The Family
The Family
The Family
The springs from marriage. Filipinos regard the family as the center of their lives, their primary
support and the source of their moral strength and motivation. It is the first human society.
The family is the first fundamental unit of society made up of father, mother, children, and
relatives.
The Family is derived from natural law.
Spring by conjugal love between husband and wife and sustained by efforts towards its
objectives.
Objective:
promotion of the physical and spiritual welfare of its members
Society in General
"Society is a moral union of men for the purpose of attaining a common end." -Panizo: 172
Kinds of Society:
1. Natural and Positive - society derived from natural law, from the essential need of man as man
is natural society. Society which is derived from a human positive law is called a positive
society.
2. Necessary and Unnecessary - reference to the need of man as man, some societies are
necessary and man cannot do away with them. Others are unnecessary and man has the option to
be a part of it or not.
The greatest tragedy in this world is the failure to provide a family, a shelter of love, for the
child.
Parental Authority
Parental Authority is natural and essential for the governance of the family. It is natural because
it flows from the responsibility of procreating and educating the offspring. It is essential because
without it the goals of the family would be impossible to attain.
The FAMILY CODE provides that "the father and the mother shall jointly exercise parental
authority over the person of their common children" and that such children shall respect and
submit themselves to this authority (Art. 211). Parents cannot renounce or transfer such parental
authority unless decreed by law (Art. 210). Parental Authority shall include "the caring for and
the rearing (children) for civic consciousness and efficiency and the development of their moral,
mental and physical character and well being (Art. 209).
Filial Piety
derived from the latin word "filius" or son, is the love and devotion which children must profess
to their parents
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Filial piety is a natural duty of children. Children are flesh and blood extension of their parents.
They owe parents, not only a debt of gratitude, but a sacred obligation of homage. The
Confucians make filial piety the supreme virtue from which all others are derived.
Hsiao Ching writes:
He who lives his parents does not dare to hate others. He who reverences his parents does
not dare to act contemptuously towards others. By love and reverence being perfectly fulfilled in
the service of his parents, his moral influence is shed upon the people and he becomes pattern for
all the border of nations. This is the filial piety of the Son of Heaven (R.C. Zaehner, The Catholic
Church and World Religions, p. 60).
Respect, loyalty and devotion to parents are positive traits of Filipinos. Neglect of parents,
especially in their sickness or old age, is regarded as an act of supreme ingratitude, a criminal act
deserving of God's punishment.
Duties of Children
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Child Prostitution
Child prostitution is a lamentable fact in our country. Sexual exploitation and abuse of children
is grossly immoral. Those who procure, entice, seduce, or use children is grossly immoral.
The integrity of the body and soul belongs even to a child who has received them from God and
not from their parents. Neither the parents, nor the child himself, has the right to sell the function
of the human body for sexual gratification even if the anticipated profit and advantage is
enormous.
Child Labor
The child labor is a source of joy. But the cry of pain and anguish of a child penetrates the heart,
wounding it mortally. We cannot truly be happy while millions of children are hungry and
starving in the streets.
The filipino culture , especially in the agricultural sector, welcomes the idea of children working
in the fields with the parents. Within the bounds of prudence, such work done by children is
praiseworthy. It teaches them the positive value of work and helps them attain self-reliance.
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The State has the duty to look after the welfare of the citizens, including that children abandoned
by their parents. The way we treat our children especially "street children", is the true measure of
our civilization.
If children must work, there must be sufficient laws to protect them from abuses and
exploitation.
Prepared by:
Larry S. De la Cruz
Jessie Y. Concepcion
Rey Eusebio
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