UTS-The Sexual Self
UTS-The Sexual Self
UTS-The Sexual Self
Estrogen and Regulate motivation to engage in sexual behavior for women, with
progesterone estrogen increasing motivation and progesterone decreasing it.
Understanding
the Chemistry of
Lust, Love and
Attachment
Anthropologist Helen Fisher proposed three stages of falling in
love and for each stage, a different set of chemicals run the show.
• Marked by physical
attraction
• You want to seduce and be
seduced by your object of
affection
• Will not guarantee, however,
that the couple will fall in
love in any lasting way
• Norepinephrine – responsible
for the extra surge of energy and
triggers increased heart rate, loss
of appetite, as well as the desire to
sleep. The body is more alert and
is ready for action.
• Dopamine – associated with
motivation and goal-directed
behavior. It makes you pursue
your object of affection. It creates a
sense of novelty, where the person
seems exciting, special, or unique
that you want to tell the world
about his or her admirable traits.
• Serotonin – low levels are found
in people who are in love
Involves the desire to have
lasting commitment with
your significant other.
Psychological aspect of sexual desire
• Sexual desire is typically viewed as an interest in sexual objects or
activities, and is sometimes, but not always, accompanied by genital
arousal.
• Sexual desire can be triggered by a large variety of cues and situations,
including private thoughts, feelings, and fantasies, erotic materials
(books, movies, photographs), and a variety of erotic environment,
situations or social interactions.
• Sexual desire is often confused with sex drive.
Sex drive represents a basic, biologically mediated motivation to
seek sexual activity or gratification.
Sexual desire represents a more complex psychological
experience that is not dependent on hormonal factors.
Psychological aspect of sexual desire
• Factors the influence notable gender differences on sexual desire:
– Culture
– Social environment
– Political situations
• Men are more visual while women are auditory and tactile.
• Women may place great emphasis on interpersonal relationships
while males enjoy a more casual sexual behavior.
• Early human females practiced selective mating with carefully chosen
males to achieve maximum reproductive success, while no such
pressure was evident on men. This may have favoured the evolution of
stronger sexual desires in men than in women.