional episode takes on the character of a minigovernment.
A card game, a party, a greeting on the street exacts from us certain "taxes"
in the form of appearances which we "pay" for the sake of sustaining the
encounter. We are repaid in the currency of safety from disrepute. (Thanks
to Harvey Farberman for discussion on this point.)
This model of the situation qua minigovernment, while useful for Goff-
man's purposes, leads us away from social structure and personality-two
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concepts with which any study of feeling rules and emotion management
would be wise to deal.7 To study why and under what conditions "partici-
pants ... hold in check certain psychological states . . ." (Goffman 1961,
p. 23), we are forced out of the here-now, gone-then situationism and back,
in part at least, to the social structure and personality model. We are led
to appreciate the importance of Goffman's work, as it seems he does not,
as the critical set of conceptual connecting tissues by which structure and
personality, real in their own right, are more precisely joined.
Specifically, if we are to understand the origin and causes of change in
"feeling rules"-this underside of ideology-we are forced back out of a
study of the immediate situations in which they show up, to a study of such
things as changing relations between classes or the sexes.
If we are to investigate the ways people try to manage feeling, we
shall have to posit an actor capable of feeling, capable of assessing when
a feeling is "inappropriate," and capable of trying to manage feeling. The
problem is that the actor Goffman proposes does not seem to feel much, is
not attuned to, does not monitor closely or assess, does not actively evoke,
inhibit, shape-in a word, work on feelings in a way an actor would have
to do to accomplish what Goffman says is, in fact, accomplished in one
encounter after another. We are left knowing about "suppressive work" as
a final result, but knowing nothing of the process or techniques by which
it is achieved. If we are to argue that social factors influence how we try
to manage feelings, if we are to carry the social that far, we shall have to
carry our analytic focus beyond the "black box" to which Goffman ulti-
mately refers us.
Goffman's actors actively manage outer impressions, but they do not
actively manage inner feelings. For example, a typical Goffmanian actor,
Preedy at the beach (Goffman 1959), is exquisitely attuned to outward
appearance, but his glances inward at subjective feeling are fleeting
and blurred. The very topic, sociology of emotion, presupposes a hu-
man capacity for, if not the actual habit of, reflecting on and shaping
inner feelings, a habit itself distributed variously across time, age, class,
and locale. This variation would drop from sight were we to adopt an ex-
7Time: to link the momentary act of emotion work with the concept of personality,
we must alter our perspective on time. An emotive episode and the attempt to shape
it is, after all, a brief strip of time. Situations such as Goffman studies are also short.
The focus is on the act, and the act ends, so to speak, when the theater closes and
starts again when it reopens. If we extend Goffman's analysis, by speaking now of
"deep" acting, we, like him, are focusing on short episodes, on "stills" from which
long movies are composed. The notion of personality implies a fairly durable, trans-
situational pattern. The Casper Milquetoast personality may lead an anxiety avoidant
life of 73 years. Not momentary stills, but many decades are at issue. Again, we
must shift our situationist focus at the structural end when we come to speak of
institutions, which live even longer than people do.
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pectations typical of, and expected from, those enacting the role). Social
factors can enter in, to alter how we expect a role to be held, or played.
If, for example, the patient were a "sober, technically minded and active"
woman and if the observer (rightly or wrongly) assumed or expected her
to value family and personal ties over worldly success, less enthusiasm at
the prospect of advance might seem perfectly "appropriate." Lack of en-
thusiasm would have a warrant of that social sort. Again, if the patient
was an antinuclear activist and his discovery had implications for nuclear
energy, that would alter the hopes and aspirations he might be expected
to have at work and might warrant dismay, not enthusiasm.
We assess the "appropriateness" of a feeling by making a comparison
between feeling and situation, not by examining the feeling in abstracto.
This comparison lends the assessor a "normal" yardstick-a socially
normal one-from which to factor ouit the personal meaning systems
which may lead a worker to distort his view of "the" situation and feel
inappropriately with regard to it. The psychiatrist holds constant the
socially normal benchmark and focuses on what we have just factored out.
The student of emotion management holds constant what is factored out
and studies the socially normal benchmark, especially variations in it.
There is a second difference in what, from the two perspectives, seems
interesting in the above example. From the emotion-management perspec-
tive, what is interesting is the character and direction of volition and con-
sciousness. From the psychiatric perspective, what is of more interest is
pre-will and nonconsciousness. The man above is not doing emotion work,
that is, making a conscious, intended try at altering feeling. Instead he is
controlling his enthusiasm by "being himself," by holding, in Schutz's
term, a "natural attitude." He "no longer needs to struggle not to grin;
he is not in a grinning mood" (Shapiro 1965, p. 164). In order to avoid
affective deviance, some individuals may face a harder task than do others,
the task of consciously working on feelings in order to make up for "a nat-
ural attitude"-explanable in psychoanalytic terms-that gets them in
social trouble. The hysteric working in a bureaucratic setting may face the
necessity for more emotion work than the obsessive compulsive who fits in
more naturally.
In sum, the emotion-management perspective fosters attention to how
people try to feel, not, as for Goffman, how people try to appear to feel.
It leads us to attend to how people consciously feel and not, as for Freud,
how people feel unconsciously. The interactive account of emotion points
to alternate theoretical junctures-between consciousness of feeling and
consciousness of feeling rules, between feeling rules and emotion work,
between feeling rules and social structure. In the remainder of this essay,
it is these junctures we shall explore.
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EMOTION WORK
Last summer I was going with a guy often, and I began to feel very
strongly about him. I knew though, that he had just broken up with a
8 The illustrations of emotion work come from a content analysis of 261 protocols
given to students in two classes at the University of California, Berkeley, in 1974.
Many of the illustrations come from answers to the question, "Describe as fully a,nd
concretely as possible a real situation, important to you, in which you experienced
either changing a real situation to fit your feelings or changing your feelings to fit a
situation. What did it mean to you?" Three coders coded the protocols. The findings
will be reported in a later study. I will only mention here that 13% of the men but
32% of the women were coded as "changing feeling" instead of changing situation,
and of those who changed feelings, far more women reported doing so agentially
rather than passively.
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girl a year ago because she had gotten too serious about him, so I was
afraid to show any emotion. I also was afraid of being hurt, so I attempted
to change my feelings. I talked myself into not caring about Mike . . .
but I must admit it didn't work for long. To sustain this feeling I had to
almost invent bad things about him and concentrate on them or continue
to tell myself he didn't care. It was a hardening of emotions, I'd say. It
took- a lot of work and was unpleasant, because I had to concentrate on
anything I could find that was irritating about him.
9 There may be various types of cognitive emotion work. All can be described as
attempts to recodify a situation. By recodification I mean reclassification of a situation
into what are previously established mental categories of situations. As in an initial,
more automatic codification of a situation, deliberate recodification means asking onself
(a) What category in my classification schema of situations fits this new situation?
(the schema may include blame-in situations, blame-out situations, credit-in situations,
credit-out situations, etc.), and (b) What category in my classification schema of emo-
tions fits the emotion I'm feeling right now? (i.e., is it anger, general anxiety, disap-
pointment?). In deliberate recodifications, one tries to change the classification of
outward and inward reality. (To translate this idea into Lazarus's framework, we
might speak of the individual trying consciously to alter his or her appraisal of a
situation so as to change the coping process [Lazarus 1966].)
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I was a star halfback in high school. Before games I didn't feel the up-
surge of adrenalin-in a word I wasn't "psyched up." (This was due to
emotional difficulties I was experiencing and still experience-I was also
an A student whose grades were dropping.) Having been in the past a
fanatical, emotional, intense player, a "hitter" recognized by coaches as a
very hard worker and a player with "desire," this was very upsetting. I
did everything I could to get myself "uip." I would try to be outwardly
"rah rah" or get myself scared of my opponents-anything to get the
adrenalin flowing. I tried to look nervous and intense before games, so at
least the coaches wouldn't catch on.... When actually I was mostly bored,
or in any event, not "up." I recall before one game wishing I was in the
stands watching my cousin play for his school, rather than "out here."
FEELING RULES
We feel. We try to feel. We want to try to feel. The social guidelines that
direct how we want to try to feel may be describable as a set of socially
shared, albeit often latent (not thought about unless probed at), rules. In
what way, we may ask, are these rules themselves known and how are they
developed ?10
10 That we can single out such a thing as "feeling rules" is itself a commentary on
the ironic posture of the self legitimated in modern culture. Modern urban cultures
foster much more distance (the stance of the observing ego) from feeling than do
traditional cultures. Jerzy Michaelowicz, a graduate student at the University of
California, San Diego, observed that traditional and tight-knit subcultures put people
directly inside the framework of feeling rules and remove ironic distance or sense
of choice about them. He reported on some research in which one Hassidic rabbi was
asked, "Did you feel happy at the Passover ceremony?" "Of course!" came the in-
credulous reply.
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other's eyes. His love for me changed my whole being. From that point
on we joined arms. I was relieved and the tension was gone. In one sense
it meant misery-but in the true sense of two people in love and wanting
to share life-it meant the world to me. It was beautiful. It was inde-
scribable.
. . .when I was living down south, I was involved with a group of people,
friends. We used to spend most evenings after work or school together.
We used to do a lot of drugs, acid, coke or just smoke dope and we had
this philosophy that we were very communal and did our best to share
everything-clothes, money, food, and so on. I was involved with this one
man-and thought I was "in love" with him. He in turn had told me that
I was very important to him. Anyway, this one woman who was a very
good friend of mine at one time and this man started having a sexual
relationship, supposedly without my knowledge. I knew though and had a
lot of mixed feelings about it. I thought, intellectually, that I had no claim
to the man, and believed in fact that no one should ever try to own an-
other person. I believed also that it was none of my business and I had no
reason to worry about their relationship together, for it had nothing really
to do with my friendship with either of them. I also believed in sharing.
But I was horribly hurt, alone and lonely, depressed and I couldn't shake
the depression and on top of those feelings I felt guilty for having those
possessively jealous feelings. And so I would continue going out with these
people every night, and try to suppress my feelings. My ego was shattered.
I got to the point where I couldn't even laugh around them. So finally I
confronted my friends and left for the summer and traveled with a new
friend. I realized later what a heavy situation it was, and it took me a
long time to get myself together and feel whole again.
Whether the convention calls for trying joyfully to possess, or trying casual-
ly not to, the individual compares and measures experience against an
expectation often idealized. It is left for motivation ("what I want to feel")
to mediate between feeling rule ("what I should feel") and emotion work
("what I try to feel"). Some of the time many of us can live with a certain
dissonance between "ought" and "want," or between "want" and "try to."
But the attempts to reduce emotive dissonance are our periodic clues to
rules of feeling.
A feeling rule shares some formal properties with other sorts of rules,
such as rules of etiquette, rules of bodily comportment, and those of social
interaction in general (Goffman 1961). A feeling rule is like these other
kinds of rules in the following ways: It delineates a zone within which one
has permission to be free of worry, guilt, or shame with regard to the sit-
uated feeling. Such zoning ordinances describe a metaphoric floor and ceil-
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ing, there being room for motion and play between the two. Like other rules,
feeling rules can be obeyed halfheartedly or boldly broken, the latter at
varying costs. A feeling rule can be in varying proportions external or in-
ternal. Feeling rules differ curiously from other types of rules in that they
do not apply to action but to what is often taken as a precursor to action.
Therefore they tend to be latent and resistant to formal codification.
Feeling rules reflect patterns of social membership. Some rules may be
nearly universal, such as the rule that one should not enjoy killing or wit-
nessing the killing of a human being, including oneself.1" Other rules are
unique to particular social groups and can be used to distinguish among
them as alternate governments or colonizers of individual internal events.
Rules for managing feeling are implicit in any ideological stance; they are
the "bottom side" of ideology. Ideology has often been construed as a flatly
cognitive framework, lacking systematic implications for how we manage
feelings, or, indeed, for how we feel. Yet, drawing on Durkheim (1961),12
Geertz (1964), and in part on Goffman (1974), we can think of ideology as
an interpretive framework that can be described in terms of framing rules
and feeling rules. By "framing rules" I refer to the rules according to which
we ascribe definitions or meanings to situations. For example, an individual
can define the situation of getting fired as yet another instance of capitalists'
abuse of workers or as yet another result of personal failure. In each case,
the frame may reflect a more general rule about assigning blame. By "feeling
rules" I refer to guidelines for the assessment of fits and misfits between
feeling and situation. For example, according to one feeling rule, one can
be legitimately angry at the boss or company; according to another, one
cannot. Framing and feeling rules are back to back and mutually imply each
other.
11 But this, too. seems to be culturally variable. Erving Goffman points out that hang-
ings in the 16th century were a social event that the participant was "supposed to
enjoy," a rule that has since disappeared in civilian society.
12 Durkheim, in The Elementary Forms of Religious Life, conveys just this under-
standing of the relation of world view to feeling rules: "When the Christian, during
the ceremonies commemorating the Passion, and the Jew, on the anniversary of the
fall of Jerusalem, fast and mortify themselves, it is not in giving way to a sadness
which they feel spontaneously. Under these circumstances, the internal state of the
believer is out of all proportion to the severe abstinences to which they submit them-
selves. If he is sad, it is primarily because he consents to being sad. And he consents to
it in order to affirm his faith" (Durkheim 1961, p. 224). Again, "An individual . . . if
he is strongly attached to the society of which he is a member, feels that he is morally
held to participating in its sorrows and joys; not to be interested in them would be
equivalent to breaking the bonds uniting him to the group; it would be renouncing
all desire for it and contradicting himself" (1961, p. 446, emphases mine).
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13 Collins suggests that ideology functions as a weapon in the conflict between contend-
ing elites. Groups contend not only for access to the means of economic production
or the means of violence but also for access to the means of "emotion production"
(1975, p. 59). Rituals are seen as useful tools for forging emotional solidarity (that
can be used against others) and for setting up status hierarchies (that can dominate
those who find that the new ideals have denigrating effects on themselves).
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The seemingly static links among ideology, feeling rules, and emotion man-
agement come alive in the process of social exchange. Students of social
interaction have meant two things by the term "social exchange." Some
have referred to the exchange of goods and services between people (Blau
1964; Simpson 1972; Singelmann 1972). Others (G. H. Mead) have re-
ferred to an exchange of gestures, without the cost-benefit accounting re-
ferred to in the first usage. Yet acts of display, too, may be considered "ex-
changed" in the limited sense that the individual very often feels that a
gesture is owed to oneself or another. I refer, then, to exchange of acts of
display based on a prior, shared understanding of patterned entitlement.
Any gesture-a cool greeting, an appreciative laugh, the apology for an
outburst-is measured against a prior sense of what is reasonably owed
another, given the sort of bond involved. Against this background mea-
sure, some gestures will seem more than ample, others less.
The exchange of gestures has, in turn, two aspects; it is an exchange of
display acts (Goffman 1969, 1967)-that is, of surface acting-and also an
exchange of emotion work-that is, of deep acting. In either case, rules
(display rules or feeling rules), once agreed upon, establish the worth of a
gesture and are thus used in social exchange as a medium of exchange. Feel-
ing rules establish the basis of worth to be ascribed to a range of gestures,
including emotion work. Emotion work is a gesture in a social exchange;
it has a function there and is not to be understood merely as a facet of
personality.
There seem to be two ways in which feeling rules come into play in social
exchange. In the first, the individual takes the "owed" feeling to heart,
takes it seriously. For example, a young woman on the eve of her college
graduation felt anxious and depressed but thought that she "ought to feel
happy," and that she "owed this happiness" to her parents for making
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COMMODITIZATION OF FEELING
In the beginning we asked how feeling rules might vary in salience across
social classes. One possible approach to this question is via the connections
among social exchange, commoditization of feeling, and the premium, in
many middle-class jobs, on the capacity to manage meanings.
Conventionalized feeling may come to assume the properties of a com-
modity. When deep gestures of exchange enter the market sector and are
bought and sold as an aspect of labor power, feelings are commoditized.
When the manager gives the company his enthusiastic faith, when the air-
line stewardess gives her passengers her psyched-up but quasi-genuine re-
assuring warmth, what is sold as an aspect of labor power is deep acting.
But commoditization of feeling may not have equal salience for all social
classes. It may have more salience for the middle class than for the working
class. The way each class socializes its children may, furthermore, prepare
them for future demands for the skill of emotion management.
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14 As Kohn comments, ". . . middle class mothers are far more likely to punish their
son physically for what they call loss of temper than for behavior defined as wild
play. They appear to find the child's loss of temper, but not his wild play, particularly
intolerable" (1963, p. 308). Again, ". . . The interview reports indicate that the dis-
tinction between wild play and loss of temper was most often made in terms of the
child's presumed intent, as judged by his preceding actions . . . if his actions seemed
to stem from the frustration of not having his own way, they were judged to indicate
loss of temper" (Kohn 1963).
15 According to Trilling, the place of "sincerity," as a moral virtue, has been taken
(Trilling's verb is "usurped") by "authenticity." Sincerity refers to the relation between
inner feeling and outward display. Trilling offers many definitions of authenticity, but
one seems to refer to the relation between the self as emotion manager and the inner
feelings so managed. He cites Wordsworth's poem "Michael" about a very old shepherd:
"When Michael, after having lost his son Luke to the corruption of the city, continues
to build the sheepfold which he and the boy had ceremonially begun together, his
neighbors report of him that sometimes he sat the whole day, 'and never lifted up a
single stone"' (1972, p. 93). There is no act of self upon feeling; he is not psyching
himself "up" or "down," he is not "letting himself" feel grief, or deliberately "getting
into" his grief. It is on this account called "authentic," and deemed nowadays valuable.
What now ironically undermines authenticity, as a virtue, is the cultural belief in the
mutability of inner feeling and the individual's capacity, with therapeutic guidance
or otherwise, via "emotion work" or otherwise, to change fundamentally what is not
implacably ascribed after all.
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religious groups differ in the sense of what one "ought to" or "has the
right to" feel in a situation. How different is the burden of hidden work
trying to obey latent laws? Finally, in whose interest are these feeling
rules? Some managing of feeling promotes the social good. Some does not.
Surely the flight attendant's sense that she "should feel cheery" does more
to promote profit for United than to enhance her own inner well-being.
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