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Mindf ulness
Maintaining Calm During Times of Uncertainty

In New Brunswick and across the world, we are currently experiencing a time of uncertainty
which is particularly unsettling for educators, families and students. Being mindful of our
feelings and emotions will help us to distance ourselves from uncertainty and help us to
make positive decisions for ourselves and our loved ones.
The STOP strategy¹ is one method that can help you maintain awareness and calm
throughout this time.
The Stop Strategy

Stop
Notice when you begin to feel the signs of stress (chest
tightening, face becoming warm, forehead creasing).
Then, stop and take a pause. Taking cues from your body
will help you to disrupt a potentially negative mindset.
Take a Breath
Just take a slow breath. Only focus on that breath. Your
brain needs an opportunity to distance itself from the
stress. You need a chance to gain clarity. Focus on the air
going in and out of your lungs. The 2-3 minutes it takes to
breathe and reset your thoughts will allow you the best
opportunity to make positive choices.
Observe
Once you have allowed your brain an opportunity to
become calm, acknowledge what is happening, be it good
or bad, inside or outside of you. Just note it. Don’t act,
yet. Just acknowledge for yourself what you are feeling,
seeing, hearing or thinking. Emotions are information.
Take a moment to process the information.
Proceed
Having briefly checked in with yourself, and allowing
yourself a moment to pause, go forward with a more
aware and neutral mindset.
Ex amples
Families
You are now working from home, and your three children (ages 4, 7, and 12) are home with you. Your middle child has
identified behavioural challenges, but you know your oldest is great with keeping her busy. You decide to come out from the
makeshift office in your bedroom to get a glass of water. You scan the house and the mess is overwhelming. You feel your chest
tighten. Use the STOP strategy now. When you are ready to proceed, you decide that the mess will have to wait. You will come
up with a solution later to help the kids understand the importance of respecting themselves and the house, by cleaning up as
they go.
Students
You are in Grade 8, your last year of middle school. As someone new to Canada who is still learning English, you have
overcome a lot since you’ve arrived in New Brunswick. You are still working on your language, but people tell you how much
you have improved. This year came with a lot more homework and assignments, but you worked hard and did the best you
could. You are proud of your progress, but still unsure how this will look in terms of marks. You are worrying and wondering if
you did enough to move to the next grade level. Use the STOP strategy now. When you are ready to proceed, you think about
the ways you can continue learning every day so that you can show what you know. You consider that you will be able to
contact your teacher or principal in the coming weeks to check on where you stand. You decide to wait and act when you can
instead of worrying.
Educators
You love teaching Grade 5. You miss your students greatly and were looking forward to celebrating with them as they transition
to middle school. Many of them are in the school play that you were directing, and a few of them you know come from difficult
home circumstances. As a single person, you are starting to feel lonely. You think to distract yourself by scrolling through
social media but you are met with many upsetting articles and images. Your head starts to ache and your stomach starts to
feel unsettled. Use the STOP strategy now. When you are ready to proceed, you decide that you need to talk to someone about
how you’re feeling. You look online and find the number for the In-Confidence helpline and you call.
References
¹Goldstein, Elisha Uncovering Happiness: Overcoming Depression with Mindfulness
and Self-Compassion: University Press, 2015
Resources
For further information on mindfulness, check out these resources:
5 Simple Mindfullness Practices for Daily Life
6 Mindfulness Exercises You Can Try Today
A Simple Mindful Gratitude Exercise

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Maintaining Calm During Times of Uncertainty

The Stop Strategy

5 Simple Mindfullness Practices for Daily Life

6 Mindfulness Exercises You Can Try Today

A Simple Mindful Gratitude Exercise

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