Principles and Practices of Biblical Counseling I
Principles and Practices of Biblical Counseling I
Principles and Practices of Biblical Counseling I
• Course Purpose:
2. Provide the opportunity for students to formulate their own modifications to the
counseling models presented.
TO. Definition
1. What it is not
2. What is it
b. Responsible
1. Shepherd
2. Members
3. Resources we have to advise
1. The Holy Spirit
2. The Word of God
3. Brothers with gifts of exhortation
VII. Cases
The local church is the instrument Christ has designated to help believers grow into
His image and likeness. CB, along with preaching, teaching, evangelization and
discipleship, is an essential part of the ministry of the local church, as it helps
instruct and helps form the image of Christ in believers.
Paul had this goal in mind when he says in Col. 1:28: whom we proclaim,
admonishing every man, and teaching every man in all wisdom, that we may present
every man perfect in Christ Jesus ; 29 for which I also work, striving according to his
power, which works mightily in me.
Present perfect or mature to every man in Christ.
b. CB is the responsibility of every believer and the only suitable ground is the
church.
1) Responsibility of Pastors: Ephesians 4:12-13: Pastors must equip the saints for the
work of the ministry, for the building up of the body of Christ until we all reach the
measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ .
2) Members:
Pastors equip the saints so that (as v. 16), they use their gifts, talents and abilities to
help the needs of others. 16 from whom the whole body, well coordinated and united to
each other by all the joints that mutually help each other, according to the proper activity
of each member, receives its growth to build itself up in love.
AND. Expand and reinforce the confidence of God's people in the truth that the
Scriptures are sufficient, superior and practical to face all the situations that arise in
this life. Convince believers that the resources we have in Christ and in His Word
are not only sufficient to carry out and solve all the personal and interpersonal
problems of life, but also superior to those we find in the world.
F. See how secular psychology has infiltrated and influenced the church of the 20th
century.
There is a Greek word for advise (there is not just one) that tells us a lot about advising. It
is the word NOUTESIA, which comes from NOUTESIS (name) and NOUTETEO
(verb) which means to put in mind, warn, admonish.
Greek word definition in its nominal and verbal form (Vine's Dictionary): 1)
NOUTESIA: Nouthesia, Nominal Form (Name): To put in mind (nous: mind;
tithemi: to put)
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2) Nouthetheo, Verb
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c) Expanded definition:
Dr. J. Adams calls counseling a "nouthetic confrontation."
This nouthetic confrontation or concept of noutesia has 3 basic elements:
1) CHANGE" through
2) CONFRONTATION (COMMUNICATION) due to a
3) INTEREST
b. Members
All of God's work in us, touching our heart, personality, and behavior, is done by
the Spirit, although aspects of it are sometimes attributed to the Father and the Son,
whose executive is the Holy Spirit.
He works in the lives of believers through: The ministry of the Word, which is the
instrument par excellence used by God to sanctify us.
2 ) Prayer
Epaphras: A Model of Intercessory Prayer
Colossians 4:12-13
He prayed:
• Constantly
• Fervently
• Definitely (Specific People)
• With Specific Requests
• Sacrificially
It is our duty to pray for others, as we see illustrated in the life of Paul:
Romans 1:8-10, 10:1, 12:12, 15:5-6, 15:13, 30-33; 1 Corinthians 1:4-9, 16:23; 2
Corinthians 16:23, 1:3-7, 2:14-16, 9:12-15, 12:7-9a, 13:7-9; Galatians 6:8; Ephesians
1:3ff; 1:15-22, 3:14-21, 6:19-20; Philippians 1:3-6, 9-11, 4:6-7, 23; Colossians 1:3-14,
4:2-4, 1 Thess. 1:2-3, 2:13-16, 3:9-13, 5:23-24, 28; 2 Thess. 1:3ff, 1:11-12, 2:16-17, 3:2-
5, 3:16; 1 Timothy 1:12, 2:1ff, 2 Timothy 4:22, Philemon 4-7
In conclusion, only the ES can change a person's heart, making it the indispensable agent
in all CB.
The counselor can present the counselee with biblical truth to induce change, but only the
ES guides to the truth, opens the understanding, transforms the heart.
In the Scriptures we have all the resources to deal with people with problems.
4) They don't know how to do the right thing (they haven't been corrected).
5) They have not been trained correctly (reprogrammed). Educated in justice.
The Scriptures make us wise for salvation (justification) and the Holy Spirit also
uses them as a source of all change in the believer (sanctification).
2) Sanctification: A gradual process (not an act) by which the Holy Spirit enables the
believer to shed sinful patterns of life and replace them with holy patterns.
So we see that Scripture has the power to transform our standing before God
(justification) and our state (sanctification).
Note: The theologian Berkoff, speaking of the clarity of the Scriptures, tells us:
“That knowledge necessary for salvation, although it is not equally clear on each
page of the Scriptures, is communicated to man through the Bible in such a simple
and complete way. that a person who is sincerely seeking salvation can easily obtain
this knowledge for himself.”
Testimony of Christ
The Word of God
d) PD changes people gradually, conforms them to the image of God, sanctifies
them. 2 Timothy 3:16-17.
When we compare our lives to the biblical standard, we recognize that we fall far short of
the love of God and neighbor, and we are reproached for our sin. Every authentic change
in the sinful life takes place at a deeper level through conviction. Where there is no
conviction of sin there is no biblically acceptable change.
The Word of God
We go from content to behavior.
3) Correct: Lift, strengthen. It exposes false beliefs, false teachings, and restores us
to our position.
They correct: Confession (admission) of sin and seeking God's fatherly forgiveness is
the next step in biblical change. This repentance, or change of attitude in the mind, leads
to a change in behavior.
4) Instruct in justice.
Train a child, strengthen him, lift him up, grow him, bring him to maturity.
It is not enough to get out of the sin and misery into which we have fallen; We must
know how to avoid these sins and be free from them in the future. We must be
rehabituated according to biblical guidelines.
The Word of God
e) PD is only effective when it is applied sovereignly by the work of the ES.
PD produces everything we saw above when ES applies it to people's lives.
f) PD is effective in people to the extent that they receive it in faith (believing) and
obey it in its teachings.
We believe and obey because of God's work in us. God does this in the context of
receiving it with faith.
Application:
Don't think that you can't change because you are old, you have this or that sin, etc.
PD can restore us, quicken us, change us to be useful for the kingdom of God.
The Word of God
Final thoughts:
Scripture is enough in our lives and we do not need any other book or any other
help.
When God says that He inspired His word, He is telling us that what is written is
as valid as if He had spoken to us audibly. If the reader of the Scriptures were to hear
God speak they would find that God would say nothing more, nothing less, or anything
different than what is written.
The ministry of the Word in counseling is unique and different from any other
system because of its basis of authority. Because the Bible is the inerrant Word of God it
has AUTHORITY. Example: When a person asks: Should I pay taxes? How should I
treat my wife? How should I educate my children? We have God's answer in the
Scriptures.
Christians' authority for biblical counseling comes not from them, but from the
Word of God. The authority with which we advise is divine .
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In reality, this has left many feeling that PD is incomplete, insufficient, and
unable to help people who have emotional and spiritual problems. This has led millions
of Christians to seek spiritual help, not in the church, but in psychology clinics. It has left
many with the impression that adapting secular methods of recovery (such as the 12 Steps
of Alcoholics Anonymous), can be more helpful than spiritual means in dealing with
people's souls.
In short, the church's confidence in the resources that God has given us to
deal with souls has diminished: the PD, the ES, prayer, preaching, communion, the
gifts given by Christ to His church. That is, the means that God uses to transform
lives and make them grow in holiness.
What is Psychology? It is the science that studies the psychic activity and behavior
of organisms.
What's wrong with psychology? Psychology means study of the soul, but a true
study of the soul cannot be done by an unbeliever, someone who is dead, blind and a
slave to sin. Only Christians have the resources to understand the nature of the soul
and how it can be transformed.
Psychology is based on assumptions and evolutionary foundations and can only deal with
people superficially and temporarily. Sigmund Freud, the father of modern psychology,
was a disbelieving humanist who presented modern psychology as a substitute for
religion.
Before Freud, the study of the soul was considered a spiritual discipline, that is, it
was associated with religion. Freud's great contribution was defining the soul and the
study of human behavior in secular terms. He separated the study of human beings
(anthropology) from the spiritual realm, and with this opened the way to atheistic,
humanistic, and rationalist theories of human behavior.
3) The key to understanding and correcting a person's attitudes and actions lies
somewhere in their past
4) Individuals' problems are the result of what someone has done to them.
7) The Scriptures, prayer and the Holy Spirit are inadequate and simplistic
resources to solve certain problems.
Grades:
1) Psychological techniques can be used in vocation tests, tests for jobs.
What does God think of these “Christian” counselors who want to represent him,
but who rely on human wisdom? ,
Job 12:17-20
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Value Magazine said: There are more people than ever seeking help from psychologists
and psychiatrists, who have supplanted the pastor and priest.
But what happens? Counselors, psychotherapists, psychologists and psychiatrists have no
reference points for treating what they call mental problems. They do not agree on what
constitutes paranoia, schizophrenia, etc.
Counselors analyze and treat problems according to the school to which they belong:
Freud, Skinner, Rogers. In counseling and psychotherapy there is no philosophy that
unifies all models.
7. About the role of the counselor: counselor-advisee interaction. This is based on what
the counselor believes.
YO. PSYCHODYNAMICS
TO. Key Figures: Sigmund Freud, Alfred Adler, Coral Young, Sullivan, Erickson,
France Alexander.
I have a great capacity to forget about things I don't want to do. If I have a responsibility
that I don't like, it is very easy to plan other things, without remembering the appointment
I had.
Therefore, I have to keep a book of appointments I make and invitations I accept so that I
don't accept other commitments that would conflict with the things I'm already
committed to doing.
Some people develop a headache when they have to do something unpleasant. Others
develop other kinds of illnesses, which are a form of rebellion against what one has to do.
These “forgetfulness”, pains and illnesses are the work of the unconscious in each of us.
It is evidence of a force that operates within and exerts its power in our behavior in such a
way that it protests the things we have to do without wanting to do them.
These cases illustrate the power of the unconscious in each person. Siegmund Freud
is the person who made a distinctive contribution to humanity through his studies of
the unconscious and its power over man.
b. Basic Philosophy
1. The internal forces over which man has little control are at the center of human
personality.
4. Man, in most cases, is aware of the causes that generate his actions. He doesn't know
why he does what he does.
5. The two basic instincts of man are the pursuit of pleasure (Eros) and power or
destruction (Thanatos).
4. All children want to have sexual relations with their mothers (Oedipus complex).
[Everyone wants to kill their parents]. It can be conscious or unconscious.
6. Human beings struggle their entire lives between heterosexual and homosexual desires.
(Desires for normal and homosexual sex: Bisexualism)
7. First (5) years in a person's life are of critical importance.
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8. Problems arise because man's basic instincts or desires (impulses) are impeded
(frustrated) or have not been fulfilled. Neurotic symptoms and behaviors represent
unconscious conflicts.
9. Problems are resolved when people become aware of their unconscious conflicts and
relive their past experiences.
d. Key concepts
1. Unconscious Forces:
Man's behavior is influenced or caused by conflicts, motivations, frustrations, fears,
inhibitions of which he is not consciously aware.
The ID is made up of the deposit of all the impulses that result from our nature and
at the same time serve as a memory bank for all the experiences that come as a
result of all the stimuli from the outside world.
They store the negative and painful experiences that we have and that we do not
understand through the process of repression. We have not forgotten the
experiences, but they have left their traces in the memory bank and can affect our
current behavior.
The activities of the ID (It) are amoral, that is, they are neither good nor bad. It is
the expression of impulses in response to stimuli that create good or bad behavior.
Unconscious force that operates according to the pleasure principle. Seek pleasure,
satisfaction.
EGO (I): We must recognize another part of the human mind and the process of
thinking and functioning. Freud called this part the Ego or the SELF. The Ego is the
part that acts as a gatekeeper between the influences of the outside world and the
ID.
Intermediate force between the ID and the super ego. Regulates and controls the ID.
It works according to the reality principle. Find a way to satisfy the ID without
violating the super ego. Ex: Having sex with your mother is not acceptable.
SUPER/EGO (Super Ego): Functions according to the moral principle. Sense of right
and wrong.
It is driven partly by society and partly by the parents' scale of values, also by the
influences of family, teachers, religious leaders of people of importance in their culture
and social environment, and the value system that comes from all that set. of influences.
Ex.: Having sex with your mother is BAD.
When parents are very strict and prohibit the child from doing many things, and punish
him severely, they can create a child with a weak Ego, afraid to exercise authority. It will
always be in submission to the prohibitions of authority, whether political, religious, or
other systems.
But the same child can rebel against these prohibitions, and express his discontent
through disobedience or rebellion. This is seen in men who have never solved the
problem of their relationship with authority and hardly adapt to an organization where
there is a hierarchy of authority.
Note: in a certain sense we can say that the Id and the Super Ego represent the
influences that come from the past. Those of the Id are predominantly the influences of
heredity, those of the Ego are those of the environment, and the Ego represents what the
person does with these influences.
a) Oral Stage
Erotic sensation from sucking his finger. Child less than 1 year old. Learn to trust or
distrust.
4. Anxiety
Repression of ID and super ego conflicts produces anxiety.
Ex.: Repressing wanting to kill your father produces anxiety.
5. Ego Defense Mechanisms: To relieve anxiety and tension, the person loses contact
with reality, rationalizes (tries to excuse behavior), denial (refuses to recognize painful
thoughts, feelings: denies them).
b. Basic Philosophy.
1. All human conduct (behavior) is determined or caused. (They are deterministic). The
causes of the behavior can be discovered.
They are born neutral, they are not influenced by internal forces. [It is different
psychodynamics).
5. Human problems are caused by faulty learning and conditioning. Man is conditioned to
behave in a particular way due to the influence on his life of adults and environmental
influences.
6. Problems are solved by learning more appropriate, functional and adaptive behavior
patterns.
7. Counseling should be based and verified by the scientific method and experimental
results.
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1. Conditioning: people react in a specific way because they have been conditioned to do
so. There is classical and instrumental conditioning.
3. Generalization
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6. Focus on present behavior not on the past. They deal with the person's present
behavior.
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d. Treatment
1. Help the client eliminate maladaptive behavior and learn more effective behavior
patterns.
The Counselor : Does not emphasize the personal relationship. He is an active and direct
teacher or coach.
The Advised:
Decide treatment goals.
Use the techniques.
Does assignments at home (homework).
Practice the new behavior.
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1. Systematic desensitization.
3. Overflow.
5. Operant conditioning.
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III. HUMANISM (existential humanism)
Customer focused. Therapy, third force psychology.
b. Basic Philosophy
1. Every human being is inherently good.
2. Man is basically rational and constructive in his orientation.
Rational: Man knows where he is going, he moves towards a goal or objective.
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Man has, within him, all the potential to use resources in a positive way. He always
chooses what is best for him and the people around him.
5. Each person should have the right to have their own beliefs and thoughts without
outside influences. I am my own authority, my own standard.
Total self determination. Do not depend on anyone. You are self-sufficient, self-
determined*.
9. Problems are solved to the extent that people are taught to trust themselves.
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c. Key concepts
1. Man has the resources, the potential to solve his own problems.
3. People have a need to feel unconditionally and positively esteemed by others and by
themselves.
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5. The feeling of guilt is the result of not becoming fully what one is capable of
becoming.
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d. Treatment
1. Help the counselee become aware of his inhibitions and lack of self-confidence.
2. Help the counselee trust himself to realize and develop his own potential.
3. Help the counselee be willing to be in process and live by internal rather than external
standards.
4. Help the counselee become what he or she can become, a self-actualized person; and
fully functioning.
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Provides the climate in which the counselee feels free to express themselves and explore
their feelings in depth without fear or shame.
The Advised
Transfer what you learn to your relationship with the counselor, and with other people
and situations.
He begins to trust himself and accepts responsibility for his own life.
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F. Techniques
The techniques are not important. In fact, they can be harmful; They can dehumanize the
person and prevent them from developing their total humanity.
The relationship is the fundamental part of the therapeutic process. Humanists emphasize
the importance of listening and active listening, showing your feelings, and clarification.
Sometimes some may use techniques that are borrowed from psychoanalysis, Gestalt and
TA Approaches.
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Explanation of man's problem: They do not talk about sin, depravity, guilt.
Atheists: They deny the existence of God in a practical way. God is not an important part
of their system. It is not an important part of the solution.
Explanation of man's problem: They do not talk about sin, depravity, guilt.
Created for a purpose: Glory of God . Ap. 4:11 and enjoy Him forever and not to
satisfy your own desires or needs.
a) We have conviction: good and bad things. We know what is good and what is bad.
b) Man has rebelled against God, he is dead in his crimes and sins, he is an enemy of
God, he does not seek Him.
1) Man is depraved: he uses his mental process to interpret life for himself. Choose what
you shouldn't. He does not use his abilities to glorify God. Cabbage. 1
b) Responsibility of man
1) God does not take away man's responsibility for his problems.
Gen. 3. Adam blamed Eve and Eve blamed the serpent.
Man is responsible before God, it is not that he was socialized incorrectly or that he was
born with instincts that he does not control.
c. Advising phases
1) Biblical involvement between the counselor and the counselee
2) Research (data collection)
3) Interpretation
4) Instruction: repentance or commitment
5) Implement