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Lesson 3:

Becoming Responsible
in Personal Relationships

Prepared by: MS. JEDDAH LYNN ABELLON


Situation 1: Conflict with the Parents
You had an agreement with your parents that you
would finish senior high school without engaging in
a relationship. However, you fell in love with this
guy/girl that made you more inspired to study hard
and make a lot of achievements. How will you
handle this kind of situation?
Situation 2: Conflict with your best friend
You were courted by a varsity player who is so
popular in your school. You are also aware that he is
your best friend’s long-time crush. How would you
keep the friendship without sacrificing your own
happiness?
Situation 3: Conflict with your best friend
You are courting a student who is not so popular in
your school. You know well that your friends will
mock her for she is not their type. Though you found
her so important and very special to you. How would
you make your friends accept her as your special
someone?
Situation 4: Conflict with your Significant Other
You work with your friends on your research paper. Most of
the time you are with your girl/boyfriend. Your actions and
words are so familiar with each other that is why you get
along with each other so easily and work well too without
any difficult feelings except when your girlfriend/boyfriend
expresses jealousy over your friend. How would you help
build confidence and trust in your relationship so that you
both surpass this problem?
Importance of
Relationship
 Valuing the feelings of our family, friends, and
partner or significant other can only be evident
if we open our eyes to realize the importance
of that relationship.
 The significance of any relationship can never
be realized if we cannot see the beauty that it
brings in our lives. The moment we realize
how relationships actually shape us as a
person is the moment that we realize the
importance of relationships in our interactions
and behavior.
1. Lead us to make healthy relationships. All
kinds of relationships can give you the
opportunities to establish a stronger relationship
with your shared experiences and feelings with
your loved ones.
2. Help us see our potential. People who love
you will always see the wonderful things in you.
Through this loving and supportive atmosphere,
you little by little grow as a person, seeing your
worth with your capabilities and unique gift and
talent.
3. Boost our confidence. It makes you feel
you’re the luckiest person in the world
whenever someone trusts you sufficiently
enough. It makes your spirit enthusiastic and
gives you the delightful feeling of self-
assurance.
4. Give you a sense of direction. The idea and
feeling of sense of belongingness is such a
great source of direction. If you care to give
yourself the reward of having a good life and
reputation, you will absolutely do more for the
people you dearly love.
5. Clear our life goals and aspirations.
Relationships will help you focus on one goal
and concentrate in achieving it because as the
sun sets you know you have someone whom
you can pleasingly offer and share the blissful
feeling of a victorious life with.
6. Build a beautiful person within you. Having all
the positive attitudes towards life and oneself
can really create a good aura. Portraying good
personalities can even make you appear and
feel young and lovely.
Becoming
Responsible in a
Relationship
6 Major Elements of Becoming Responsible in a
Relationship

1. Mutual Respect
Lack of respect absolutely brings people to an
unpleasant environment and pushes people from
respecting one another and themselves, too.
“Do unto others what you would want
others to do unto you.”
 This line means a person shall not trespass in
his rights or put someone down when he/she
is wrong. We certainly know how well we
should respect people but whenever we are in
a relationship.
 It is essential to consider this, so in order for
us to gain respect from our loved ones or vice
versa, we should instead use encouraging
words and learn the art of acceptance to
someone’s unique personality or traits and
lastly practice the principle of forgive and
forget.
2. Value Quality Time
Having time for fun will absolutely help you
create more memories worth treasuring. Quality
time with your loved ones may mean learning to
love them more.
 For instance, in a family, each member should
learn to take serious matters in a separate
occasion and spend precious moments with
one another creating good memories together.
 For a group of people to have some quality
time, each of them must have a very
optimistic aura and jolly personality. Jolly
personality is always and obviously
appreciated by most of the people.
Though others may consider different means of
spending quality time with others as sitting
quietly together while watching the sunset or
reading their favorite novel together over a cup
of coffee, as well.
3. Trust and Honesty
Every person deserves to be trusted by
someone dear to them particularly by family,
friends, and significant other. It is through
genuine trust that person feels a sense of
belongingness and a feeling of being loved.
 The person who consistently receives
someone’s trust will definitely grow trusting
him/herself based on how others trust him/her.
Indeed, positive encouragement may create a
positive outlook in life.
 Trust is the heart of all relationships, and
because of its presence, other things follow
like confidence, loyalty, and most of all
honesty.
 However, for one to completely trust and be
trusted, you must realize that the first step
towards it is honesty. Trust is earned as they
say, but we should also remember that it is
not easy to be honest when you know that no
one trusts you.
4. Well-Communicated Love
Love we felt may certainly start any form of
relationship. However, it is not the thing that can
keep it. Love is just a feeling. What really keeps
any relationship is the love that is well-
communicated.
 Open communication is one of the most
essential elements for any kind of relationship
to keep it going. How can we say that our love
is well-communicated?
 Means of showing well-communicated love
may seem to be very simple for everyone, but
in reality, it requires lot of effort. It is not easy
to consistently cheer someone up when you
yourself are having a hard time. Though, that
thing per se can make your actions look so
genuine and worthy of being cherished.
5. Reliability and Security
Each one of us dearly loves to have somebody
whom we can depend on and who will
guarantee to protect us from any harm or
trouble at any circumstance.
This virtue teaches everyone the value of
recognizing someone’s imperfections that
he/she is ready to extend him/herself to the
person. This act of kindness will definitely foster
a sense of connection, security, and relief.
A hand that is ready to help would definitely
make someone feel he/she is well-taken care of
by someone. This feeling would also develop a
sense of responsibility since he/she would be
aware of his/her attitude and behavior for
he/she is being looked upon.
As this affection consistently and mutually
exists in both parties, a stronger relationship
might start to develop.
6. Non-judgmental Listening and Presence
Who among us would like to be in a company of
people who do not have the heart to listen and
give us a chance to explain our sides first?
Most people would find this situation totally
unfair.
In order to avoid this, listening is the key factor
that makes communication prosper. Sincere
listening is also a kind of expressing how
genuine you communicate your love and
affection to someone special to you.
Listening with a high value of integrity indicates
your presence which is non-judgmental and not
discriminatory.
If we desire to have a stronger relationship with
anyone, we should have the characteristic of a
good listener. Being a good listener helps one
to become a good adviser for he/she could
easily discern pieces of advice that could
alleviate someone’s feelings.
After sharing your thoughts and experience to
someone close to you, you will definitely feel
unburdened as if a heavy stone was lifted from
your chest. The weight of your anxiety, worries,
and doubts could diminish just simply by having
someone to listen to you without judgment and
prejudice.
This kind of experience will precisely increase
your tendency to reciprocate the love, trust,
honesty, and sense of encouragement,
reliability, and security toward another.
No matter what words we use to express the
key factors that will make a healthy relationship,
do not forget that it always takes two to tango.
For a relationship to grow and become
successful, parties involved should take their
own sets of responsibility.
Remember that being and choosing to be part
of any relationship by any circumstance
requires commitment. Committing oneself
means offering the best version of yourself
while still learning to accept and wait till the
other party will be able to do the same.
Parent-Child Relationship
1. “Remember that you are loved for whoever and
whatever you become.”
2. “If you don’t succeed you will not get what you
want from us.”
3. “You are such a big dismay to this family.”
4. “Thank you so much for trying to make us proud.”
5. “Sorry If I have disappointed you.”
Friendship
6. “Always remember that no matter what happens,
we will always have each other’s back.”
7. “Sorry I didn’t mean what I said.”
8. “Let us go through this together.”
9. “It’s not my fault, it’s all yours.”
10. “You don’t need to be so sorry. People do really
make mistakes.”
Couple
11. “You know I’m good at this, so let me handle this.”
12. “Let us trust each other and do what we have to do.”
13. “You have exhausted yourself honey, take a rest for a
while.”
14. “You have to thank me for I have always saved you from
your mess.”
15. “Sorry for my imperfections and thank you for accepting
them with all your heart.”
QUESTIONS?
: Please get ¼ sheet of paper.
: ¼ ma’am?
: Yes, ¼.
Read each questions carefully. Write
the letter of the correct answer. Write
your answers in CAPITAL LETTERS.
1. What is likely to happen when two people
shared mutual love? Their relationship will:
A. Grow in numbers alone
B. Be pleasing
C. For everybody grow and become stronger
D. Be broken and get separated
2. What personality does a good and real friend must
have to make the relationship stronger?
A. Envious
B. Assertive
C. Assertive gregarious
D. Compassionate
3. What should a family avoid to maintain the
trust in each member?
A. Affection
B. Dishonesty
C. Disagreement
D. Encouragement
4. What item will BEST make a good romantic
relationship or partnership to last?
A. Infidelity
B. Generosity
C. Insecurities
D. Communication
5. What item does NOT show a proper way of
communicating one’s love and affection to
someone?
A. Warm embrace
B. Frequent nagging
C. A tap on a shoulder
D. A kiss on the cheek
6. Being a good listener also entails being a
good ____________.
A. Adviser
B. Teacher
C. Partner
D. Provider
7. Which statement shows the meaning of “Respect
begets respect”?
A. You should respect others for them to trust you.
B. You should respect others for them to accept you.
C. You should respect others for them to respect
you.
D. You should respect others for them to encourage
you.
8. What is likely to be developed by a person
when he/she is able to experience the
sense of reliability from his/her loved ones?
A. He/she will become loyal.
B. He/she will become honest.
C. He/she will become sensible.
D. He/she will become responsible.
9. Which is NOT true about having mutual
respect?
A. Only one party shows respect.
B. It makes the relationship stronger.
C. It develops wholesome relationships.
D. Both parties try to understand one another.
10. How can relationships help you have a
sense of direction?
A. It helps me reach my own goal.
B. It helps me gain opportunities I need.
C. It helps me aim to share a good life to my
loved ones.
D. It helps me project my concentration to the
priorities of both.
11. What will be your BEST reason for valuing
relationships?
A. It is the only way to get rid of my bad habits.
B. It is the way to become the best version of
myself.
C. It is the first thing to establish connection with
everyone.
D. It is the first step for me to become the person I
dreamed to be.
12. How important is honesty in any relationship?
A. It creates miscommunication between you and
your loved ones.
B. It is the only means of making the relationship
stronger and firmer.
C. It is like the last piece of the puzzle that makes
any relationship complete.
D. It is through one's honesty that he/she gains the
trust of his/her loved ones.
13. Why is it important for us to become
responsible in our relationships?
A. It helps us live a good life.
B. It gives us delightful feelings.
C. It makes us the most important person.
D. It helps us see the beautiful people around
us.
14. Why is understanding the value of relationships
important for you to study?
A. It leads me to assess my own relationship.
B. It leads to re-examine how people deal with me.
C. It leads me to change my values for the sake of
others.
D. It leads me to the reality that no relationship is
perfect.
15. What things clearly show that one person
gives importance to his/her relationship?
A. He/she values his/her potential.
B. He/she values his/her reputation.
C. He/she values opportunities he/she receives.
D. He/she values the feelings of his/her loved
ones.

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