There Is No Use For Gender Roles Today
There Is No Use For Gender Roles Today
There Is No Use For Gender Roles Today
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Dec15,2015
Thereisnouseforgenderrolestoday.
Inthehistoryofmankind,wehaveprogressedfurtherandfurthereachgeneration.We
haveacceptedmanymodernideas,butthere'salwaysacontroversyoveronemodernidea,the
roleofgenderinsociety.Foryears,humanityhasbeencontenttohave2genders,maleand
female.However,inrecenttimes,peopleexpresseddifferentsexualviews.Alongwiththat,
cametheviewsthatmaybeitshouldbesociallyacceptableformalesandfemalestogooutof
thesocialnormsdictatedforthem.Thishasledmetotheconclusionthatgenderrolesarent
necessaryanymore.Genderrolesarentbeingfollowedinthehome,intheworkplace,and
ultimately,theyaremoreharmfulthanhelpful.
Genderroleshavehadtheirplace,butnowisthetimetoretirethesenotions.
Foryears,manyofusinAmericahavereliedonthenuclearfamilymodelforsuccessinwork,
inthehome,andinlife.Thenuclearmodelexpectswomentobethecaretakerofthefamily,
andthemantobethebreadwinnersandthedecisionmakersforthefamily
However,thismodelisoutdatedandAmericasviewsontherolesgendershaveexpanded
lately.Inthepast3decades,theratesofdivorce,singleparenting,andcohabitationhaverisen
precipitously.Andthesedevelopmentscomefromagroupofpeoplewhowerebornandraised
tocountmarriageandparenthoodasimportantmilestonesofansuccessfuladulthood
Americaseemstohaveleftthenuclearfamilymodelbehind,despitethepersistentbeliefoftheir
eldersthatistheblueprintforhappinessandmoralrectitude.(Salon.com,AmyBenfer)From
thisevidence,itshowsbystatingmoreandmorepeopledontfollowthefamilymodel.The
averageAmericanfamilyismorediversethanever.Foreverypersoncontentwiththismodel,
thereisatleastonepersonwhodiffersfromthenuclearfamilymodel.Thesedays,amale
fathermightdohousework,andthemotherthebreadwinner,orhomosexualparents,asingle
parentlivingwiththeirchild.Allthese,andmoredontfallintothenuclearfamilymodel.The
modelwillbeleftbehind,andhopefullygenderroleswilltoo.
Genderrolesarentheretostay.Somemightarguethatnaturehasingrainedwithinus
thatbiologicalmalesneedtobeprotectorsandwomenarebetterbuilttobeempathicallyand
bettercaretakers.Whileinpasttimesthismightvebeentrue,recently
thejobsarentrestrictedtoacertaingenderroleespeciallysincewecandoanyroleinalmost
anygender.Oneexample,wouldbe,womeninthemilitary.Whiletherehasbeenmanypoints
againstallowingwomeninourmilitary,mostpeoplehashadfaithinthestrengthandabilityof
womentodefendthiscountryaswellasmen.(Idebate.org)Manypeoplehaveshownthatthey
havetypicalmasculineorfemininebehaviorsthatdoesntmeantheyareanylessthanwhat
theyregenderidentityis.
Queerssubvertthegendersystem.Gaymenlovemalesandarenot
adequatelymachoandaggressive.Lesbianslovewomenandareinsufficientlypassiveand
dependentonmen.That'swhywe'repersecuted.Ournonconformitythreatensthesystem
whichsustainsthesocialhegemonyofmaleheterosexualityandmisogyny(petertatchell,
petertatchell.net,subvertingthegendersystem)
explicate:Thishasbeenshownbycountless
essaysandtests,thatnoteveryoneiscomfortablewithwhatsocietysaystheymustbe.Itsno
longerneededforamantobehypermasculineorprovesomethingtotherestoftheworld.
Whenoursocietyhasadvancedsomuchinthelastcenturyorso,thisoutdatedideathat
genderrolesaresignificantlimitusasawhole.
Genderrolesharmusmorethantheyhelp.Somesaythatcertaingenderroleshavea
placebecausethearenaturalandhavebeenforcenturies.Buttherealtruthis,genderroles
haveevolvedovertheyears,andeachcultureseesgenderrolesdifferently.Aprevalentview
regardinggenderlinkedbehavioristhatthequalitiesculturesassociatewithmasculinityor
femininityarenotinnatelymaleorfemale.Thesearesociallyconstructedroles.(UTSA.eduon
powerpoint,slide6)Naturedidntintendforustohavegenderroles.Someofushavecome
fromfromsocietieswherewomenareexpectedtoactacertainway.Thiscamenotfromnature
butanideathatwomenprimarilyshowthesetraitsandwhatallwomenshouldbe.Thisalso
appliesforguysaswell.Whiletestosteronedoesplayintoseveralfactors,assumingguyslike
showingaggressionandshouldinordertoseemmorelikeamandoesn'tseemreasonable.
Withpeopleconstantlymakingtheseassumptions,itwouldbeeasiertojustgetridofgender
rolesinthe1stplace.
Genderrolesaredetrimentaltotolerateinoursociety,andweshouldletgoofthose
notions.Genderrolesarentnatural,sociallycreatedbyourprimitiveancestors.,Jobsareno
longerrestrictedtoonegender,onecouldandshoulddoaswhatevertheywish.Whilestudies
haveshownthatmalesaremoreaggressiveandwomenaremoreemotional,thatdoesntmean
thatawomenhastoshowthattrait.Peoplecanhavebothhavefeminineandandmasculine
traits,andthatwontchangethematall.Whatshouldandwillchangeishowsocietyviews
ourselves,notasgender,butasanindividual.
Bibliography:
1.AmyBenfer,Thenuclearfamilytakesahit,Salon.com,SalonMediaGroupInc.,Dec15,
2015
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http://www.salon.com/2001/06/07/family_values_2/
2.PeterTatchell,Subvertingthegendersystem,PeterTatchell.net,PeterTatchellFoundation,10/12/2015,12/4/
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3.CultureandGender,UniversityofTexasatSanAntonio,slide6